Discussion Do you pretend that you are not a virgin?

[Deleted member 33472]

When there is a topic amongst normies and chads and they bring up sexual experiences, do you lie, tell the truth, or have some sort of escape plan? I personally try to avoid being in a situation like that but if the question is asked directly, I usually tell the truth because they will usually already know the answer. I haven't been in this situation in a long time because I haven't even talked to people since senior year in high school.

 

[Deleted member 33216]

I don't have friends, nor do I go out. The only people I talk to are my parents and my grandma, and they know I'm a virgin. As for online, it never really came up.

 

[Deleted member 33464]

There's no point in telling since they already know. I mean, if they don't realize already just by looking at you, they can probably pick it up from your mannerisms. So there also isn't a point in lying. But I don't talk to people so I've never had this happen

 

[Urekkim]

I find it pointless to lie. Normies can usually tell based on how you are in groups.

Had an asshole normie assuming I was gay bcs I had no experiences with girls. Almost lashed out on the motherfucker.

 

[Deleted member 33472]

I find it pointless to lie. Normies can usually tell based on how you are in groups.

Had an asshole normie assuming I was gay bcs I had no experiences with girls. Almost lashed out on the motherfucker.

That's the most annoying shit. They act like we have a choice lmao

 

[Glast]

When asked by acquaintances? Yes.

 

[Deleted member 32183]

Never came up before

I wouldn't pretend since I hate lying and I'm bad at it

 

[TheEnd]

Ofc. You'll be a target of endless mockery if you admit to being a male virgin. Nobody respects that, NOBODY. One time I hesitated to answer and was seconds away from starting a shitstorm.

 

[Deleted member 33472]

Ofc. You'll be a target of endless mockery if you admit to being a male virgin. Nobody respects that, NOBODY. One time I hesitated to answer and was seconds away from starting a shitstorm.

You're right about nobody respecting it but it'll be 10x worst being caught in the lie, you'll be humiliated even more. If you can get away with the lie though

 

[WØLF]

I don't have friends, nor do I go out.

 

[The Abyss]

Always lie if confronted, to do otherwise invites trouble.

 

[Copexodius Maximus]

If I was put in a situation to tell, I would say the truth.

 

[patheticmanletcel]

Im a deformed midget so its pretty hard to convince anyone that im not

 

[ilieknothing]

If I get asked if I have a gf, I lie about previous ones. I don't think they believe me

 

[Gymcelled]

Had an asshole normie assuming I was gay bcs I had no experiences with girls.

 

[Deleted member 21768]

I don't have friends, nor do I go out. As for online, it never really came up.

 

[Kamikaze]

Im never in a situation when such a topic might be brought up.

 

[Sheogorath]

I don't have friends, nor do I go out.

if I did I'd probably just try to be vague, try to be low-inhib enough to refuse to answer, let them speculate

 

[Deleted member 8884]

Just lie. Say you had one shitty relationship back in high school and lost your virginity to her, but haven't had a gf for a long time because you

1. Haven't met the right one
2. Have no money for one
3. Are religious

That is really the best way to even it out and its (somewhat) believable to them.

DO NOT be upfront and tell them that you haven't had sex. This is social suicide.

 

[Blackpincel]

I am a virgin (if you disregard escortcelling), and I'm tired of pretending I'm not

People kind of assume it though after seeing you friendless and girfriendless after a long time (yet they do jack shit to help you, they don't even try to get you a date with their 3/10 landwhale friend who just broke up with her 20th boyfriend, they are probably just waiting and expecting you to rope)

I find it pointless to lie. Normies can usually tell based on how you are in groups.

Had an asshole normie assuming I was gay bcs I had no experiences with girls. Almost lashed out on the motherfucker.

Look at the bright side, if he assumed you are gay for not having women around you, you might be at least normie-looking, otherwise he's likely not assume that

 

[the3rdwill]

You don't have to pretend you aren't a virgin. If you are ugly than no one is interested in you anyways. It's just foolish and weak to reveal something about yourself that embarrassing to people you hardly know and will likely use it against you.

 

[Deleted member 33091]

Just lie. Say you had one shitty relationship back in high school and lost your virginity to her, but haven't had a gf for a long time because you

1. Haven't met the right one
2. Have no money for one
3. Are religious

That is really the best way to even it out and its (somewhat) believable to them.

DO NOT be upfront and tell them that you haven't had sex. This is social suicide.

This. I basically just say stuff like I had a whore cheat on me when I was in highschool and ever since I can't trust women. lol

 

[ionlycopenow]

You have to. If you admit to being a virgin that will absolutely destroy and obliterate what little smv you even have left.

There's no point in telling since they already know. I mean, if they don't realize already just by looking at you, they can probably pick it up from your mannerisms. So there also isn't a point in lying. But I don't talk to people so I've never had this happen

Normshit are retarded and unironically believe you can get laid by being funny etc so you can just make some bullshit up and they'll probably give you a pass.

DO NOT be upfront and tell them that you haven't had sex. This is social suicide.

 

[Pence2024]

Sometimes I take it as a compliment when people assume there's a possibility of me not being incel. But no, I wouldn't claim not to be one. If someone won't be friends with me because I'm involuntarily celibate, they're not worth being friends with.

 

[childhoodmemories]

Srs question tho: why would you even discuss anything related to your sex life (or lack thereof) in a professional setting?
I mean, I've been working with an open fag at my prev job, he apparently had a boyfriend and most people knew about it, but I didn't even know for almost two years I worked on the same project with him.

Kinda similar thing with anyone's virginity - I can hardly imagine anyone asking if you are dating someone or not - at least in the modern corporate environment in the US it is frowned upon, at least from what I've seen over the years

 

[Deleted member 31630]

i lie about it, they are braindead so they will believe you, unless they are blackpiller and already know the truth.

telling them you are still a virgin is the #1 way of getting thrown under the bus and being targeted

 

[Uglyme]

That's not possible, people notice it from miles away.

 

[BITG]

Ofc. You'll be a target of endless mockery if you admit to being a male virgin. Nobody respects that, NOBODY. One time I hesitated to answer and was seconds away from starting a shitstorm.

Always be ready for the past gf question. “When was ur last gf?”

 

[Dregster]

When there is a topic amongst normies and chads and they bring up sexual experiences, do you lie, tell the truth, or have some sort of escape plan?

My escape plan was escortcelling and then larping about that as a failed relationship and that im still trying to "find" the "right girl"

 

[Deleted member 33450]

Tbh I don’t really care about a bad reputation but sometimes i’ll say i’m religious

 

[Deleted member 31122]

I am neetcelling for few years already so nobody could ask it, but when they did in the past I was always honest, like what's the point they all know it already

 

[VindalooCell]

I don't think I could ever become so ingrained within a group of strangers that this topic could ever be brought up in my presence.

 

[Deleted member 33615]

in my head i am a superstar and famous jestermaxxed out and i act like chad

 

[AlexAnguish]

I have in arguments. Mostly when I want to be taken seriously. Because they dont pay attention to the logic in your argument.

 

[Deleted member 20064]

I think i would lie, telling i had one short relationship when young, had a bad ending like she cheated on me and i prefer to don't talk about it. It will still be weird, but better than being a kissless virgin.

 

[Deleted member 32197]

I find it pointless to lie. Normies can usually tell based on how you are in groups.

Had an asshole normie assuming I was gay bcs I had no experiences with girls. Almost lashed out on the motherfucker.

Same. Normies just can’t comprehend having an isolated, socially elusive, and sexless life.

 

[BigHeadCel]

Before I escorted I was very awkward at any mention of virgins , fucking escorts helped although I regret losing all that money

 

[Deleted member 6214]

My go-to response is that I had a gf a few years ago but not at the moment since I'm very busy.

 

[Deleted member 33735]

I ALWAYS say that i had a relationship before, that i had 2 girlsfriends in all my life and that it was not worth it, and done, they never asked me directly though, it always comes from me saying "yeah, i had a relationship before and it was not good", i dont even know why i tell them that, nobody cares, but its like if they know i am a loser virgin, they will bash me to hell and lower my social status in some way, fuck this world and society, i hate how all works, WHY you need to lose your virginity in order to be someone.

 

[Incline]

When there is a topic amongst normies and chads and they bring up sexual experiences, do you lie, tell the truth, or have some sort of escape plan? I personally try to avoid being in a situation like that but if the question is asked directly, I usually tell the truth because they will usually already know the answer. I haven't been in this situation in a long time because I haven't even talked to people since senior year in high school.

Dunno. Don't have any friends and no longer work with immature brats. So can't really say. Though it does come up here and there more on the sidelines, I don't get involved in that kind of conversations. I don't really get involved in any conversation. I just try to maintain my normie appearance as best as I can a boring normie so that nobody bothers me with anything anymore. The only social interactions I have comes from professional work duties.

Only I can give myself what I really want in this life. Nobody else can suffice. I wish I could be like Diogenes but I am still so human its disgusting. I am still emotionally vulnerable even if I deny it. I was born empathic and people always took advantage of that. I can see my fault yet I still can't change myself it's really annoying. But I am in the process of doing it, soon enough I will no longer be held hostage by mother nature and my genetic self inflicted mental prison torture.

Psychedelic's are a wonderful tool to push the lines and rearrange your humanity. Just gotta be careful or you'll end up fucked up which is why I'm taking my time with removing my barriers and taming my deranged brain. I must seize and control my emotions so that they no longer get out of control then I can move on doing what I wanna do.

But there is one thing I struggle with and that is sex. That is not something you can just avoid we are fucking designed to breed it is literally the sole biological purpose of a living organism. I rather not have to deal with it like I'm dealing with the rest of me. I rather just fuck something and get over it that way. It's much easier than trying to fuck with my brain to the point where I won't need sex. I don't even know how much fucking with my brain would it take to overcome my lack of sex.

 

[Garbage Life]

Yes, because for some fucking reason coworkers always ask wherever I work. I just lie and say I'm not a virgin

 

[Deleted member 33778]

The rare times I've been asked I've lied, normies and chads can probably tell though

 

[Deleted member 33716]

To youngcels: Just see a pro and lose the V-card when you become an adult.

Bad enough being incel, no need to be absolute virgin on top.

 

[Total Imbecile]

No friends so no neet to predent

But a coworker asked me once and I straight up admitted it

I cant lie about not being a virgin, Im just horrible about lying in general but if I tried lying about not being a virgin my voice would get shaky and hed know

Hed play along with me that Im not but deep down hed be able to tell

 

[Emba]

Yes

 

[dirtykombatcel]

Im never in a situation when such a topic might be brought up.

same, no one bothers bringing up sex around me

 

[your personality]

Like autism people can tell if you haven't been intimate with women before.

 

[Deleted member 24016]

I just tell the truth when asked