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Serious Do your parents know it's over for you?

Do your parents know or acknowledge that it's over for you? (inceldom)

  • Yes they know and/or acknowledge it

    Votes: 13 21.0%
  • No (they are hopeful or they ask me when i'll get a gf)

    Votes: 18 29.0%
  • They completely avoid the topic

    Votes: 31 50.0%

  • Total voters
    62
Damn dude. Growing up with a chad brother must have been hell :feelsbadman:
It was pretty miserable at times, especially when it was so blatantly clear how differently he was treated (not just by foids in class, but also by teachers and just in general) and how little effort he had to put into anything just by having a typical Chad face. He's one of those annoying Chads that was also naturally good at sports and also mogged me in exams despite putting next to zero time into studying. I really think the teachers just marked him up and me down for badness tbh. More emasculating still was girls only EVER talking to me, to get me to ask my brother would he go out with them :feelsUgh: :kys:

In fairness to my brother he seen how shit I had it and the way I got bullied and treated, and was always really cool and understanding with me. Our school years together Blackpilled him as much as me.
 
My dad recently tried to build me up by telling me his near 60 yr old gf says I’m handsome JFL. I’m fatcel so I was like "okay" (yea right internally) but obesity triggers a disgust response that people can’t help. He then recalled an incident where one of the guys he works with who has a cleft lip tried asking out a foid where they work and she reported him for harassment.
 
My parents know I will never get married and have changed how they talk to me about it over the years.
Teens and early twenties: You are still young, no need to settle down, have fun
Late twenties: You know we will accept you and love you if you are gay, you can tell us
thirties: no talk at all about relationships or marriage.
Still can not accept that I am to ugly to get a girlfriend, they could never accept that my looks was the only thing holding me back
 
No one knows anything about incels in my country.
 
I'm waiting to graduate and turn 18 i will probably get thrown out
 
They avoid it and don’t care about me and my loneliness.
 
Don't talk much about it, but it seems mom is more blackpilled than I thought saying I shouldn't waste my time on it, and that I will get my life ruined because women are whores.

Dad's been dead for 20 years so I wouldn't know what he'd say about such topic
 
I've talked with them and they've admitted it's over
 
They're incredibly bluepilled.

My parents:
>Son gets no attention from girls
Conclusion?
>He must be gay
 
No way. She's in complete denial and doublethink mode. She wants to believe I'm a handsome successful person.
I feel like that's how my mom sees me. She thinks I'm a successful guy, an example to follow because I STEMmaxxed. In reality i'm a complete loser in the eyes of others
My parents know I will never get married and have changed how they talk to me about it over the years.
Teens and early twenties: You are still young, no need to settle down, have fun
Late twenties: You know we will accept you and love you if you are gay, you can tell us
thirties: no talk at all about relationships or marriage.

Still can not accept that I am to ugly to get a girlfriend, they could never accept that my looks was the only thing holding me back
Have they accused you of doing something wrong? Of not puttin enough effort etc?

That part in bold is BRUTAL
Don't talk much about it, but it seems mom is more blackpilled than I thought saying I shouldn't waste my time on it, and that I will get my life ruined because women are whores.
That's uncommon. At least she isn't lying to you and telling you you'll find happiness
 
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I've talked with them and they've admitted it's over
Can you tell me how it went? The key points at least. What convinced them? Was it hard to convince them or did they rather quickly concede? Any accusations (you should have done X or Y)
They're incredibly bluepilled.

My parents:
>Son gets no attention from girls
Conclusion?
>He must be gay
Yeah that's so retarded it's frustrating. As if not wanting girls is the reason why they don't want YOU.

It's a type of just world fallacy I think. Since it's the belief that good things will come to you if you desire them
 
I don't know if they really know.

I mean, I'm 22 (almost 23) and i never brought a girl home, they never saw me with a girl, etc.

But they don't ask me anything.

Maybe they know (based on my shitty life) and prefer to not talk about because the confirmation would be difficult to deal so they prefer to live with the doubt.
 

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