Does anyone else feel ostracised and not understand how the system works, even in the incel community?

[fullofchagrin]

When I was new here I did not understand anything about this website, for the first half year or so I was super reserved and constantly learning the culture. Maybe it's due to me being autistic, maybe it's because this website was where I learned about the blackpill and I don't browse any other blackpill/incel communities or watch any incel related content. So many grays with new join dates act like they own the place and perfectly fit in, I wonder if that's because they are NT fakecels or because they are in other incel communities

 

[poorenglishcel]

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[Serbimmigrant-cel]

No because I am accepted in the big family in heaven and I need nothing else

 

[Dead End]

I feel similar. I had to lurk for hours daily for many months before even considering making an account, and my initial posts were very slow.

Even now I feel somewhat alienated here, but that's common across every community I've been in.

I'm too afraid to create original threads, make many jokes (not that I can really think of many) or be argumentative. I don't even post that much considering how long I spend on this site daily.

 

[StoryOfMyLaugh]

I believe I have a pretty good comprehension of the BP over the past 4 years, just that I struggle to comprehend other’s mindsets often, don’t really discuss much, and trying to outwardly appeal for conversation (basically autism).

 

[Caichan]

no because i’ve already known about the BP since 2021