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Do you consider women worth all the trouble? I probably would actually try a bit if I thought it was worth it.

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To get a woman you'd be giving up so much: most of your free time, a lot of your money, your energy and effort. You'd have to do all kinds of chores and activities you wouldn't have to do as a bachelor. Basically your entire freedom is gone.

All of that for what? Even in an ideal scenario, all you'd get is sex, a person to talk to and be around all the time and eventually kids. Does that sound worth it to you? Maybe I'm just so antisocial by nature that I don't see the appeal. Sex is great but not great enough to do all those things and lose all my time, money, energy, freedom. Maybe an unrealistic scenario, a movie-like love that transcends all mundane troubles, maybe that would be worth it. But that's just retarded and yet everybody thinks their love is true and will last.

Ahh whatever, the point is fucking moot. Why am I even making these threads. I'm bald, I've got thick glasses, half missing front teeth and more cavities than fingers, autistic, shitty employment prospects etc... Not like this weighing of pros and cons fucking matters to me. Guess I'm just trying to cope. I know women are fucking horrible and the juice ain't worth the squeeze so if I could just fuck some non-escort pussy a few times I'd be able to actually forget all this incel business. But not ever getting any pussy makes me think about it too often.
 
No not worth it. Stay the fuck away. If a woman doesn't give you direct clues of interest within the first 10 mins (5 secs actually) of meeting her just find a way to ghost her before she thinks you are interested in her and friendzones you to make her ego larger. And even if you do land a chick (as a non Chad because if you are Chad she will do her best to make you commit and keep you interested) She will always have fights with you, Shit tests day and night, find any single reason to fight with you and most importantly ditch you because of her hypergamous nature. GG.
 
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most of your free time, a lot of your money, your energy and effort.
If it was just that, it'd be worth it. The problem is that even if you "ascend" after all the effort, you'll statistically get disrespected, cheated on, ghosted, abandoned, risk false accusations, risk losing your money and stuff in the case of marriage, have to put up with tons of modern foid shit, etc. Investing in women in any way, be it emotionally, monetarily, etc, is the worst possible investment you can make in 2020.
 
I know women are fucking horrible and the juice ain't worth the squeeze so if I could just fuck some non-escort pussy a few times I'd be able to actually forget all this incel business. But not ever getting any pussy makes me think about it too often.[/SPOILER]
me too
 
If it was just that, it'd be worth it. The problem is that even if you "ascend" after all the effort, you'll statistically get disrespected, cheated on, ghosted, abandoned, risk false accusations, risk losing your money and stuff in the case of marriage, have to put up with tons of modern foid shit, etc. Investing in women in any way, be it emotionally, monetarily, etc, is the worst possible investment you can make in 2020.
Even if all this shit doesn't happen (and there's a good chance some of it will), merely the fact that it statistically happens to so many men skews the equation and makes it definitely not worth it.
No not worth it. Stay the fuck away. If a woman doesn't give you direct clues of interest within the first 10 mins (5 secs actually) of meeting her just find a way to ghost her before she thinks you are interested in her and friendzones you to make her ego larger. And even if you do land a chick (as a non Chad because if you are Chad she will do her best to make you commit and keep you interested) She will always have fights with you, Shit tests day and night, find any single reason to fight with you and most importantly ditch you because of her hypergamous nature. GG.
Very true, any woman is exhausting with her drama, her demands and needs and chores and whatnot. Applies to everyone, even Chad when he settles down eventually.
 
Even if all this shit doesn't happen (and there's a good chance some of it will), merely the fact that it statistically happens to so many men skews the equation and makes it definitely not worth it.
Exactly.

There are 999 reasons not to pursue women anymore in 2020, especially if you're ugly. And just one to do so: your hormones/biological drives kicking you to do it. Sadly how the latter usually still wins the tug of war.
 
Exactly.

There are 999 reasons not to pursue women anymore in 2020, especially if you're ugly. And just one to do so: your hormones/biological drives kicking you to do it. Sadly how the latter usually still wins the tug of war.
It's honestly so exhausting. Consciously I know all this is 100% right, that being in a relationship with a woman would be an exhausting hell, biology is so powerful that I still desire it and I have it constantly remind myself that even if I was able to get it, it wouldn't be worth it.

Shit, and all it would take for me to forget about all this shit for the rest of my life is to just get laid a few times. And I could be single forever without problems. But for some fucking reason getting sex is fucking impossible. God damn it.
 
No not worth it. Stay the fuck away. If a woman doesn't give you direct clues of interest within the first 10 mins (5 secs actually) of meeting her just find a way to ghost her before she thinks you are interested in her and friendzones you to make her ego larger. And even if you do land a chick (as a non Chad because if you are Chad she will do her best to make you commit and keep you interested) She will always have fights with you, Shit tests day and night, find any single reason to fight with you and most importantly ditch you because of her hypergamous nature. GG.
 
No not worth it. Stay the fuck away. If a woman doesn't give you direct clues of interest within the first 10 mins (5 secs actually) of meeting her just find a way to ghost her before she thinks you are interested in her and friendzones you to make her ego larger. And even if you do land a chick (as a non Chad because if you are Chad she will do her best to make you commit and keep you interested) She will always have fights with you, Shit tests day and night, find any single reason to fight with you and most importantly ditch you because of her hypergamous nature. GG.
Women are demonic
 
Yea

If women didn’t reject me and treat me like shit it would be worth it

Going out of my way so some foidscum can just ignore me isn’t worth my anything
 
No, save your money, emotions, undying love and devotion for AI robowaifus, if you are rich , you can prolly get a whole harem , each with a different preprogrammed personality and looks.
 
if you weren't given the right tools (good facial genetics, height, big dick) foids in the 21st century are absolutely not worth it
 
No, because they mostly all have fucked Chad and all she needed from him was his dick
 
Nah. It's insane how much a male has to do to get a hole
 
in hs is where u learn how relationships work and how to manage them which is why failing to get a GF in HS is a severe hindrance and a death sentence
 
of course, but no amount of effort would make them want an oldcel sperg like me.
 
It's objectively not worth it. With all the psychological damage that has been done over the years, it just feels... mechanical. Being rejected over and over again in the same manner... and yet, somehow I'm still drawn towards trying, even though I know the costs outweigh the benefits. I can't wait until I'm in my 30's when my libido drops off, because then I might actually, truly, stop caring, without thinking about how good everyone else got it. Logically, I should stop trying, as I know how things are and that I will never get what I want.

If I could figure out a way to rationalize around my thoughts of how so many people are doing better than me, without suffering any consequences, I would drop women like the sewer waste they are in this age.
 
Yea

If women didn’t reject me and treat me like shit it would be worth it

Going out of my way so some foidscum can just ignore me isn’t worth my anything
No, save your money, emotions, undying love and devotion for AI robowaifus, if you are rich , you can prolly get a whole harem , each with a different preprogrammed personality and looks.
It is scientifically proven there is no love in foids. But can it be in ai?
if you weren't given the right tools (good facial genetics, height, big dick) foids in the 21st century are absolutely not worth it
Brutal 21century pill
No, because they mostly all have fucked Chad and all she needed from him was his dick
Nah. It's insane how much a male has to do to get a hole
It's objectively not worth it. With all the psychological damage that has been done over the years, it just feels... mechanical. Being rejected over and over again in the same manner... and yet, somehow I'm still drawn towards trying, even though I know the costs outweigh the benefits. I can't wait until I'm in my 30's when my libido drops off, because then I might actually, truly, stop caring, without thinking about how good everyone else got it. Logically, I should stop trying, as I know how things are and that I will never get what I want.

If I could figure out a way to rationalize around my thoughts of how so many people are doing better than me, without suffering any consequences, I would drop women like the sewer waste they are in this age.
Brutal I try even though I'm gonna fail pill. Very brutal
 
To get a woman you'd be giving up so much: most of your free time, a lot of your money, your energy and effort. You'd have to do all kinds of chores and activities you wouldn't have to do as a bachelor. Basically your entire freedom is gone.

All of that for what? Even in an ideal scenario, all you'd get is sex, a person to talk to and be around all the time and eventually kids. Does that sound worth it to you? Maybe I'm just so antisocial by nature that I don't see the appeal. Sex is great but not great enough to do all those things and lose all my time, money, energy, freedom. Maybe an unrealistic scenario, a movie-like love that transcends all mundane troubles, maybe that would be worth it. But that's just retarded and yet everybody thinks their love is true and will last.

Ahh whatever, the point is fucking moot. Why am I even making these threads. I'm bald, I've got thick glasses, half missing front teeth and more cavities than fingers, autistic, shitty employment prospects etc... Not like this weighing of pros and cons fucking matters to me. Guess I'm just trying to cope. I know women are fucking horrible and the juice ain't worth the squeeze so if I could just fuck some non-escort pussy a few times I'd be able to actually forget all this incel business. But not ever getting any pussy makes me think about it too often.
It's not a sacrifice to me. I look forward to all those activities as long as I get to be with her. Unlike many people here I don't have any copes and I don't enjoy rotting.
 

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