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Do women actually believe it’s all about personality

oreoman2

oreoman2

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I’m constantly asking myself weather women actually believe it is about personality or weather they know looks matter more and just say that to make guys feel what are your guys thoughts on this matter.
 
They know that they themselves aren't satisfied with personality alone but they genuinely believe through having the right personality even an ugly man can score eventually. they think this way because they're projecting. regardless of how ugly a woman is she will get approached by men at least 10 times in her life. hence, they believe that even if a man is ugly there'll at least be one girl out there who likes him even when that girl will never be them personally. it's paradoxical but u can't count on women to be pragmatic.
 
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It appears to me that some of them are delusional enough to believe personality matters, but in those cases what they perceive as personality is merely a result of the Halo Effect. There are also some who are aware personality doesn't really matter, yet still choose to gaslight us because it's beneficial to them that men like us believe in such a lie.

They use this idea because it makes them feel less shallow, but deep down they know the truth. It's just easier for them to gaslight us into believing the lie so we stay hopeful and keep chasing after them.
 
They know that they themselves aren't satisfied with personality alone but they genuinely believe through having the right personality even an ugly man can score eventually. they think this way because they're projecting. regardless of how ugly a woman is she will get approached by men at least 10 times in her life. hence, they believe that even if a man is ugly there'll at least be one girl out there who likes him even when that girl will never be them personally. it's paradoxical but u can't count on women to be pragmatic.
This also :yes:
 
No women lie with every breath they take
 
Its probably rationalization because they dont think that every foid has the same "preferences " as her.
 
I’m constantly asking myself weather women actually believe it is about personality or weather they know looks matter more and just say that to make guys feel what are your guys thoughts on this matter.
No, they're just fooling you into thinking you have a chance because they want you to be a useful simp.
 
they lie while being happy that the bluepilled simps believe them
 

oreoman2

Greycel​



JoinedMar 7, 2025Posts6
 
I do think in their heart of hearts they believe that its about personality, and they find the idea that they are only attracted to good looking men disturbing. Many foids don't want to come off as vain. Hence why when men point out that its looks what draw them in, it makes them uneasy.

Of course if their boyfriends/husbands personality was 1:1 replicated and transferred inside of a 4'7 turbomanlet potbellied bald burn victims brain, they would date that guy. At least that's what they seem to believe. If it lets them sleep easier at night then so be it, but everyone with a pair of braincells to rub together knows that its bullshit.
 
1 some believe it since they live all life in the halo effect of chads and women are wonderful effect
2 some dont but say it to virtue signal it
that's it
depending on the situation, either they're unable to see truth or so immoral as to lie without feeling bad
 
They believe it because personality=looks in their mind. It's synonymous almost.
 
I’m constantly asking myself weather women actually believe it is about personality or weather they know looks matter more and just say that to make guys feel what are your guys thoughts on this matter.
they are VERY open about having height as a prerequisite, looks not so much. they don't think looks matter more than personality because women under-rate men's looks consistently. so they aren't really aware how looks selective they are being, most women don't actually think they're being absurdly picky. also looks IS personality for anyone with no blackpill knowledge, most people think you are how you look.
 

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