Extremely NT incels rank at the top, as they can often seamlessly fit in to some normal groups.
Then comes "good looking" incels (like maybe 4s or 5s), who are not ridiculed for their looks, but aren't praised either.
Next is your average run of the mill incel, some combination of short, non-black ethnic, autistic, fat, other NT,etc.
Then comes the ugliest and manletiest of incels (the 1s & 2s). They are respected by nobody but other incels.
Last is the extremely non-NT incels, who have a hard time even getting respect from other incels.
That's what I've noticed anyway.