giribot
Autistic ShoegazeCel
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- Joined
- Oct 25, 2023
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- 82
I really feel like women don't care for or understand the different attachment styles a human can have for a basic relationship. I think learning what a healthy attachment style looks like is so crucial when wanting a relationship. I'd like to think mine is secure, but I know sometimes I've displayed anxious tendencies. I've only experienced dismissive-avoidant and fearful-avoidant attachment when it comes to trying to date women. I don't know where dudes find the chicks who have anxious attachment where she's clingy and all over you. I just keep getting the ones that don't want to talk to you or leave you on read all the fucking time. It's so frustrating to date in this world. Especially with technology.
I don't want to know that they read my message and chose to not text me back.
I don't want to see them being active on social media yet they can't engage in a conversation with me.
I ask the most simple questions and I get nothing. Is it because I don't entertain them enough? What is the fucking problem? Nobody can trust anyone these days. I only get (probably not genuine) interaction from my grad school classes and if someone asks me a question in the library
I don't want to know that they read my message and chose to not text me back.
I don't want to see them being active on social media yet they can't engage in a conversation with me.
I ask the most simple questions and I get nothing. Is it because I don't entertain them enough? What is the fucking problem? Nobody can trust anyone these days. I only get (probably not genuine) interaction from my grad school classes and if someone asks me a question in the library