Do you have bad memories of trying to be outgoing in school?

[lurker45]

I drank the kool aid one time and tried to reinvent myself when I was about 16 years old, and I tried my best to initiate conversations with everyone I could and be happy and outgoing. You can guess how that went, I now have horrible, horrible memories that I'm stuck with forever. Always trust your instincts.

 

[Deleted member 677]

Yep. And they're still ongoing. I've already humiliated myself by getting rejected nineteen times, and have no friends.

 

[Frank]

It's really hard to "reinvent yourself" when people already have the initial most negative perception on you. I tried the same, and even when I'd change something that came naturally or I genuinely wanted to do just for me. It'd be labeled "try hard" or something. I eventually just stopped trying to communicate to other people who weren't incels.

 

[AntiPain]

My childhood was shit, so many dreams and ambitions I had, some that still hunt me to this day as they seduce me just to mock me when I go to sleep.
Things I wanted to do but couldn't, it's all gone now.

 

[Sgtpinkie]

Yup, I still remember my most cringy moments from like middle school and early days in high school, apart from that I don't even try anymore tbh.

 

[EyesAreSoCold]

Yes at the start of 7th grade I tried hanging around the girls in my class, they only ignored me and later started bullying me. I think that is when I first tasted the blackpill.

 

[Rightful anger]

Nope. I look down on people and couldn't care less about being popular or what they think of me.

They are going to treat me like shit anyway because they are so different, so I just treat them as subhumans from the get-go.

 

[MrFox]

Yup I wanted to fit in and be likeable but I wasn't being myself or respecting myself. Eventually I came to the realization that most people are shallow and cliquey. I had friends with other outcasts but changed schools so much and had to start over every time. Nowadays I am myself so much I have no friends but I wouldn't cuck myself again for any amount of popularity.

 

[Akarin]

Ive never tried to be outgoing, but after being on few parties I just realized that I have zero fun there and playing games is a lot better.

 

[patheticmanletcel]

Yes at the start of 7th grade I tried hanging around the girls in my class, they only ignored me and later started bullying me. I think that is when I first tasted the blackpill.

lol me too

 

[FortunateMilkman]

Yes, I tried to hang around a group of peers, they just made constant school shooter jokes about me and other jokes at my expense so I stopped trying to be social around people and continued to sit in the library alone.

 

[Deleted member 5861]

Yes 100%. JuST bE CONfiDent bros can burn in hell.

 

[superighteous]

I once did something totally out of character. We had a qt twenty-something year old sub. Someone asked her if she was married, she replied no. I got the bright idea to yell out “I can take care of that!” Expecting laughter, I was met with disapproving looks and people murmuring to each other saying stuff like “Umm why would he say that?” Because of that, I slumped into my chair and learned my place. I never spoke in class again.

 

[degesoka]

Yes, it was hell. Once i tried to lunch with people i didn't know very well. They rejected me. People are cold and cruel.

 

[Evildoer]

It's really hard to "reinvent yourself" when people already have the initial most negative perception on you.

Lol, is that possible at all? First impression is the strongest one.

 

[Newbite]

Never tried. Always knew i was genetic shit so i knew my place

 

[Lechuga]

Yes sir. Fuck trying to be someone I'm not

 

[Frank]

Lol, is that possible at all? First impression is the strongest one.

If you're an unkempt volcel or something, probably.

 

[Evildoer]

If you're an unkempt volcel or something, probably.

Low IQ post, first impression is always the strongest, no matter what you are.

 

[Frank]

Low IQ post, first impression is always the strongest, no matter what you are.

This is common knowledge, yes.

 

[LebaneseCel]

I always tried to NTmaxx in high school, but it honestly didn't work due to my manletism and ugly facial looks. I always got looked down upon for being this genetically inferior person and ridiculed constantly.

 

[Deleted member 60]

yeah, I actually had some success with this but it was ultimately too emotionally draining. Normies live for drama.

 

[Lord Of Skulls]

yeah, I actually had some success with this but it was ultimately too emotionally draining. Normies live for drama.

This x1000

At least normies leave me alone now for the most part.