The reason i ask is that i know of guys who were dating single mothers with 2,3, sometimes 4 kids and then you see these same guys a few years later and they are still in the same situation and seemingly happy with it. I mean there are no signs of unhappiness or stress on them. But of course this is only the outside looking in.
One guy i have met here and there and exchanged small talk with years ago was with a woman who had 2 daughters with a black man. I went to get some food shopping the other day and he said hello to me and then i noticed he walked down the aisle and the same woman with the same 2 daughters (now older) were there with him. The woman herself even looked better and had lost a lot of weight. So this guy has seemingly settled down with a woman with 2 kids by a black man but yet she doesn't give him a baby of his own even though they have been together a long time thus he has proved he's in it for the long term.
Some of these guys even the woman they are with has had her womb removed or is on a strict birth control procedure and takes the attitude of "enough kids for me now i focus on myself and career" which means that the guy will not even get any of his own kids with her but yet seems content to play daddy all these years with no problems.
You could say "well maybe the guy just doesn't want kids" but then why is he dating a single mother in the first place? Her kids aren't exactly just gonna disappear.
The most interesting thing i have noticed when i have come across men like this is that they are not even your stereotypical bearded-glasses numale cuck from reddit like they are when we see the stories posted online about them. Most of the ones i see irl raising other guys kids are tall or robust working class men who come across as having a bit of backbone. They don't appear to be spineless beta cucks, and while they aren't typically handsome they aren't exactly ugly either.
Are these guys just hanging on to the woman for the pussy hoping something better comes along? or do you believe some of them are actually happy in this situation and are prepared to get older having no family of their own?
One guy i have met here and there and exchanged small talk with years ago was with a woman who had 2 daughters with a black man. I went to get some food shopping the other day and he said hello to me and then i noticed he walked down the aisle and the same woman with the same 2 daughters (now older) were there with him. The woman herself even looked better and had lost a lot of weight. So this guy has seemingly settled down with a woman with 2 kids by a black man but yet she doesn't give him a baby of his own even though they have been together a long time thus he has proved he's in it for the long term.
Some of these guys even the woman they are with has had her womb removed or is on a strict birth control procedure and takes the attitude of "enough kids for me now i focus on myself and career" which means that the guy will not even get any of his own kids with her but yet seems content to play daddy all these years with no problems.
You could say "well maybe the guy just doesn't want kids" but then why is he dating a single mother in the first place? Her kids aren't exactly just gonna disappear.
The most interesting thing i have noticed when i have come across men like this is that they are not even your stereotypical bearded-glasses numale cuck from reddit like they are when we see the stories posted online about them. Most of the ones i see irl raising other guys kids are tall or robust working class men who come across as having a bit of backbone. They don't appear to be spineless beta cucks, and while they aren't typically handsome they aren't exactly ugly either.
Are these guys just hanging on to the woman for the pussy hoping something better comes along? or do you believe some of them are actually happy in this situation and are prepared to get older having no family of their own?
