Do you have Oneitis ?

[Deleted member 776]

I agree with the getting over it eventually part if you no longer see your oneitis.
But the problem is that after being completely disillusioned from such an experience you realize (as many redpillers and mgtow have pointed out) that a lot of the motivation and discipline you had comes from the possiblity of bettering yourself to be in a relationship with women at some point in the future. Once this is gone there isn't much else except immediate deadlines that moves you to act.

Funnily enough I still beat my meat to pictures of mine.

Yeah - the feeling that I might be within striking distance of that accomplishment is what made her so intoxicating. It's partly the reason I do look back with warm feelings on something that was incredibly toxic for me. She made me feel incredible. The getting over it part is the really fundamental challenge for men of our time. You wake up and realise this is the first day of the rest of your life without that goal.

Aaron Clarey talks about this on his YouTube channel - you have to find other goals to put your time and energy too. Like travelling - riding your motorcycle. Learning a skill, achieving excellence. That sort of thing. It's certainly what I have devoted my life to the last few years.

 

[your personality]

Funnily enough I still beat my meat to pictures of mine.

One of the worst thing you can do imo.
Fapping to your oneitis doesn't help you forget her but instead builds up more feelings of attachment. It can also occur accidentally if you try to fap using your imagination and think of your oneitis.
It's the one scenario where watching porn of foids that look nothing like your oneitis is a good thing to do if you get horny.

Yeah - the feeling that I might be within striking distance of that accomplishment is what made her so intoxicating. It's partly the reason I do look back with warm feelings on something that was incredibly toxic for me. She made me feel incredible. The getting over it part is the really fundamental challenge for men of our time. You wake up and realise this is the first day of the rest of your life without that goal.

Yeah you lose your sense of purpose and have to start over but the problem is old copes no longer work.

Aaron Clarey talks about this on his YouTube channel - you have to find other goals to put your time and energy too. Like travelling - riding your motorcycle. Learning a skill, achieving excellence. That sort of thing. It's certainly what I have devoted my life to the last few years.

I think like most things it's just time. As long as you never run into your oneitis again and keep a low profile that is.
Imagine the embarrassment of falling out of touch with your oneitis but then getting in a situation where you get increased attention or publicity like through becoming an involuntary public figure. It's really infuriating if that happens tbh your oneitis shouldn't know about your whereabouts after you fall out of contact with them otherwise they'll use you as a way to make conversation and diss you in the process.
Nothing you can do about that of course but it's good to as much as possible stay out of the limelight so that your oneitis completely forgets you ever existed. If foids want to embarass you later they can dig up so many memories of you but the longer you go without making yourself known the easier it is for them to completely forget about you and the less chance they'll use you as an example in conversation. Idk why it's so hurtful when you know there is a good chance of that happening but it is. Being used by a foid even in such a minor way makes you feel useless.

 

[Deleted member 18435]

Yeah I just recently had a oneitis and she fucking ghosted me. Thought I would finally be happy only for it to all be a charade of my own creation. Most fucking brutal experience I've had in a while. I have no motivation left.

Foids who do that are pieces of shit. Aleast now you won't be giving the cunt any undeserved attention anymore.

 

[Deleted member 31513]

The worst thing for incels. It is a hell. Its over. Do you have/had oneitis ?

I do - since 2004. For half-a-year we've tried to build a relationship (that was w/o sex): eventualy she decided returning to her Ex

 

[Deleted member 818]

Never. I've fancied a few girls but nothing beyond that.

 

[FukFeminism]

Yes. I did. I'm over them but like you said, it's hell.

 

[TrueShortCel]

simped for someone who wasn't mine

 

[Unsaveable]

No i don't and have never had a onetis.

 

[anon2719]

I used to tell myself I liked a specific girl as a kind of cope to make myself feel more human but what I realized is I was just horny and wanted to fuck all my so called oneitises

 

[Socialretard79]

Yes. I've had many. My current is a really adorable coworker with the cutest voice I've ever heard. Still a whore tho

 

[Intellau_Celistic]

Am too embittered to have an oneitis nowadays.

This is the end result of delusion. I'm incapable of having another "oneitis", too. I realized it some time ago.

 

[Hikikomori_cel]

Yeah, this one muslim girl from my college groupe. She's "chad only" of course, but she also seems like a nice person, who treats me, an ugly ethnic, respectfully, unlike other foidlets. I need to mention that If i was deluded bluepilled cuck, i would think she's showing interest, but i know for a fact – i'm out of her league as a 5'8 manlet with subaverage face. Never Began. She's probably getting rawdogged by white chad now

 

[OscarAllius]

I've had countless, but they all rejected me and one even ghosted me, so fuck it