LDAR Do you really believe a gf will fix everything?

[El Enemigo]

Just realized that even if I had a gf, depression already got a hold of me, so getting a gf would probably only make me feel good for a while.

The relationship wouldn't even last because ltr and depressed men just don't mix, maybe not even having friends would fix my already fucked up brain.

I just feel hopeles, even if I manage to moneymaxx, the ideologies I've acquired and what life for men is already make me feel and think that life is truly not worth living.

In short: LDAR under my own terms seems like the most rational way to live

 

[ordinaryotaku]

Yes.

 

[mistersinister]

My life will be better, sadly with my face and short stature my life is still going to suck regardless


BUT IT WILL SUCK LESS

 

[TheProphetMuscle]

No but it will make you feel a lot better overall and problems in life won’t feel nearly as bad. Having someone to fuck, support and comfort you, and not being alone would make the depression better

 

[El Enemigo]

No but it will make you feel a lot better overall and problems in life won’t feel nearly as bad. Having someone to fuck, support and comfort you, and not being alone would make the depression better

I truly wonder about that, I mean the dopamine shots from your "honeymoon phase" with her can only last so long, I believe eventually I would be seeing the world as an empty and meaningless entity as I do now as I feel this depression growing

 

[BraincelsRefugee]

Not unless the whole blackpill reality changes, because looks affect your life in much more than dating (getting a job, friends, status, etc.)
But it would be nice to have a hug, someone to share my problems with and other cliche romantic things.

 

[TheProphetMuscle]

I truly wonder about that, I mean the dopamine shots from your "honeymoon phase" with her can only last so long, I believe eventually I would be seeing the world as an empty and meaningless entity as I feel this depression growing

The initial excitement of when you would get a gf would wear down because you’ll get used to it. But it will still always make life a lot better. Having someone to lay in bed with, go on trips with, someone to cook you dinner, the sex, all are things that will always make life better. There’s a reason normies and good looking people are usually always looking to get in relationships or hookups

 

[El Enemigo]

Not unless the whole blackpill reality changes, because looks affect your life in much more than dating (getting a job, friends, status, etc.)
But it would be nice to have a hug, someone to share my problems with and other cliche romantic things.

I realized I still have people who care for me, I mean family and very few friends but it is not enough to get me interested in changing the Outlook I have on the world and life tbh.

What you say about the may have something to do with it

 

[totalcel]

All objects in this world are copes. They cannot bring lasting happiness.

This is the highest blackpill.

 

[El Enemigo]

The initial excitement of when you would get a gf would wear down because you’ll get used to it. But it will still always make life a lot better. Having someone to lay in bed with, go on trips with, someone to cook you dinner, the sex, all are things that will always make life better. There’s a reason normies and good looking people are usually always looking to get in relationships or hookups

Yes, it would probably make life better but I don't think it would be enough, or at least I think so right now as I am seeing everything through depression rn

 

[TheProphetMuscle]

Yes, it would probably make life better but I don't think it would be enough, or at least I think so right now as I am seeing everything through depression rn

It would probably help a lot with the depression. Like if it’s someone you fall in love with then it would probably bring a lot More excitement and purpose to your life

 

[El Enemigo]

All objects in this world are copes. They cannot bring lasting happiness.

This is the highest blackpill.

Maybe true, I believe there are infinite copes that bring the person happiness until their death

 

[El Enemigo]

It would probably help a lot with the depression. Like if it’s someone you fall in love with then it would probably bring a lot More excitement and purpose to your life

Maybe true, I'll have to think it over when I'm not depressed.

But man I really need to stop being so conscious and sentient when I'm depressed, these thought are mortal ngl

 

[totalcel]

Maybe true, I believe there are infinite copes that bring the person happiness until their death

Aesthetic contemplation? This indeed does not bring pain like sensual pleasures. However, they are only accessible to a few people who have good brain endowment (geniuses), and even then it's only granted as a fleeting dream.

For the rest of us mortals, in proportion as enjoyments and pleasures increase, susceptibility to them decreases; that to which we are accustomed is no longer felt as a pleasure. Soon there is only boredom, which is as bad as pain.

 

[OGcel]

Just realized that even if I had a gf, depression already got a hold of me, so getting a gf would probably only make me feel good for a while.

The relationship wouldn't even last because ltr and depressed men just don't mix, maybe not even having friends would fix my already fucked up brain.

I just feel hopeles, even if I manage to moneymaxx, the ideologies I've acquired and what life for men is already make me feel and think that life is truly not worth living.

In short: LDAR under my own terms seems like the most rational way to live

i don't think about that because i'm so blackpill i'm yeeted the idea of having a gf damn bluepill fucker

 

[El Enemigo]

Aesthetic contemplation? This indeed does not bring pain like sensual pleasures. However, they are only accessible to a few people who have good brain endowment (geniuses), and even then it's only granted as a fleeting dream.

For the rest of us mortals, in proportion as enjoyments and pleasures increase, susceptibility to them decreases; that to which we are accustomed is no longer felt as a pleasure. Soon there is only boredom, which is as bad as pain.

I can't give many examples of the "infinite cope" as they are scarce but I believe many old people that lived with their families and died among them lived a happy life for the most part. So I don't believe ithas something to do with iq

 

[El Enemigo]

i don't think about that because i'm so blackpill i'm yeeted the idea of having a gf damn bluepill fucker

Nigga I'm not
If anything I'm thinking about the because I really don't think even a gf could get me out of the shithole I'm in, mentally that is.

 

[totalcel]

I can't give many examples of the "infinite cope" as they are scarce but I believe many old people that lived with their families and died among them lived a happy life for the most part. So I don't believe ithas something to do with iq

Really? The countenances of almost all elderly persons I see wear the expression of what is called disappointment.

Everything in life proclaims that earthly happiness is destined to be frustrated, or recognized as an illusion. The consideration of this then often proves to be very depressing, especially when life is already drawing to an end.

 

[OGcel]

Nigga I'm not
If anything I'm thinking about the because I really don't think even a gf could get me out of the shithole I'm in, mentally that is.

if u could have a gf in a hypothetical universe it wouldnt be u, it would be a version of u with better genes

it means u wouldnt have all this problems or u wouldnt be in this shithole cuz all ur life would have been better based of looks like u would have better friends, better mental health etc... it would snowball in all aspects of ur life

may the guide you

 

[El Enemigo]

Really? The countenances of almost all elderly persons I see wear the expression of what is called disappointment.

Everything in life proclaims that earthly happiness is destined to be frustrated, or recognized as an illusion. The consideration of this then often proves to be very depressing, especially when life is already drawing to an end.

Yes we don't come to this world to be happy, no shit.

 

[subhuman]

Yes. Having a girlfriend with love and physical intimacy would do wonders for my mood and brain chemistry. With all the oxytocin your brain will produce, it will be like you are on a high that you will never come down from. It would make things feel good again and worth pursuing.

 

[UglyandLoveless]

I’d only be more stressed worrying about her cheating on me. Because I’d be guaranteed to lose my temper after coming so far. But I’d try to live in the moment and take it day by day.

 

[SlayerSlayer]

it wont fix everything, but it will fix at least 50% of what's wrong with us, and more importantly, her love would be like a self-fulfilling prophecy of positive affirmations.

When you are an incel, the only self-fulfilling prophecy is that of eternal loneliness. More importantly, love is simply not a real thing for non-Chads, so one should actively hate love to have dignity as an incel.

 

[El Enemigo]

if u could have a gf in a hypothetical universe it wouldnt be u, it would be a version of u with better genes

it means u wouldnt have all this problems or u wouldnt be in this shithole cuz all ur life would have been better based of looks like u would have better friends, better mental health etc... it would snowball in all aspects of ur life

may the guide you

Yeah no shit, being NT and living the normie experience would mean I would never be in this shithole of a forum, great discovery greycel.

What I'm saying is that at this fucking point, not a fucking nultiverse or whatever shit you thought, having a gf wouldnt be enough for me to see the world with brighter colors, many seem here cope that it would but I doubt it

 

[El Enemigo]

Yes. Having a girlfriend with love and physical intimacy would do wonders for my mood and brain chemistry. With all the oxytocin your brain will produce, it will be like you are on a high that you will never come down from. It would make things feel good again and worth pursuing.

You say that so sure, like if that would fix all the years of being a reject in an instant, almost like a magical pill

 

[subhuman]

You say that so sure, like if that would fix all the years of being a reject in an instant, almost like a magical pill

Yeah, you will forever be an orphan of all the teenage loves you never had, as Houellebecq says. Maybe it won't fix everything, but it would make things way better.

 

[El Enemigo]

Yeah, you will forever be an orphan of all the teenage loves you never had, as Houellebecq says. Maybe it won't fix everything, but it would make things way better.

Momentarily, sure, what I doubt is in the long run

 

[Transcended Trucel]

Just realized that even if I had a gf, depression already got a hold of me, so getting a gf would probably only make me feel good for a while.

The relationship wouldn't even last because ltr and depressed men just don't mix, maybe not even having friends would fix my already fucked up brain.

I just feel hopeles, even if I manage to moneymaxx, the ideologies I've acquired and what life for men is already make me feel and think that life is truly not worth living.

In short: LDAR under my own terms seems like the most rational way to live

A Chad body would fix everything for me. GF is trivial in comparison.

 

[fast_curry]

it wont fix everything, but it will fix at least 50% of what's wrong with us, and more importantly, her love would be like a self-fulfilling prophecy of positive affirmations.

Yeah, my life would become so much better if I had a supportive gf who would constantly encourage me.

 

[totalcel]

having sex regularly for free is a lifefuel.

 

[El Enemigo]

A Chad body would fix everything for me. GF is trivial in comparison.

This is certainly the ultimate fix to our problems

 

[OGcel]

great discovery greycel.

 

[Wilfred]

At this point no.

 

[BarrelStuffer]

It would fix my non gf’ness

 

[stoicincel]

a gf would improve my life greatly, for sure. a sweet and kind gf who actually loved me. but i know it's not gonna happen.

 

[RuudVanNistelrooy]

A man without problems is a dead man.But yes,having a lovely gf will act as a powerful elixir,you'll be more inspired to improve in other things.

 

[InMinecraft]

Yes.

 

[El Enemigo]

A man without problems is a dead man

What do you even mean by this? You're talking like the cucks saying "difficult times create strong men"

 

[coping_manlet]

It wouldn’t eliminate chads or hypergamy but it would lessen the direct psychological impact of them

 

[El Enemigo]

It wouldn’t eliminate chads or hypergamy but it would lessen the direct psychological impact of them

In the end having a gf is just a cope that can have even worse results if she cucks you, leave you, etc.

Yet niggers think a gf would mean the solution to everything, they would be more nt, forget years of bullying and rejection and will start career and money maxing jfl

 

[nightbane]

In the end having a gf is just a cope that can have even worse results if she cucks you, leave you, etc.

Yet niggers think a gf would mean the solution to everything, they would be more nt, forget years of bullying and rejection and will start career and money maxing jfl

Exactly this. Having a gf won’t change your life lol people here put them on a pedestal but they’re overrated and can actually make your life worse

 

[crvkek]

we can only hope it fixes the erecction

 

[AsakangaHalo]

Yes. Girl want me = I'm a valuable human being

 

[El Enemigo]

we can only hope it fixes the erecction

Literally the only reason for it

 

[El Enemigo]

Yes. Girl want me = I'm a valuable human being

Blue and gynocentric pilled

 

[coping_manlet]

I’d rather be chad with no gf ever than be incel with a gf

 

[nice_try]

Yes, of course.

A gf will
- make you watch after yourself
- make you have perfect personal hygiene
- make you feel like you're not worthless
- give you something to look forward to
- make you more outgoing

the list goes on

 

[El Enemigo]

Yes, of course.

A gf will
- make you watch after yourself
- make you have perfect personal hygiene
- make you feel like you're not worthless
- give you something to look forward to
- make you more outgoing

the list goes on

You won't ever find a gf if you can't even fulfill the first 2 points jfl

 

[Alessio]

You wouldn’t be here if you had a girlfriend.

 

[nice_try]

You won't ever find a gf if you can't even fulfill the first 2 points jfl

There's no need to fulfill the first 2 if you don't have a gf.
Vicious circle.