I have a an ugly obese older female cousin who used to live with me because my aunt kicked her out for throwing a knife at her. She had a constant stream of boyfriends, all of whom were decent looking that I can remember. She ended up getting married to an engineer, and divorced him and got one of his properties. She is now on her second marriage.
She was ugly on the inside and out. Horrible hygiene. Obese. Smelled bad and wore perfume that somehow combined with her BO made her smell even worse. LOUD. Pathological liar. Aggressive. Kleptomaniac. I can't think of a single redeeming factor she has. Living with her was an absolute nightmare.
I also have a male cousin who is roughly my looksmatch. He's still a truecel as far as I can tell, but he has a decent job, so he lifemogs me too.