Blackpill Do you really think a girlfriend is going to solve your problems?

[smeagolcel]

A lot of people here seem to think that by merely finding a foid that withstands your presence, your problems as a bottom tier male disappear. It's important to realize that our genetic inferiority transcends beyond a mere sexual relationship and into the workplace, school, everyday social interactions, how much you make and how you are treated. The result of these interactions shape how you think, act, and respond and are the reason for much of the bitterness you see here.

The realization of how women view genetically inferior men is enough to psychologically damage any man (and this is why society copes so hard), but I can say with certainty that a relationship with a foid after being blackpilled and conscious of your incel status would only destroy you further. Assuming you're a bottom tier male approaching a thousand foids in 2018, you will not find a single one whose eyes light up and pussy moistens when you draw near. But let's assume for a moment that as a bottom tier or even just below-average looking male, you find a used up but willing roastie.

First you will have to accept that the femoid is a slut and has very likely seen more than a dozen dicks in her lifetime.
You will then have to accept that she has most likely been pleasured by another man far more than you will ever be able to.
You will have to accept that someone has used her mouth and roast beef as a cum dumpster.
You will have to accept even more painfully that her first love was able to use her during her prime and she would've rather fucked a dog than give you a chance.
You will have to accept that she realizes your sub humanity, whether it is every time she goes to the supermarket, turns on the television, or speaks with one of her friends.
You will have to accept that female nature pushes her away from a monogamous relationship with you in pursuit of being sexually gratified by other men.
You will have to accept that any dispute, no matter how insignificant, can be enough to convince her to go to the nearest bar and find an above-average looking guy to fuck her brains out while you wage slave at work to buy her "love me" gifts.
You will have to accept that at any point you are liable to being cucked by a genetically superior man.
You will have to give in to demands in fear of these things and many others.

And if you are stupid enough to marry or have kids with a femoid as a below-average looking male (hello TheRedPill), you will soon find that these years you spent rotting away in bed surfing the internet were the best years of your life. And that realization would surely be more than enough for you to cope with rope. If you at any point, do not submit to this pathetic cuckoldry in the form of accepting her used up body and perverted nature, you will once again find yourself alone and in the same position you are now, except having experienced a living fleshlight at the cost of much psychological harm and personal humiliation, further destroying your self-esteem and overall state of mind.

If you are somehow able to accept the degeneracy rampant among modern femoids then I would argue you were never truly blackpilled about the nature of roasties and spit the pill out rather than swallowing it.

This is some of the pure and unfiltered suicide fuel that keeps society in its everlasting coping cycle, quick to believe this or that if it makes most people feel better and making sure to shut the rest of us up before we speak the truth too loudly.

Godspeed

 

[KvltWarrior98]

Blackpill indeed; eloquent, elegant and brutal.

Genius level IQ right here.

 

[Deleted member 60]

brutal but very high IQ post. There is no "ascending" once high school is over.

 

[Potbellypos]

No, I just want to stick my dick in a girl.

 

[tomale]

it never been about that.

 

[SoCalSuifuel]

Low-IQ post that takes Inceldom and the quest for ascension literally. It's not that the physical act of having sex or the experience of being in a relationship will fix us or our problems, it's that we are using our inability to attract women as a simple and easy to explain analogy between that and the rest of our problems. We are socially isolated ugly men who have no reason to participate in society because society offers us nothing. Intimacy and companionship being one of the main things humans need to be happy, saying "tfw no gf" sums it up in a way most people can understand. We need a reason to take part in the world, and love would be the best possible reason to do so, something we will never experience.

Obviously we don't want to be in a relationship with a horrible bitch who would cuck us, if given that opportunity we would all decline.

 

[Not_Important]

If you still want a gf, you aren't truly blackpilled.
I just want to bust a nut and have a male heir

 

[Angry_runt]

MGTOW should be purged from this forum

 

[TheHumanFactor]

Of course it will. Sex, validation, confidence boost, I would be cured.

 

[PM_ME_STRIPPERS]

tldr


but in reply to ur title ,.....

No i dont believe a girlfriend is going to solve 100 % of my problems, id definitely say 95 % tho. Im not gonna deny, even if i got a gf and sex i would still be depressed, and hate life and hate my job, but life would be so much easier to put up with, because having a gf is something that i have always wanted but never been able to get because im ugly.

Low-IQ post that takes Inceldom and the quest for ascension literally. It's not that the physical act of having sex or the experience of being in a relationship will fix us or our problems, it's that we are using our inability to attract women as a simple and easy to explain analogy between that and the rest of our problems. We are socially isolated ugly men who have no reason to participate in society because society offers us nothing. Intimacy and companionship being one of the main things humans need to be happy, saying "tfw no gf" sums it up in a way most people can understand. We need a reason to take part in the world, and love would be the best possible reason to do so, something we will never experience.

Obviously we don't want to be in a relationship with a horrible bitch who would cuck us, if given that opportunity we would all decline.

exactly, and there lies the problem in itself. And i think it makes it even worse acknowledging the fact that we cannot get a gf simply because we are ugly, while average looking people at least can get it so easily. PURE SUI FUEL.

Also doesnt help when normies act bluepilled and deny its their looks that gets them women, trying to shield it by saying " muh personality and confidence helped!"

If you still want a gf, you aren't truly blackpilled.
I just want to bust a nut and have a male heir

then go to a fucking brothel then

 

[Newboyishere]

Was going to write the same thing
But here u go !

Of course it will. Sex, validation, confidence boost, I would be cured.

Also i would add companionship and affection.

 

[takERisks]

MGTOW should be purged from this forum

Excellent enquiry

 

[Spite]

No. Getting a girlfriend will not make me any less ugly.

 

[VisVoi]

I don't want a girlfriend, she would just nag me and try to force me to chose between her and things I enjoy doing.

It would be fun for a few months then I would get bored.

Wish I could have been born a faggot tbh.

 

[smeagolcel]

Low-IQ post that takes Inceldom and the quest for ascension literally... saying "tfw no gf" sums it up in a way most people can understand...

Obviously we don't want to be in a relationship with a horrible bitch who would cuck us

It's quite clear the point of my post went right over your head. "Ascension" is a myth, and as a bottom tier male there are no good choices we can make when it comes to relationships or otherwise, you could've understood that fully if you bothered to read. This is one blackpill particularly for those here that believe a confidence boost from a quickie with a roastie would suddenly change things around; the reality is far more harsh. As far as "tfw no gf" and summing it up for most people to understand you seem to be clueless on how it's like to deal with the people that a "tfw no gf" answer would apply to. It's ridiculous you claim that as a viable way to put forth your problems as an incel. And using our inability to get a girlfriend as an analogy to the rest of our problems is doing a great disservice to reality and this is the last place to pander to normies and dumb down the truth behind a blackpill to make it easier to swallow. You have to cut to the root of the problem which is the ruthless, selfish, arrogant, and hedonistic nature of women in 2018, the history of sexual perversion that led us here, and of course the genetic game that low tier males lose and society refuses to recognize as the most important factor in determining any one persons quality of life.

tldr
but in reply to ur title ,.....

Congratulations, you didn't read and quoted someone who also didn't read.

MGTOW should be purged from this forum

Pretty low IQ if that's what you got from my post.

 

[PM_ME_STRIPPERS]

It's quite clear the point of my post went right over your head. "Ascension" is a myth, and as a bottom tier male there are no good choices we can make when it comes to relationships or otherwise, you could've understood that fully if you bothered to read. This is one blackpill particularly for those here that believe a confidence boost from a quickie with a roastie would suddenly change things around; the reality is far more harsh. As far as "tfw no gf" and summing it up for most people to understand you seem to be clueless on how it's like to deal with the people that a "tfw no gf" answer would apply to. It's ridiculous you claim that as a viable way to put forth your problems as an incel. And using our inability to get a girlfriend as an analogy to the rest of our problems is doing a great disservice to reality and this is the last place to pander to normies and dumb down the truth behind a blackpill to make it easier to swallow. You have to cut to the root of the problem which is the ruthless, selfish, arrogant, and hedonistic nature of women in 2018, the history of sexual perversion that led us here, and of course the genetic game that low tier males lose and society refuses to recognize as the most important factor in determining any one persons quality of life.



Congratulations, you didn't read and quoted someone who also didn't read.



Pretty low IQ if that's what you got from my post.

kek

 

[ICanOnlyFapToBDSM]

No a girl wont solve my problems but i bet getting my dick sucked every day would sho be nice

 

[Mahlo]

No one is claiming a girlfriend would solve "all our problems". It's a strawman to say otherwise, no more no less. Who thinks having a girlfriend would get rid of their back problems or debt? No, a girlfriend provides its own suit of pleasures like

>The health benefits of experience physical touch
>The validation which comes from being seen as sexually desirable
>Companionship, even if temporary
>Sexual pleasure

Maybe the average women can't provide the type of long-term relationships you imagine, but to say relationships provide no benefits at all? insane.

 

[blackcel]

My problem is that I dont have a girlfriend. Getting a girlfriend will solve that problem. Pretty happy with the other parts of my life tbh tbh tbh tbh tb thhb btb haf pfpt tbh.

But yea, the problems you mention are completely unrelated to getting a girlfriend, but being an incel who knows tfw ngf feel all too well, I can see how one will think things may magically change if they get one. They may, they may not. The girl may realize she made a mistake and you end up back at square one, but this time you lost the support of the incel community because you just got out of a relationship. Then again the girl may help lift you out of your depression and you end up curing cancer or some shit. Who knows? The point is don't think getting a gf will solve your problems.

 

[Zesto]

That's a fact, Jack.

 

[Angry_runt]

Considering the dating market would still be fucked and as an unattractive man you'd still be seen as an abomination by society it honestly wouldn't solve much. Not being able to get a girlfriend is a symptom of societies hatred for unattractive men which is the larger issue, rather than the cause for incel woes.

Pretty much everyone except Chad gets to a point where they can't get a gf (and even Chad will eventually succumb to age-related ugliness). They did have gfs before, though. If an incel gets a gf even once, he'll have experienced everything normies have albeit in lesser quantity. Would that be enough to make life more bearable? I guess there's only one way to find out, brb taking a shower.

 

[Ub2w]

Nah, even if i find a virgin unicorn the core of my problems is my face.

 

[Zaetheus]

tldr


but in reply to ur title ,.....

No i dont believe a girlfriend is going to solve 100 % of my problems, id definitely say 95 % tho. Im not gonna deny, even if i got a gf and sex i would still be depressed, and hate life and hate my job, but life would be so much easier to put up with, because having a gf is something that i have always wanted but never been able to get because im ugly.

exactly, and there lies the problem in itself. And i think it makes it even worse acknowledging the fact that we cannot get a gf simply because we are ugly, while average looking people at least can get it so easily. PURE SUI FUEL.

Also doesnt help when normies act bluepilled and deny its their looks that gets them women, trying to shield it by saying " muh personality and confidence helped!"

then go to a fucking brothel then

Love how no one actually reads these long posts by just responds to title alone. Thought I was just a lazy fuck tbh but yes I agree on this input

 

[PM_ME_STRIPPERS]

Love how no one actually reads these long posts by just responds to title alone. Thought I was just a lazy fuck tbh but yes I agree on this input

i usually read but i am drunk af rn and lazy

 

[Deleted member 6214]

Good post, ignore the idiots saying otherwise.

 

[smeagolcel]

No one is claiming a girlfriend would solve "all our problems"... No, a girlfriend provides its own suit of pleasures like

>The health benefits of experience physical touch
>The validation which comes from being seen as sexually desirable
>Companionship, even if temporary
>Sexual pleasure

Go to the main page and open your eyes, plenty of incels think it would transform their lives for the better. This is bluepilled nonsense.

Validation? Where is the validation from accepting a used up post prime cum dumpstered roastie who uses you for your material worth and for her own self-assurance.

Companionship? That is reserved for Chad. Do you really think some roastie is going to take interest in your hobbies? She is fully aware of a bottom tier male's genetic failure and will treat him as she wishes. You will be forced to like and admire things you couldn't care less about in fear of upsetting your living fleshlight. Chad can play videogames all day while he gets blown and made sandwiches while we're on the opposite side of the spectrum.

Sexual pleasure? Perhaps, but at what cost? This is the least important reason to seek out a relationship.

And as soon as you make her slightly upset by your attitude or sexual inadequacy:

JFL

 

[Lubricure]

Doctor Gero IQ. Definitely, this post is a spot on. Being shamed into oblivion by femoids and being sexually rejected for years, takes an irreparable toll on a man´s psyche. Femoids are by default a negative asset, and honestly, even if I ever ascended, I wouldn´t be able to be in a relationship after having swallowed the blackpill. They create a more problems than they solve.

Albeit it´s fundamental at Maslow level, sexual access alone doesn´t pay the bills. Moreover, when in a relationship with a femoid, nothing is being given, but there´s also a price. When you need "her", she disappears.

 

[Figthcel]

No.

Death will.

 

[Anger]

Yes.

 

[Mahlo]

JFL

You can enjoy sex with a woman without hinging your entire future on whether or not she will be faithful. Your cope is retarded.
>at what cost
There is no cost. JFL. She's a girlfriend not a prostitute.
>I-I don't even want a girlfriend. She'll probably cheat on me so I'd rather jerk off alone then enjoy pussy, touch and validation.

 

[Johnny-Red]

just being a chad would solve the problems

 

[jet112]

i don't claim that having a foid gf will solve my problems.
but it would be nice to just experience relationship for once in my life. even if it would be for a short time

 

[smeagolcel]

You can enjoy sex with a woman without hinging your entire future on whether or not she will be faithful.

This is the least important reason to seek out a relationship.

 

[Mahlo]

The least important reason to you. Others might have no problem with it

 

[赤い太陽]

You know, it sometimes saddens me when I think about how many incels actual believe that attracting a women or losing their virginity is actually going to make them happy. The painful reality is that nothing could be further from the truth.

Before I knew about incels, I spent a lot of time listening to the MGTOW community discuss female nature, often using their own personal lives as an example (or better yet, a cautionary tale). Some of these men were married - before anyone tries to write of MGTOW as a coping mechanism - and many were burned in the divorce court. Others were in abusive relationships, and other were falsely accused of rape by women.

Look at Hollywood; if being attractive was all it took, then all the dysfunction that you see on the red carpet wouldn't be a thing. Divorce after divorce after divorce. These men in Hollywood are very attractive, and yet they're getting divorced left and right, not to mention cheated on and dumped by their partners. Obviously, being attractive is not the end all. In fact, what I think a lot of incels overlook is the fact that the women these "Chads" are attracting have just as many options as they do, so these women will have plenty of options to cheat.

Let's also not forget about the rarely discussed "casting couch". Many women sleep their way into roles in Hollywood; I'm not criticizing, I'm just making a point that being attractive doesn't guarantee you happiness. What it does guarantee is that you'll have plenty more options to bounce from one failed relationship to the next.

Anyways, being in a relationship has many pitfalls, which - in my personal experience - are rarely discussed to the fullest extent here. In just this month alone (as I'm often referred to as a "Julycel"), I've seen nearly a dozen MGTOW videos on YouTube discussing the very real reality of false rape allegations. Oddly enough, I've only seen ONE thread discussing the matter. Mind you, the topic of the thread was not to warn men about false rape, or how to best avoid it if they do approach women, but simply talking about a guy who was falsely accused. To be fair, @RageAgainstTDL did tell me of a recording device that could be used to protect oneself, and he did offer tips to be safe at work (which I do appreciate, should he read this).

This doesn't take into account baby trapping, paternity fraud, Title 9 trials at University (which are very hostile towards male students)... None of which I've seen mentioned at length on any threads. I'm not saying that they aren't here, but I haven't seen them.

However, I can understand the mentality behind those who believe a relationship will make them and their lives better. Every community, no matter how "red/black pilled" they claim to be, has a sacred cow that they don't like to see criticized or scrutinized in any objective way, only pandered to and reinforced. This is why sloganeering about modern female degeneracy, or how undesirable one is if he's of a certain look is praised as a "High IQ post" (even if no research was involved, no citations presented, it's insanely repetitive or if the descriptions are hyperbolic), and anything questioning the status quo is derided as "Low IQ", or out and out trolling (ie, TL;DR).

It's odd; many incels here are fully aware of the modern degeneracy that plagues many Western women, but at the same time feel horrible that the same women don't want them. Reminds me of a scene from the 1957 Ingmar Bergman film The Seventh Seal:

Jöns

: It's hell with women and hell without women. No matter how you reason it seems like the logic thing to do is to kill them while it's still fun.

Blacksmith Plog: Bickering and swill!

Jöns: Screaming babies and diapers full of piss!

Blacksmith Plog: Sharp nails and malice!

Jöns: Scuffle, fits and the devil's aunt as a mother in law!

Blacksmith Plog: And then when you're going to sleep...

Jöns: Then they change they're tune!

Blacksmith Plog: Tears, complaints and wailing to high heaven!

Jöns: "Why won't you kiss me good night?"...

Blacksmith Plog: "Why won't you sing a song?"...

Jöns: "How come you don't love me like when we first met?"...

Blacksmith Plog: "Why aren't you looking at my new shift?"...

Jöns: "Just turn your back and snore!"...

Blacksmith Plog: Damn it!

Jöns: Damn it! Now she's gone; Rejoice!

That type of thinking (while not universal), tells me that some users aren't upset the modern state of women, only that they weren't able to partake in it. This tendency of viewing relationships and sex through rose colored glasses is - I think - the reason so many incels feel the way that they do.

Happiness may very well be possible for many incels outside of sex and/or relationships, such as pursuing hobbies. Think of all the married men who get married, or men who get sucked into long term relationships, and then don't have time for their hobbies anymore. They also realize that women are not the net benefit they were perceived as prior to the relationship. Case in point, I think most of the qualities incels believe a woman can bring to their lives only exist in their heads, which is sad to say.

In the end, there's nothing I can do about that. I don't have all the answers. None of us do, so I guess all that one can do is leave such users to their own devices.

 

[The End]

I don't want a girlfriend. I want to go through new girls like tissues. I agree, it won't make me happy - but I'd be happier.

And for your protection: I can't endorse this enough: record everything. It's illegal to record someone secretly, but less illegal than rape.

 

[FiveFourManlet]

No, now that i know about the blackpill, i know any relationship i have in the west is literally a ticking time bomb.

 

[Deleted member 60]

Go to the main page and open your eyes, plenty of incels think it would transform their lives for the better. This is bluepilled nonsense.

Validation? Where is the validation from accepting a used up post prime cum dumpstered roastie who uses you for your material worth and for her own self-assurance.

Companionship? That is reserved for Chad. Do you really think some roastie is going to take interest in your hobbies? She is fully aware of a bottom tier male's genetic failure and will treat him as she wishes. You will be forced to like and admire things you couldn't care less about in fear of upsetting your living fleshlight. Chad can play videogames all day while he gets blown and made sandwiches while we're on the opposite side of the spectrum.

Sexual pleasure? Perhaps, but at what cost? This is the least important reason to seek out a relationship.

And as soon as you make her slightly upset by your attitude or sexual inadequacy:
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JFL

 

[mentalcel]

Definitely yes and if you don't believe in this you are a liar, to yourself and everyone. Even going on a date was a huge confidence boost. I approached more girls than I approached my whole life after going on my first date. It was all about the feeling of success. You cannot fake confidence it is directly related to previous success. A man over 25+ and alone is directly considered as a weirdo by the society. He has a low status even he has other high status features. MGTOW does not make sense. It is just a masturbation.

 

[leftyincel]

the way women treat you before dating is more or less how they will treat you during dating, at least after a few weeks and ur not betabuxxing them

 

[Ritalincel]

Yes bro

 

[Kirito3]

Low iq post. If we found a gf we wouldnt be a bottom tier male, because bottom tier makes dont get gfs...

 

[big nose bug eyes]

Unironically yes, not even a gf, even if a girl somewhere somehow found me attractive it would be serious lifefuel. Validation is all that counts.

 

[ElliotLookAlike]

having someone that truly loves me back would cure my problems yes.