Discussion Do you come off as desperate

[AutistSupremacist]

Irl I don't ask anyone to be my gf often nor do I go out my way to move mountains for a gf. Some people already assume I have a gf for some reason.

 

[Sex-Starved Beast]

I do even when I don't actively try to get a girlfriend. People can see that I'm a loser desperately trying and failing to get anything to go my way.

 

[Animecel2D]

Some people already assume I have a gf for some reason.

moga me

everyone correctly assumes i am single, not a single normie has ever thought i had a gf

 

[Autistic Uggo]

Normies can instinctually sniff out your inceldom. They know where you sit in the social hierarchy and they know you are desperate. Inceldom subconsciously influences how you carry yourself. It affects your body language, the way you move, and the way you communicate with others. You're not fooling anyone.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Winner_and_loser_effects

Loser effects permeate many aspects of our biology. The cortisol flooding your body will have a profound impact on the way you behave. Being a loser is like having a stench that follows you everywhere you go. You just can't escape it without ascending and meeting all of your social milestones.

 

[PersonalityChad]

Nah, i have given up. Can't be desperate if you have no hope left in the first place.

 

[bronxpete]

Irl I don't ask anyone to be my gf often nor do I go out my way to move mountains for a gf. Some people already assume I have a gf for some reason.

I feel like I do unfortunately

 

[Saigon Depression]

No, I come off as a weirdo.

 

[SociallyStunted]

i dont even know tbh, even if i did hang out around people i wouldnt know how i was coming off, unless its being told me to my face.

 

[luciferiancel]

I try not to but it doesn't matter anyways. Not seeming desperate won't do anything. I will remain alone. Pretty silly how I bother not to sound desperate while acknowleding that, might be some redpill leftover about the fact women don't like men that seem desperate, as if it mattered for a disfigured incel like me either way, lol.

 

[Max Doltman]

NO

 

[Max Doltman]

Irl I don't ask anyone to be my gf often nor do I go out my way to move mountains for a gf. Some people already assume I have a gf for some reason.

interesting

 

[Caichan]

interesting

jfl

 

[autisticsoy]

Maybe I dont know how to measure desperation except for my anxiety