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Experiment Do you have friends? Do you know how to make and sustain them?

I have...

  • ...multiple friends, but don't know how to make friends

    Votes: 11 16.4%
  • ...multiple friends and know how to make friends

    Votes: 6 9.0%
  • ...no friends and don't know how to make friends

    Votes: 33 49.3%
  • ...no friends, but know how to make friends

    Votes: 5 7.5%
  • ...one friend, but don't know how to make friends

    Votes: 8 11.9%
  • ...one friend and know how to make friends

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • ...a full-fledged normie tier social circle and know how to make friends (obviously)

    Votes: 3 4.5%
  • Other (elab in comments)

    Votes: 1 1.5%

  • Total voters
    67
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Any tips welcome. I failed to often.
 
I have friends only by sheer luck tbh

My only advice is to find people as autistic as you
 
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I’d say the best thing is like a hobby or work you can do with other guys. After you’ve been talking with people from your thing, offer to hang out
 
Yes and yes. It all happened naturally at school
 
It's very hard to make friends as a truecel. Pretty much impossible if you're also out of school or university. You have to be enjoyable to be around to have friends. If your face hurts to look at, you'll never have an enjoyable presence, you'll always be the one who's tolerated but never accepted.
 
If you have friends youre a fakecel
 
no man never heard of them
 
everybody here friendmogs me :cryfeels::cryfeels::cryfeels:
 
i had 2 friends in school but now we talk like once a year and sometimes see each other. Im going to meet with one this month, I havent seen him in like a year
 
I just went to school and found myself in social situations with kids that liked the same things i liked. In recess , i was always joining them in games , I also played in a baseball mini league where i met people. I was a bit of a troublemaker and found myself in those groups

If i wanted to make friends nowadays , I would probably join college , gym or work at some place
 
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no friends and don't know how to make friends
 
Zero friends irl, I'm too ugly to have irl friends and I most of the people as ugly as I am are probably soy cucks and I wouldn't want to hang around soycucks anyway.

Basically, nobody wants to be friends with an ugly male because we would be an embarrassment to average looking, symmetrical faced normies. It's not uncommon for an average guy with an ugly friend to cut all contact with his ugly friend because a foid said "he's ugly and creepy, you should stop hanging out with him... it's him or me!"...Every male who isn't chad is extremely desperate for roast beef so their instincts tell them that being seen next to a short, bald, and ugly man will make it seem like his social circle sucks and he's a loser for hanging out with genetic losers. In other words, if you're an ugly male, you're banned from society.
 
Not really.
I talk to people at work but that's about it. I don't speak to them or see them on my off hours.
Never really knew how to make friends, especially as an adult.
Not that I mind though. I'm a hermit and prefer staying inside alone anyhow.
 
The last friend I had was a fat guy in highschool. He was very autistic but we talked about videogames which was nice. I've never been able to socialize since I finished highschool and entered college. There I've only met retarded normies, my fate is to die alone.
 
imagine having friends
 
I kinda had friends but i'm currently moving to another college so probably wont see them again (not that i care lol). Even then they treated me like dogcrap most of the time and always referred to me as ugly or tried to find ugly famous people who were similar to me to laugh at me for a while. I actually tried to convince them that my ugliness is something that I cant control and that it hurts me to hear those jokes but they still didnt give a shit (Just man up and try to build more confidence teehee). So how much of an asshole can society be just bcuz you werent born as gigachad? I fucking despise the human race and especially numalesoyfags who laugh at everything like the braindead NPCs they are.
 
I know how to make friends but i don't want to. I prefer to be alone than to talk with retarded normies tbh
 
Only on payday
 
No friends and not interested in having them
 
i have one friend, have known since school

we live 15 mins apart but i only see him once a year

i don't care at this point in life, i don't want friends, i would rather hang out alone.
 
Nope. I don't like making friends.
 
Now i have no friends, i´d like to have an incel friend so we can talk about blackpill etc.:cryfeels:
 
It's extremely hard to make NEW friends imo, the friends who I'm still in contact n meet up, I've known them when I was still a teen. (8-10yrs ago)

Most males in my age range (20-30s) aren't actively seeking out new males friends to hang out with, they are most focused on acquiring pussy.

If ur NT and socialmaxxing, it might still be possible though but still very hard imo.
 
I will shoot you who vote anything other than 3
 
They have to be smv matched with you. I treat them the way I want to be treated (no cliche).
 
No to both of them. I had "friends" who eventually ditched and betrayed me in high school. In college the closest I got to a friend, was some guy who talked to me if he saw me on campus, but never invited me anywhere, introduced me to others or helped me build a social circle. I have never been able to maintain any kind of social relationship, people start to avoid me, even if they seem friendly for a while.
 
I got a few friends. Don't know how I made them. Didn't make friends until I was about 24ish.
 
Slovakcel looking for slovakcel friend
 
I never had a friend irl:feelsbadman:
 
I have a circle.
I don't want to make more friends because most of them are nonloyal normalfags
 
@Cuyen has numerous friends tbh.
I have friends only by sheer luck tbh

My only advice is to find people as autistic as you
Pretty much.

Surprisingly my 2 friends don't mind my rants about my hatred towards foids, some of them actually are impartial to them as well and one of them even calls women "femoids".
 
Not a single friend.
 
I do know how to make friends I just don't meet people, never get the chance to.
 
Friendships are a realm where having a good personality really matters. It's basically this, interests in common and finding a way to meet the boyos.
 
Nope lol. I'm too far removed from the wavelength of normies at this point.
 
2-3 friends that I've had since middle school.
Only time we really talk is when we join a VC together on Discord.
 
There are lots of people on here who say they don't work, can't drive, are fat, don't have any friends/can't make them yet none of these things apply to me (however I still live with my parents at 27) yet I am still clearly incel. The point I think I want to make here is that I continue on some level to think that chracter/personality matters, even at a minimum level, when the rational reality is that if you are not physically attractive no woman is going to force herself to sustain a relationship with you.
 
I literreally dont know how to make friends anymore, everyother person I hear, is either normie as fucking shit or some trash chad where I cant relate for shit with
 
I have friends only by sheer luck tbh

My only advice is to find people as autistic as you

how do socially retarded people make friends?

a socially extrovert bluepilled person takes pity on you and adopts you :v
 
I used to have friends... I don't anymore. They're useless and people are evil by nature so I don't give a fuck about friends. I only care about finding new copes when the old ones become boring and uninteresting so as to keep being disctracted from the crualtiy, ugliness and biterness of life...
 
I've never had a social circle, just single friends, but that's good.
Usually if we have something in common then it's much easier and it happens that we are friends for years. I never worried about sustaining a friendship since if we share something important time does not matter much, and given that we are not in a social circle we don't envy each other or anything like that.
Else I find it really impossible to bond and have something that I consider friendship.
It could be exchanging information, rotting together, having lunch together, but it's impossible to have a normie friend.
Anyway I feel that looks affects a lot the start of friendships, usually when people don't know me assume that I'm an ogre and stay away.
 
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