Discussion Do you find it hard to get close to new people?

[Hoppipolla]

I guess adults just tend to be distant? I interact with lots of people but never really get close to them. It's like all my close connections I've had for many years.

It's weird. I know you don't get close to people overnight, but I'd expect it to be more regular than this.

Maybe it's because I'm an extrovert so I want to connect with people more.

 

[twisted]

i have no one

 

[bathlete]

i find it entirely rewarding to connect with the silence than to others guess due to never having had the desire to do so in the first place

 

[kcarrots]

my close friends are people I’ve known for more than 7 years

 

[JKlancecaster069]

I've never been close with anyone.

 

[Stupid Clown]

They don't want friends with someone lower status than themselves

 

[NIGGER BOJANGLES]

Yes, I have not made any close friends in basically a decade

 

[Pancakecel]

i have no one

 

[Poindexter]

I have trouble connecting to people, i've started enjoying being alone

 

[Janaki]

Yes. I don't know how to talk to people.

 

[Todd Thundercock]

Yes, because I'm ugly

 

[Zetta]

Yeah it's difficult you stray further and further from the normgroid strata as time progresses and at the end there is no overlap in the ven diagram between you and the majority of people you meet inceldom compounds layers and layers of alienation onto itself

 

[RandomGuy]

View: https://youtu.be/W4BDKQgFP9U?si=wr2wLtMGdVFNm1ak

 

[MediumDiploma]

You dont have friends, yiu have followers