Chad can beat her twice a day, restrict her from going outside, delete all her social media, and she never detects the bad personality. Yet somehow they can tell we are mean at first glance IRL when most of us act perfectly normal. Amazing how they can detect we post here with no indications IRL and yet they don’t notice blatant red flags from a Chad. (Remember, legit serial killers like Richard Ramirez, the creepiest people with the worst personalities in the world, got foids to love them.) That right there debunks the personality myth completely. Personality = NT and low inhib. Has nothing to do with how nice or mean you are