Yes, a big point of Christianity is how much Jesus suffered. Yet, Jesus was constantly surrounded by those who loved him. He was constantly being affirmed as the savior, the Christ, an extension of God.
The thing is, the best you can ever hope for as someone like us, is that one day, somehow, an ugly whore will allow you to be cucked to her. That's it. That's what "ascension" is for us. There is no "ascending" into the life of an upper-tier normie, as an incel. It's not reality. The only reality that you can hold onto, is very suifuel.
You can pretend that women don't matter, that you do you, that you are here for you and you're going to do what its right for YOU, and how you don't understand how society is so about WOMEN, and cope in that way, while deep down harboring the believe that your lifestyle is so "manly" that you'll attract a subhuman foid.
Next option, you can become an open cuck, and appease every nasty skank in hopes for licks of affection. Either way, as a man, you will never escape the power of women. Further more, as a subhuman male, our physical reality does not allow us to actualize the needs and desires programmed into our brains.
We are truly fucked.