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Do you NEED to hate women to self-identify as "Incel?" (poll)

Do you need to hate women to call yourself "incel?"

  • Yes

    Votes: 4 21.1%
  • No

    Votes: 15 78.9%

  • Total voters
    19
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While @Sergeantincel defines incel in it's most generic and literal sense as "involuntary celibate" (i.e., "Person who is not in a relationship nor has had sex in a significant amount of time, despite numerous attempts to do so" -- from the Terminology sticky), IncelTears claims that a DEFINING pre-requisite of Incel identity is misogyny. Many outside observers echo this perspective. But how many of you would agree with that? 

Obviously, various forms of misogyny are regularly espoused here (and cooked into the blackpill jargon, e.g., "FHO") for unsurprising reasons, but IMO most of it is said ironically or in jest. Is unironic misogyny the critical distinction between "Incel" and someone whose just a virgin or self-identifies as "FA?" Does not hating women disqualify you from self-identifying as "incel" or any claims to be "blackpilled?" 

There's a clear interest for a subreddit devoted entirely to ridiculing a community substantially made up of virgins with mental health issues to want to paint them as a hate group, but would you agree with the characterization?
 
No because they are also many incels that are bluepilled or inceltears users. I want to keep the current definition
 
its hard not to hate women as an incel as they take away so much from us without us ever doing anything to them in the first place
 
Where's the poll?
 
No you don't.

There's a "cult" of incels that do, but to actually be an incel you just need to be involuntary celibate.
 
It isn't a requirement, it just happens to be a coincidence. Probably a result of jealousy and resentment because relationships/sex are unattainable to us, so in order to cope incels resort to hate. Inceltears users are literally causing incels to be even more hateful than before.

Anyways all this "female hate" circlejerk is getting pretty boring imo, i'd rather talk with my fellow incels about their hobbies/favorite movies etc.
I think we need a board for the discussion of incel hobbies.
 
No you need to be looksmaxed, have game, be the best you could, and try your best with 45+ Femoids below your looks level throughout the years and be rejected by all of them. And you need to be 20+ years old. Such lives are the lives of an Incel. Not necessarily a truecel. But you are still one of us. But yeah that's about it.

Incels can be bluepilled, redpilled, blackpilled, purplepilled or even "pinkpilled".

An Incel is an involuntary Celibate. That's it. You don't need to identify as an incel to be one.
 
No. I have plenty of female friends, am fairly NT, and still incel. My 3/10 looks are what's holding me back. Women love talking to me, they just hate dating me. IncelTears BTFO.
 
DankIncel said:
No you need to be looksmaxed, have game, be the best you could, and try your best with 45+ Femoids below your looks level throughout the years and be rejected by all of them. And you need to be 20+ years old. Such lives are the lives of an Incel. Not necessarily a truecel. But you are still one of us. But yeah that's about it.

Incels can be bluepilled, redpilled, blackpilled, purplepilled or even "pinkpilled".

An Incel is an involuntary Celibate. That's it. You don't need to identify as an incel to be one.

Then most users here aren't incels by our definition
 
No, incel means involuntary celibate, so it doesn't matter if you hate women/femoids or not.
 
Facade said:
Then most users here aren't incels by our definition

Yeah that's a sad truth. At least we don't have Femoids. I guess.
 
No,it doesn't matter what you identify as,if you are involuntarily celibate you are incel that's it.
 

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