Unlikely, because I had friends, I was once very motivated and I am not a manlet - but theres also possibilies of it even if everything went right I might still be a virgin.
Environment is a big thing in my life, my city sucks for meeting new people, let alone Gen Z guys and girls.
The City is full of garbage, the people are toxic, 50% of the population is 60+, almost 20% are Immigrants.
My upbringing from childhood until now VERY disturbing, extremly unusual. I went to 4 different Highschools so I never had the time or interests to establish any lasting relationships, neither did ANY of my peers tho.
1. Highschool: I was rather popular in the class, had about 7 close "friends" within the class, well cant call em friends because ultimately all but one betrayed me. Good relationships to other classes as well. Was bullied by a lot of teachers tho. Even sexually harassed.
2. Highschool: Everyone hated me from hello, I was bullied without mercy from day one all to the last day I went to that school. After just 2 month i had stomach aches from going to that classroom and being called a "stupid bastard who should kill himself" the moment I stepped into class. They harassed me, blackmailed me, spit on me, stole my stuff, destroyed my school projects, sexually attacked me (from two gay boys who were clearly mentally unstable). Teachers didnt give a fuck, even joined in to bully me some more.
3. Highschool: Jestermaxxing days gone full power, helped me climb the social ladder. Perfect grades, good teachers and good relationship to teachers, not a single friend tho. Good relationships to my classmates there, but ultimately nothing came out of it. The girls were either super ugly or mid tier but had boyfriends.
4. Highschool: Continued Jestermaxxing, Perfect Grades and 3 friends (all guys), only had 1 classmate who hated me, but she was ugly and stupid as fuck. The only conversation we had in 2 years was this one: Kim: "Who would have sex with a guy like that?" Me: "Who would have sex with you? Urgh!" Obviously she has infinite SMV but i was bluepilled, maybe we were looksmached, but argubly no. She was too fucking ugly and maybe it pissed her off. She was the ONLY classmate without a picture in the picture book for the Highschool end party.
After that I spend, what, a whole year "finding myself" and then looking for an apprentance ship but never got one and then Corona fucked me over.
I went to University. In the middle of Covid lockdown. It was all Zoom.
12 guys in class, 2 of them girls both low maybe Mid Tier Becky and both had boyfriends. NOBODY ever talked with each other - it was rare. I can BARELY even remember one and i left just two months ago lmao. 3.5 years. Nothing! The WhatsApp Chat is dead. The last thing at the last exam they said was: We will never see each other again.
University for me was ulta depressing, from other classes, nobody ever cared about my existence. I tried to hit on a french girl but she didnt take me seriously, then i tried to hit on a Becky TWICE from undergrad but she turned out to be a complete maniac, like idk whats with her. Then I tried to hit on a 3th girl from Business class, that I talked to over Snapchat for well over a week and that turned out to just be a ghosting. And another Pakistani girl who I jestermaxxed a little bit for, made her cheerful, i actually hate Islam and she was islamic, still tried it, got her number, she ghosted me, then i tried it again a few days later, then she blocked me.
Yeah its all kinda fucked up.