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Do you believe that Incels can have Normie/NT friends?

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  • Yes

    Votes: 29 52.7%
  • No

    Votes: 26 47.3%

  • Total voters
    55
姦jiān

姦jiān

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I’m personally not Autistic but I don’t think that we incels can have real neurotypical friends. For one they all talk behind your back and none of them take you seriously, while autistic people are nice to me and they’re all honest; they don’t have any filters

What do you guys think?

I haven’t had irl friends in a very long time so I’m basing this on my old online friends
 
Not really. There is so much thing they couldn't understand
 
Nobody would like you as ND inkwell
 
Would a Jew make friends with a Nazi?
 
if you have friends you are not trucel
 
Possible, but you are gonna be in the bottom of the social ladder,and always will be the "guy"that they make jokes about and if you are short like me the jokes can get physical
 
I don't think so. Even if they supposedly show you kindness and are friendly to you, it's a way of virtue signaling or a way of showing of how good they are because they in fact know that they are better than you. It is extremely rare that normie NTs can care about ND losers.
 
it's possible but it's mostly a humiliation ritual.
 
Their values, priorities, views, etc. are completely different. They will always see incels as inferior, handicapped, disabled, retarded even. An incel might see a normie as a friend, but it will never be reciprocated. They are all about hierarchies. They punch down on those below, and lick ass of those above. Only those who are on a similar level they may see as friends, but their friendship is more like rivalry, always competing, always probing for weakness. Normies just can't chill.
 
Their values, priorities, views, etc. are completely different. They will always see incels as inferior, handicapped, disabled, retarded even. An incel might see a normie as a friend, but it will never be reciprocated. They are all about hierarchies. They punch down on those below, and lick ass of those above. Only those who are on a similar level they may see as friends, but their friendship is more like rivalry, always competing, always probing for weakness. Normies just can't chill.
Nailed it. It's all a competition. And since NDs are the-bottom-of-the-barrel losers, normies can't help but make life unbearable for NDs to show where they stand in the social hierarchy.
 
Surface level friends, yes
 
no, it is impossible
 
Their values, priorities, views, etc. are completely different. They will always see incels as inferior, handicapped, disabled, retarded even. An incel might see a normie as a friend, but it will never be reciprocated. They are all about hierarchies. They punch down on those below, and lick ass of those above. Only those who are on a similar level they may see as friends, but their friendship is more like rivalry, always competing, always probing for weakness. Normies just can't chill.
This. I had the popular kids as some of my "friends" in school, but it never went beyond them being nice to me and talking sometimes when it was convenient. When it mattered in important things like getting pussy, I was trash to them.
 
Not really. There is so much thing they couldn't understand

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honey boo boo lol GIF by WE tv
 
i can’t imagine how painful it’d be to have a close friend who talks mad crap behind your back. it’s sad how common it is. i think it’s less saddening because i don’t believe friendship isn’t built on a scripted foundation; i’m not strict in this outlook but that’s how it generally is and even that it isn’t bad if it makes you feel healthy but a pretty much give and take ruckus. easily extends to online connections since everyone “exchanges their lives” and socializes online anyway
 
Sure, I go to church sometimes with these college students.

I am still 30 and a virgin.
 
Non-NT can't have to friends with NT normies
 
i can’t imagine how painful it’d be to have a close friend who talks mad crap behind your back.

I had a “friend” in high school who I walked home from school with damn near everyday. I even met his dad. I shared details of my life to him, thought he was my bro.

One time I was with a different “friend” and he asked me “Why didn’t you go to M’s birthday party?” ………..
Brother……. I didn’t even know this guy had a party let alone was invited. I literally spoke with this guy daily since the start of school.

I guess I wasn’t good enough.
 
if you have friends you are not trucel

Their values, priorities, views, etc. are completely different. They will always see incels as inferior, handicapped, disabled, retarded even. An incel might see a normie as a friend, but it will never be reciprocated. They are all about hierarchies. They punch down on those below, and lick ass of those above. Only those who are on a similar level they may see as friends
 
I had a “friend” in high school who I walked home from school with damn near everyday. I even met his dad. I shared details of my life to him, thought he was my bro.

One time I was with a different “friend” and he asked me “Why didn’t you go to M’s birthday party?” ………..
Brother……. I didn’t even know this guy had a party let alone was invited. I literally spoke with this guy daily since the start of school.

I guess I wasn’t good enough.
Normies are ashamed of us
 
I had a “friend” in high school who I walked home from school with damn near everyday. I even met his dad. I shared details of my life to him, thought he was my bro.

One time I was with a different “friend” and he asked me “Why didn’t you go to M’s birthday party?” ………..
Brother……. I didn’t even know this guy had a party let alone was invited. I literally spoke with this guy daily since the start of school.

I guess I wasn’t good enough.
shit i’m sorry i don’t think i’ve gone out my way to befriend others but most likely it’s worse if they don’t act as if you were making any assumptions when they knew all along how they see you. parties are overrated but it’s not about that is it, it’s about who you thought was your closest friend not inviting you to his personal event, so that’s sickening. they’re complicated feelings you hate to look back on
 
yes, but im just a toy for their entertainment 110 percent of the time
 
I’m personally not Autistic but I don’t think that we incels can have real neurotypical friends. For one they all talk behind your back and none of them take you seriously, while autistic people are nice to me and they’re all honest; they don’t have any filters

What do you guys think?

I haven’t had irl friends in a very long time so I’m basing this on my old online friends
No, they always end clowning us and using us as their punchbag
 
I’m personally not Autistic but I don’t think that we incels can have real neurotypical friends. For one they all talk behind your back and none of them take you seriously, while autistic people are nice to me and they’re all honest; they don’t have any filters

What do you guys think?

I haven’t had irl friends in a very long time so I’m basing this on my old online friends
I feel like autistic incels will struggle more with making friends
 
Talking from experience; you can but you will be kind of an orbiter as an incel. It's you who has to message first and you won't be invited in events where normies are trying to actually have fun and have a decent chance to get laid. Better to stay alone. Exceptions may exist, but usually it is like that.
 
Depends on what we are calling friends tbh, vast majority are fake friends, but on the occasion there yes you can.
 
Their values, priorities, views, etc. are completely different. They will always see incels as inferior, handicapped, disabled, retarded even. An incel might see a normie as a friend, but it will never be reciprocated. They are all about hierarchies. They punch down on those below, and lick ass of those above. Only those who are on a similar level they may see as friends, but their friendship is more like rivalry, always competing, always probing for weakness. Normies just can't chill.
 
It's hard, so I voted no.
 
On paper it's still impossible. In practice it's always going to be impossible. You can't tell me with a straight face that you're an quote on quote incel with friends without somehow exposing yourself as a fakecel scum.
 
yea though it'll mostly transactional rather than a genuine friendship.
 
I don't think so. Even if they supposedly show you kindness and are friendly to you, it's a way of virtue signaling or a way of showing of how good they are because they in fact know that they are better than you. It is extremely rare that normie NTs can care about ND losers.
 
Not ones that will view as an equal. Even if you do manage to make "friends" with NT normies as an incel you'll be a lolcow for them
 
It's not possible to have friends as a true cell maybe but never with a normie they have different presence they speak different they act diffrent they feel different they are different in one way or another
 
yes but it won't be that deep you would hardly be considered equal or cool enough to be hangout. only in namesakes
 
Don't even joke lad.
 

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