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Cope Do you even want to "ascend" anymore?

lowz1r

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Do you still actively wish you could ascend?

I don't. The more I learned about women, the more I hated them, and the more I hated them, the less I desired them.

I just can't imagine a woman ever making me happy. It just seems too unrealistic for me to think about it anymore. It's like saying I want to go to the moon.
It's not impossible, it's just too unrealistic to be an actual desire.
 
No even using the term "Ascend" In a positive context should be warnable.
 
I just want to be happy one day. Don't care about foids or a relationship. I don't want to be afraid and mentally ill anymore. Becoming a burden for my family.

I just want to say something, but I don't know what it is I want to say. Guess that's why it's all subconscious.
 
The odds of humanity discovering time travel is higher then the odds of me “ascending”.
 
I want to be desired and i would have liked to have a faithful and kind partner. I'm not going to get that, so there's no ascension for me.

Tho i want sex and i may book an escort in the near future
 
Yes

Incel life is HORRIBLE

But I think ascending is a cope since you cant really improve your looks trough plastic surgery
 
I am not sure. In the odd chance that I do at 41, then what? It would probably be a fluke event and even if it was all that it was cracked up to be, at my age my already severely narrow hypothetical dating pool will be even more limited by the fact that everybody I know has already paired off and pumped out kids.

I would be an amateur at an age when most people are well into their sexual career.
 
I get what you're saying. What I would consider ascension seems like a dream within a dream. Be that as it may, that doesn't mean I don't wanna ascend anymore. I suppose it depends on what you mean by ascension -- is it to find a unicorn or is it beholden to realism?
 
I don't think there is a woman that can love me. Even if some unicorn saw through my hideous shell and liked me for me, I wouldn't believe her. I was too hurt by this apathetic world and I'm just broken by it. But I don't want to grovel at her feet; I want to be an equal, not a walking wallet or an emotional tampon. I don't want anyone to be that close to me, to be able to hurt me so deeply. I fear that I would get tricked and end up misplacing my love. That would be the death of me.

But maybe if some gal was really persistent for years. I think she would be able to heal me to some extend. Though I would always feel inferior. I would ended up self deprecating myself a lot, but if she could put up will all of that and still hold me close and show me that I'm a worthy of her love just for existing. Then I think I would feel a flicker of happiness, and maybe I will even heal and change my views. If she really was the one to sleep in my arms, to have, hold and love me through and through... ¯\_(ツ)_/¯, but that's never going to happen so it's pointless to even think about it...
 
I have too many problems currently, ascending isnt even on my mind most days because of it, my number 1 worry rn is money money money money
 
no i’ve come to terms with not being able to ascend at one point ,i won’t stop self improving for my own good but foids make me angry and piss me off. they always have, i’ve always been disgusted by thier nature, even more now that i just simply don’t see any chance.
 
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Do you still actively wish you could ascend?

I don't. The more I learned about women, the more I hated them, and the more I hated them, the less I desired them.

I just can't imagine a woman ever making me happy. It just seems too unrealistic for me to think about it anymore. It's like saying I want to go to the moon.
It's not impossible, it's just too unrealistic to be an actual desire.
No, the friends of any foid would laugh at her for dating me
 
No, the friends of any foid would laugh at her for dating me
Brooootal, but same friend. They would laugh and shame her till she broke up with me. Same for her family i can already imagine how much they would hate me
 
Brooootal, but same friend. They would laugh and shame her till she broke up with me. Same for her family i can already imagine how much they would hate me
Foids are demons
 
Having a GF might give me lifefuel. But I’d miss my new mates from here
 

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