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Discussion Do you think the blackpill should be about passive acceptance of your shit life or brutal anger and spite?

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I see different takes from different people, a lot of youngcels seem to portray anger and hatred for people and women and try to live as spite for them
On the contrary, older KHHVs and other oldcels seem to have passively accepted their fate and don't really get "rageful", just apathetic
Which path do you subscribe to? None? Both? Just a hunch I had
 
Why not both
 
Both at the moment, sometimes I’m calm about it and I feel at peace with my inevitable fate, then sometimes I have those days where I feel like going ER (in video game)
 
both, it depends on the day
 
Both at the moment, sometimes I’m calm about it and I feel at peace with my inevitable fate, then sometimes I have those days where I feel like going ER (in video game)
Same. Inevitably you face the shit reality that your needs haven't been met, but at the same time you sorta have to learn to deal with it. I'm nearly at that stage where I can accept my fate, seeing as how most normies have it (being slaves to their partners, wageslaving 24/7 for their wife and kids till 60, getting divorced or false accussation-raped, constantly competing against other men, the foid falling out of love all of a sudden, STDs, etc.), I've come to see that the world really doesn't have anything worthwile to offer for most men, unless you are the 0.0001% (Good-looking and talented at some fulfilling activity, i.e. being a football player or a famous actor). Life lacks a true inherent purpose and someone can only play it with the cards they've been dealt, lashing out is tempting but will get you to an even worse spot.

There are benefits to being alone, mainly freedom of being able to cope however you want, spend money on yourself only, and having less risk of someone targeting you, due to being so invisible you're hardly on anyone's radar.
 
acceptance and coping. a constant feeling of anger is useless. anger is to be prescribed, retaliatory, tit for tat. it should be harmful and direct, not constant seething that only harms yourself.

don't blame anyone for having brutal anger though. but at the end of the day your inceldom is caused by the cosmos, who you blame doesn't help you.
 
I try to be calm about it since being angry about it all the time can only go wrong and is bad for your health. Can't always do it but I'm trying
 
I have both inside of me. I hate and despise my enemies, normies, foids, chads, and jews. And I've also just accepted my fate. This was predetermined for me to be an incel based on the genetics I was given in the womb.
 
Same. Inevitably you face the shit reality that your needs haven't been met, but at the same time you sorta have to learn to deal with it. I'm nearly at that stage where I can accept my fate, seeing as how most normies have it (being slaves to their partners, wageslaving 24/7 for their wife and kids till 60, getting divorced or false accussation-raped, constantly competing against other men, the foid falling out of love all of a sudden, STDs, etc.), I've come to see that the world really doesn't have anything worthwile to offer for most men, unless you are the 0.0001% (Good-looking and talented at some fulfilling activity, i.e. being a football player or a famous actor). Life lacks a true inherent purpose and someone can only play it with the cards they've been dealt, lashing out is tempting but will get you to an even worse spot.
Yep, Ive seen that the juice simply isn’t worth the squeeze, as a non chad male we’re all just disposable waste to women and even if we get lucky and “ascend” we’re going to have to walk on eggshells around her, one mistake and it’s over. I get those bad days from time to time then I realise what’s the point in making things worse for me.
There are benefits to being alone, mainly freedom of being able to cope however you want, spend money on yourself only, and having less risk of someone targeting you, due to being so invisible you're hardly on anyone's radar.
This, I’ve greatly appreciated the benefits of being alone, Imagine the life of a betabux cuck having to look after his little brats and his wife nagging him all the time never getting any peace and alone time and he has to put up with all that only to get some some starfish sex every few weeks.
 
chimping out at these cucks would only be natural hence acceptable. But the ideal would be ofcourse to embrace the realities of life and this world , making sure the people you love get to know them and finally if there is something you can do to imrpove your reality of life, you must do that. You owe yourself a better life and it's achievable for most unless your situation is just literally being disabled or retarded
 
Both are fine. I never felt anger or hatred, just sadness and despair.

There's not really anyone to be angry to. Girls just don't like you cause you're ugly, if you were better looking girls would not mind. So does it not make more sense to be mad at the one who made you ugly? And who made you ugly? Your parents? Mother nature? God? All of them?

The list goes on and on and there's never an answer. Life is just shitty
 
Depends on the individual. Some days I feel like just accepting the shitty hand I was dealt, other days I feel vengeful.
 
I choose anger but I do not blame anyone for choosing the other.

It's hard enough as it is to be us, I don't want to add to that with accusing men of being fakecels just because they go kinda whitepill
 
Brutal anger and spite wont do you any good. At best you er at worst you suffer from your own anger and hate all your life
 
I choose anger but I do not blame anyone for choosing the other.

It's hard enough as it is to be us, I don't want to add to that with accusing men of being fakecels just because they go kinda whitepill
Accusing others of being fakecels is kind of a normie trait ngl
 
Kinda hard so ig a mix of both, it can also vary on my mood

On one hand, being angry is justified due to our unfair circumstances & could push us to take action

On the other hand, it is probably best to find ways to relax & deal with it
 
BRUTAL ANGER AND SPITE BRUTAL ANGER AND SPITE BRUTAL ANGER AND SPITE BRUTAL ANGER AND SPITE BRUTAL ANGER AND SPITE
 
Black pill isn't about anger and spite. It's about hard hitting truths that simply can't be denied. How once chooses to accept it and incorporate it into their lives is their choose at the end of the day.
 
I never feel spite towards individuals, I do sometimes feel envy. I mostly curse my circumstances, and live in the past thinking which habits might've saved me and which ones ruined my life. I only feel anger towards people that try to control me ie. moralfags, bootlickers, policemen, military men, politicians of course.
 
Anger does not solve our problems in any way. I used to be very angry as well, I am a 5'5 gigamanlet just like you OP.

But at the end of the day, our anger only makes us feel worse, the foids couldn't care any less. In fact, by being angry and salty, you give foids the pleasure to know that they made you feel bad about yourself.

Apathy is a better solution. Now how each of us will get there is a different story. For me, it was drugs. For someone else it might be shekelmaxxing. For yet another one it might be the usual normie cope of becoming in the top in your chosen career.

But we can't let our own anger become toxic to us, because then what we essentially do is say 'yes Stacy and Chad, you won, you make me feel horrible everyday while you enjoy every moment of life'.

No, we are not gonna go ER (that is too extreme and imo unnecessary), but we are definitely not going to give them this sort of pleasure. What will actually drive them mad is the reality that we don't give a fuck
 

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