Serious Does anyone else find the concept of kissing weird/alien and mildly gross?

[RageAgainstTDL]

By default, everyone's breath naturally stinks. No one's breath is good unless it's artificially/temporarily altered with mints, chewing gum, mouthwash etc. The human mouth is teeming with bacteria. Something like 80% of adults also have HSV1 (herpes cold sore virus) which they can shed any time even if you don't see it. The inside of your mouth and tongue is all slimy. Many girls have hairy upper lips. If you have TMJ problems your jaw doesn't even work properly to begin with.

When I jerk off, I pretty much never fantasize about kissing a girl. I don't honestly understand the appeal. Even when I see a hot girl, that's the last thing on my mind. I want to grab some tit/ass or even use my mouth on her body (eg. tits etc) but kissing never really crosses my mind. The only time I think about kissing is when I'm watching VR porn and the girl goes in for a "kiss" then it's unavoidable.

I feel like the entire concept is kind of gross and seems very uncomfortable and awkward.

Anyone else see it this way? What's the draw/appeal?

(Just to be clear there's a rule against bragging of course so I'm not asking for all your stories about all the girls you kissed and how great it was. Just asking in a general sense or from a conceptual standpoint.)

 

[Michael15651]

The thought of licking another person's tongue while kissing still grosses me out.

 

[Ritalincel]

try listerine

 

[LastGerman]

By default, everyone's breath naturally stinks. No one's breath is good unless it's artificially/temporarily altered with gums, mints, or mouthwash etc.

@BadBreathcel

 

[Modus Coperandi]

idk I would like to try it.

 

[RageAgainstTDL]

The thought of licking another person's tongue while kissing still grosses me out.

That especially is the part I don't understand. Like yeah I can get around the idea of lips touching. But people always talk about kissing "with tongue". Like wtf? Why on earth would you want to touch someone else's slimy tongue with yours and what would you be doing in the process? What's the point? It's so fucking weird to me. I swear I don't get it.

 

[Insomniac]

Yes bro, I actually found out that your oral area is the dirtiest part of your body. Even more dirty than your ass.

That turns me off tbh. Also I’m autistic so I hate touching people anyway.

 

[virgin4life]

From a logical point of view what you wrote applies to any kind of sex. It is all about interchanging body fluids which is kinda disgusting.

 

[Deleted member 677]

Pretty big cope ngl. Trying to downplay a biologically-instinctive behavior (which isn't unique to humans btw) by muttering to yourself "foids are dirty too, foids are dirty too"…

 

[RageAgainstTDL]

From a logical point of view what you wrote applies to any kind of sex. It is all about interchanging body fluids which is kinda disgusting.

Yeah but I feel less grossed out about sticking my dick in anything because my dick seems farther away from "me". Like it's just an appendage and that's what it's there for.

But I don't want my face pressed up against some dirty hairy makeup caked foid rubbing slimy tongues together and breathing like horses through our nostrils right into each others faces.

Women's faces only really even look good from a distance because most of it's an illusion. Even just getting up too close to one isn't that good of an idea.

Pretty big cope ngl. Trying to downplay a biologically-instinctive behavior (which isn't unique to humans btw) by muttering to yourself "foids are dirty too, foids are dirty too"…
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But I don't actually feel the "instinct" and as far back as I remember I never have. Maybe I had it when I was 15 or so? I think possibly. Maybe I lost it because I've had jaw problems that have conditioned me away from it. I dunno.

I still have a desire to stick my dick in girls but not kiss them at all.

 

[PotatoTomato]

I used to when I was a kid.
Now I'm extremely attracted to the act. It just seems very intimate and a nice way of bonding with a girl, nothing disgusting about it.

 

[Deleted member 8353]

I often fantasize about kissing along with cuddling more than anything, but I think kissing would make me uncomfortable if it was with a girl that I didn't already know very well. Which would mean that I would have to "be friends" with and orbit a girl to feel comfortable with that kind of contact. I bet I"d have less trouble with sex, the thought of it doesn't seem as intimidating to me.

 

[HumanTrash]

Kissing doesn't ascend you anyway so who cares

 

[Smallondick]

try listerine

 

[Deleted member 15737]

I think it’s disgusting but if I really liked a girl I would do it. I’m not kissing a prostitute.

 

[The End]

The mouths of human beings are very very dirty. But if you're scared of disgustingness, then sex itself is already icky.

I don't fantasize about kissing, but I'm fine with it. I fantasize more about sucking ass then sucking face.

 

[StaroRavager]

I never actually fantasized about kissing a girl when I was younger, “why bother kissing when the main course is sitting right there” was my mindset. Even if I were to ever get a girlfriend (of course it never began for me) I doubt that I’d kiss her often or even occasionally

try listerine

Kek

 

[Words2_live_bye]

Personally i see kissing as more intimate and affectionate than sex. So if i got a kiss, i'd be happy

 

[PM_ME_STRIPPERS]

I think it’s disgusting but if I really liked a girl I would do it. I’m not kissing a prostitute.

only cucks kiss hookers

 

[Bakura806]

I have no clue what it would feel like, but dont really give a fuck since it will never happen

 

[guerillahubris]

the whole concept of sex in general is so foreign to me that i cannot believe that most people that i look at every day are having regular sex its just feels surreal i cannot comprehend that it actually happens

 

[mylifeistrash]

women's mouths are especially dirty since they're constantly snacking on sugary shit, making their mouths always full of more bacteria than normal

 

[Deleted member 14866]

OP is coping hard

 

[Deleted member 14805]

I used to when I was a kid.
Now I'm extremely attracted to the act. It just seems very intimate and a nice way of bonding with a girl, nothing disgusting about it.

Same here. As long as her breath isn't foul, then kissing her sounds great.

 

[RageAgainstTDL]

OP is coping hard

I really don't think I am. I think mouths in general are pretty gross. I don't even like having mine. I barely like eating food and most days I have to supplement with shakes to keep my calories up when I'm gymceling.

Maybe I'm just weird.

I still see the appeal in everything else sex-related. Just not the kissing part.

 

[Deleted member 14866]

I really don't think I am. I think mouths in general are pretty gross. I don't even like having mine. I barely like eating food and most days I have to supplement with shakes to keep my calories up when I'm gymceling.

Maybe I'm just weird.

I still see the appeal in everything else sex-related. Just not the kissing part.

I can see the reasoning behind it, that the human mouth is nasty and all. But unless the woman is a disgusting hog (which anyone should be able to notice way before kissing her) her mouth is no different to yours, you just have a fear of the human mouth which you have alluded to

Kissing is very intimate, I wish I had one in my life

 

[RageAgainstTDL]

I can see the reasoning behind it, that the human mouth is nasty and all. But unless the woman is a disgusting hog (which anyone should be able to notice way before kissing her) her mouth is no different to yours, you just have a fear of the human mouth which you have alluded to

Kissing is very intimate, I wish I had one in my life

Yeah, but not really a fear. Just a disgust. Probably from all my dental problems. That whole area of my body has caused me nothing but misery my whole adult life.

 

[2340922]

I think kissing has something to do with love.
I heard that some prostitutes don't kiss their customer. Maybe its cuz kissing is something more important then sex?

 

[rahultmnt]

no. its natural like sex

 

[TheProphetMuscle]

No. I went to a kissing booth and paid a few bucks. She french kissed me and holy shit it felt really nice. I could have done that for hours

 

[excel]

When you deconstruct it, kissing seems weird but it actually has scientific purpose, to introduce one’s bacteria to another’s. Apart from that, kissing can be used as an act of domination or submissiveness depending on level of aggression.