Do you think online dating is harder or easier than IRL approaching?

[Uglychad]

i think it’s the same personally. If she doesn’t like your face on tinder she won’t like it in real life either 

Thoughts?

Personally I’ve considered trying to approach irl but it feels pointless

 

[PM_ME_STRIPPERS]

irl approaching would be harder, at least with online u can just ask as many females out as u want and if u get rejected, it will hurt a bit but at least its not face to face.

 

[TheRealChincel]

I used PUA techniques when approaching IRL as a safety blanket. Online was much harder to take since I couldn’t delude myself that it was anything other than FACE.

 

[ghostcell]

online i dont even get a chance to say something as i dont get any matches, so IRL would be better I guess. still not succesful though

 

[Broken Man]

What do you look like ? If sub 5 then it doesn't really matter either way.

 

[FeminismsCancer]

Online means competing with hundreds of chads from the entire world.
Also, I'm very much not photogenic so my profiles never even gets visited.

 

[TheVman]

If ur chad online is easier.

If ur ugly or normie online is basically impossible. but if u normie u might get a chance irl if u try hard enohug

 

[Uglychad]

What do you look like ? If sub 5 then it doesn't really matter either way.

I’m a 4/10 6’1 white male

 

[Broken Man]

I’m a 4/10 6’1 white male

Then online is a waste of time. Unless you're using lame dating sites searching for a long term partner. If you want to get laid you're better off just spam approaching girls irl or do what normies do and run social circle game. 

Depending on your location and personality you might be able to find a plain looking westernized Asian chick. You meet the height requirement.

 

[NYincel]

Many women online have no intention of meeting anyone, they are using it for validation. Women don't need online dating, they are constantly being approached by men. Even attractive men (I'm not talking about plastic roid models) have difficulty online. Most dating spam is directed toward males.

Even looking at the local CL, for every real woman there are 20 real men. I doubt there is any spam in m4w.

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i think it’s the same personally. If she doesn’t like your face on tinder she won’t like it in real life either 

Thoughts?

Personally I’ve considered trying to approach irl but it feels pointless

Tinder isn't really dating, it is a hookup site. So obviously women are going to seek the highest level man if they are giving it up for free. There has to be something in it for them. I think even they know a guy that fucks them on a first date isn't LTR material.

 

[Uglychad]

Then online is a waste of time. Unless you're using lame dating sites searching for a long term partner. If you want to get laid you're better off just spam approaching girls irl or do what normies do and run social circle game. 

Depending on your location and personality you might be able to find a plain looking westernized Asian chick. You meet the height requirement.

How do I run social circle game? I have no social circle except 2 close friends

 

[theultimate341]

Don’t you get tinder matches?

 

[cthulhucel]

it's much easier IRL than online ofc.
i can at least do beta things like paying restaurant bills or fixing their phones or computers in exchange for a conversation.
but i have already quitted doing so.