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Do you think that males and females adapted domination/submission fetishes and whatnot as an evolutionary counter to homosexuality?

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I mean, gay men tend to want to be fucked up the ass or whatever, and submissive men are more open to being gay it seems. Girls who are submissive are more attracted to men because they are more dominant, and usually don't want to have sex with a female, because they wouldn't be able to be dominated by them as easily.

There are fewer dominant gay men, and more "camp" and girly men, because I'm thinking that fetishes and whatnot override or even define sexuality: gay guys are gay because they want to be dominated in a certain way, and so they are attracted to the most dominant type of person, similarly to how a female would feel.

Dominant women don't really exist because, well, idk; that doesn't really fit into this analogy, because there are plenty of beta males, and females don't tend to go lesbian to go dominate females.

Another thought I just had that might explain it is that, because men are the aggressors and instigators of sex (I use those words because, in evolution, sex is primarily rape), and so would be developing these instincts while females wouldn't.

Also, women were never pressured to be dominant in any way in tribal or pre-homo-sapien times - they were always submissive because it maximised survival chances - but some beta males would have to be more like females and reside under others, or risk being killed by the bigger men.

But anyways, I keep having thoughts while I'm writing this, so it probably doesn't entirely add up, and I'm like "oh yeah that makes sense too" then it goes out of my head 2 seconds later. I'm partially using this to remember some rough thoughts (not those kind of rough thoughts, baka hentai!)

didnt read; just lol: the title
 
I mean, gay men tend to want to be fucked up the ass or whatever, and submissive men are more open to being gay it seems. Girls who are submissive are more attracted to men because they are more dominant, and usually don't want to have sex with a female, because they wouldn't be able to be dominated by them as easily.

There are fewer dominant gay men, and more "camp" and girly men, because I'm thinking that fetishes and whatnot override or even define sexuality: gay guys are gay because they want to be dominated in a certain way, and so they are attracted to the most dominant type of person, similarly to how a female would feel.

Dominant women don't really exist because, well, idk; that doesn't really fit into this analogy, because there are plenty of beta males, and females don't tend to go lesbian to go dominate females.

Another thought I just had that might explain it is that, because men are the aggressors and instigators of sex (I use those words because, in evolution, sex is primarily rape), and so would be developing these instincts while females wouldn't.

Also, women were never pressured to be dominant in any way in tribal or pre-homo-sapien times - they were always submissive because it maximised survival chances - but some beta males would have to be more like females and reside under others, or risk being killed by the bigger men.

But anyways, I keep having thoughts while I'm writing this, so it probably doesn't entirely add up, and I'm like "oh yeah that makes sense too" then it goes out of my head 2 seconds later. I'm partially using this to remember some rough thoughts (not those kind of rough thoughts, baka hentai!)

didnt read; just lol: the title
Probably. But evolution doesn't care for anything besides who dies and who lives and has most kids. It's not necessarily for the better
 
Nah man ur wrong. There’s always a dominant figure in any relationship or else it won’t work.
 
Probably. But evolution doesn't care for anything besides who dies and who lives and has most kids. It's not necessarily for the better
Well, yeah, it's an imperfect solution for creating an ideal being: a being could go the wrong way from the start; it's relatively slow to adapt; there are solutions to problems that just cause other issues (similar to how fevers work to eliminate infections and can end up killing the host I think).

The sexual dimorphism thing pertaining to fetishes could be so that people are supposed to be attracted to the opposite, because the ones who aren't attracted to their opposite might end up fucking males, who can't reproduce obviously. Idk tho, just some thoughts because there aren't a whole lot of other places to post things like this
 
i don't exactly get the "evolutionary counter" part. idk
I think the majority of men who develop these kind of fetishes are straight low status men. These low status men can't get women even though they desire women and since women are so inaccessible for them they begin to put women on a pedestal and view themselves inferior to women. Therefore this mindset become a persona of them and they develop an urge to serve women. If these men were gay all along, they wouldn't care the inaccessibility of women in their lives and wouldn't want to serve them anyway. Also its not just a sexual fetish. For example in findom men donate women to feel inferior and serve women, there is nothing sexual going on in that case. So i think its just a mental disorder. The submissive men who tend to become gay are just bisexual in the first place.
 
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I think it's just a mating strategy. Dom women don't really exist, they just play it up for money.
 
Nah bro, them faggots in monkey species too and shit.
 
I imagine that women are always initially repulsed by submissive men but if there are a few sub men/dom woman relationships, he'd have to wait until the relationship had solidified before disclosing his submissive desires or else the girl would leave
 
90% of guys who are into tendon have a pornaddiction.
You will have some that don't,but most do.
 

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