Serious Do you think you'd be a good boyfriend?

[Valiant Virgin]

Personality memes aside, anyone who knows me in real life will tell you I'm a decent, kind person. As we all know, however, that's not enough. We've seen countless examples of guys treating their girlfriends like shit yet they still flock back to them. I would never do this, so in that regard I'd be a better boyfriend than these guys - but I can't get the chance to show that.

Having said that, there are other factors which would make me not such a good boyfriend. I'm so used to having my own time and space now that I would undoubtedly struggle with the compromise that's inevitable with being in a relationship, and I'm pretty sure I would feel claustrophobic. I like going off and doing my own thing in my own time. If she suggested doing something which clashed with plans I already had, I probably wouldn't be prepared to compromise on them.

The deal breaker would probably be family functions/gatherings. As an introverted, reclusive person, I can't stand large social gatherings that go on for hours. If the girl wanted me to come to her birthday party or her sister's birthday dinner or her friend's wedding or engagement party or something similar, my instinctive reaction would be to think of every excuse not to go. These events are not my thing at all - never have been, never will be. I have absolutely no interest whatsoever in hanging around at large functions, making small talk, trying to fit in. Give me a night in alone in front of the computer over that any day of the week.

Deep down, I know I'm not suited to being in a relationship. I'll never have a girlfriend anyway, so it's essentially academic.

 

[Insomniac]

No, I’m an antisocial autist with nothing to talk about. Talking with foids is even harder for me since they are such shallow cunts and can only handle small talk which I hate.

 

[GetFucked]

Probably not. I don't spend much money. I don't really pay attention to texts, and I rarely leave my place unless I go for a run

 

[Smallondick]

Having said that, there are other factors which would make me not such a good boyfriend. I'm so used to having my own time and space now that I would undoubtedly struggle with the compromise that's inevitable with being in a relationship, and I'm pretty sure I would feel claustrophobic. I like going off and doing my own thing in my own time. If she suggested doing something which clashed with plans I already had, I probably wouldn't be prepared to compromise on them.

I've also gotten very used to my routine;

 

[Michael15651]

No, I wouldn't be able to amuse them every 5 seconds.

 

[Deleted member 14430]

There's no way I would be able to protect or stand up for ANY female unless my retard rage comes out and I do something stupid. All I'd be good for is a betabuxx

 

[wizardcel]

I don't know. It depends on what the foid expects.

 

[KingOfRome]

To be completely honest, I'd be a lazy boyfriend. Not abusive, not clingy, not obsessive or possessive, just lazy and uncaring. Reason being just about every female I've ever met outside of professional or business transactions has been flaky and dishonest beyond belief, so it's really a matter of tit-for-tat. I might be more willing to invest in the relationship if the female can prove to me that she's willing to invest and not getting railed by Chad behind my back. (And if I have any reason to suspect she is getting railed by Chad, I'm ghosting her immediately.)

 

[HumanTrash]

I would only pour myself into the relationship fully if there were guarantees she would be loyal and not fucking around with chads, which is what every foid does so no, I can't be a good boyfriend to a cheating whore.

 

[CrookedOzCel]

Probably not since I would feel the need to keep the foid submissive and in check and constantly remind them who’s in control

 

[Heroic Crusader]

No I have anger issues

 

[Dropbox]

This is something I actually would be concerned about.

I have some character flaws and emotional issues with close relationships.

I have past provenance to assume it'd blow up in my face tbhnglfam

 

[Shower_Taker]

Imagining I’d even have the chance to get into any relationship is a massive cope...

...However, I can honestly say that I’d have to pick a specific personality type as to avoid that my own shortcomings sabotage the relationship. There’d have to be a level of appreciation and mutual longing that would override any primal biological expectations of wanting some type of confident, commanding leader, which seems to be what most women want exclusively.

Unfortunately, I don’t think there’s a lot of men that get the chance to have something like that, let alone an incel like myself, so that’s really never going to happen.

 

[PectusManletScarCel]

No, I’m an antisocial autist with nothing to talk about. Talking with foids is even harder for me since they are such shallow cunts and can only handle small talk which I hate.

Pretty much me except I'm not autistic

 

[FIVETHREEBALDCEL]

Not anymore, i'm too bitter about my past experiences, i won't be able trust a foid

 

[Wonder]

I wouldn't cheat and I don't want kids but I am subhuman genetic waste. Really, if I was a woman, I wouldn't fuck me.

 

[Deleted member 16980]

I have shit tier genetics, so I wouldn't want to pass them onto any children, though I would have them if she wanted them. I wouldn't cheat or anything like that, I would be too scared of her ever leaving me. But I have a feeling that some days I might end up snapping and beating the shit out of them. I used to fantasize about this stuff a lot, but when I really started to realize it wasn't going to happen, I just gave up. Overall I feel as though for the most part I would be a good boyfriend, but there could be the possibility of me being a really abusive person.

 

[Hate_my_life]

No, I’m an antisocial non-NT with nothing to talk about. Talking with foids is even harder for me since they are such shallow cunts and can only handle small talk which I hate.

Basically this.

Although I dont think I'm autistic but apparently I'm not NT.

 

[ArtoriasWolf]

Yeah, if looks didn't matter.

 

[Deleted member 14866]

I’m too far gone

 

[Deleted member 16455]

Nah tbh. I have anger problems and bad social skills. I’m also self hating af. I’m def not 100% NT. This prolonged isolation has also made me more resentful than ever. Also I rarely leave the house.

 

[Sparrow's Song]

No, people say I would be but I hate foids and don't want sex or a relationship. There is nothing in terms of sex or validation anyone could offer me that I would care for.

 

[Braincel14w]

I don't know. Probably not. I don't make enough money to share or do anything that isn't free or very cheap.
I think it's irrelevant really because from a foids POV a good bf is probably just someone she's attracted to and makes her feel good. You can't be a good bf in their eyes if you're not attractive.

 

[tooth monster]

Nope, unless the person would have personality/tastes/hobbies etc. similar to mine.

 

[ihaveno1]

foids are impossible to please these days anyway, u can be the best bf ever but the foid will still find something to complain about

 

[Deleted member 17599]

foids are impossible to please these days anyway, u can be the best bf ever but the foid will still find something to complain about

 

[Dionysus]

Nope, unless the person would have personality/tastes/hobbies etc. similar to mine.

 

[FlamingCel]

Yeah, if looks didn't matter.

 

[BrettyBoy]

I would never cheat so that is one thing.

 

[TheReaper]

if you're not into the mainstream trends it's almost impossible talk to a woman. at least I can't

 

[Deleted member 17889]

tbh the amount of hatred i have for foids Right now would make me hit her like a redneck chad