Serious Do sex scenes or references in media bother you?

[Deleted member 8353]

They bother me tbh.

Honestly sex scenes ruin all sorts of shows and movies for me, and I don't know how to make it stop. It's not stuff like kissing or even romance necessarily that bothers me anymore, as after months of effort I've implanted memories in my head which I made a habit of referencing several times daily. But they can't deal with this problem as I have no idea what sex is like, at least with anything else I can make a reasonably believable guess.

Whenever I see shit like this I'm being mogged, it feels as if it's just another manner of society telling me how pathetic I am. I know that's the wrong way to think, as I know that it absolutely sabotages my enjoyment of a lot of media, but I can't help it. I mean how am I supposed to feel? This content being so incredibly common is basically telling me that I'm not a part of society, that I'm not a man, and that other people clearly don't see me as credible or even fully human.

Everyone that tells us that "sex doesn't matter" is so incredibly full of shit, it's unreal. How is it that "sex doesn't matter" when it's constantly featured in all forms of media, shoved in our faces? How is it that "sex doesn't matter" if upon admitting that you're an adult male virgin, people visibly treat you differently, don't take you seriously, and sometimes openly mock you? How is it that "sex doesn't matter" when my body is constantly telling me otherwise? I'd really like to know.

If I could just get these last feelings of inadequacy and envy to go away, then I'd feel a lot better, but I can't see any realistic way for me to do that.

 

[Deleted member 12355]

I don't watch much of anything

 

[Blacktarpill]

Tehy definitely bother me bec, first of all;
They are unnecessary.
And i dont like to see nude people.

 

[Deleted member 16455]

Yes because they remind me of something I’m never gonna have

 

[Cuyen]

thankfully we don't have sex scenes in TV shows or movies so its ok tbh

but they portray loving couples and it do bother me

 

[Romello Gaghan 2]

Very much depends. If it works for the story I don't care, but often it's unnecessary.

 

[Dionysus]

nah because i can ignore it well

 

[RollD20]

Yes if its 3D because I cannot self insert.

 

[EyesAreSoCold]

Ye I hate them, what bothers me even more is teen sex/romances I can't even watch that.
Just lol at the normies saying sex doesn't matter, it's featured in every movie/series ever because it's such a vital part of life.

 

[zangano1]

Yes, because they are unnescesary most of the times

 

[Deleted member 8353]

Yes if its 3D because I cannot self insert.

Yeah, exactly. How am I supposed to self insert into something which I've never experienced anything like? I can't think about previous experiences if I have none.

 

[Deleted member 15752]

i barely watch anything

 

[ElliotRodgerGod]

I don't watch anything anymore.

 

[PotatoTomato]

I only get bothered with promiscuous behaviour and weird fetishes.
If it's cute lovey-dovey sex for the sole purpose of procreation, it's fine to me.

 

[janoycresva]

They honestly don't do anything for me, I don't think it's a good plot point, sure, maybe have one sex scene but not 30 million. I've been watching the Soprano's and there's so many sex scenes and so much pointless romantic tension that it's honestly annoying at this point. More of a Breaking Bad type of guy. It's mainly the serious sex scenes that you'd find in dramas though, I don't mind the ones in romantic comedies or comedies (but again, they don't add much value to the film/show IMO). Maybe that's just an incel point of view, I can see how regular people might like sex scenes because they may evoke nostalgia and other powerful feelings that they experienced during intercourse (maybe that's why Game of Thrones uses them so much, I couldn't get into that show though).

 

[Insomniac]

I don't watch much of anything

Same, too autistic for that shit tbh. I don’t get it.

 

[TheProphetMuscle]

I have to turn it off. It looks real and reminds me what im never gonna have

 

[StaroRavager]

I don't watch much of anything

I don’t watch anything

 

[imbored21]

It bothered me when I was a virgin. After I had sex (paid) they stopped bothering me.

 

[Deleted member 6599]

You're damn right it does.
It's permeated all my copes. Nothing is safe.

 

[i_a_m_i]

Yes, they bother me. That is why I avoid 3D media involving sex or romance.

 

[keithbauhaus]

I used to, but I'm pretty stoic (read: apathetic) to any mature content nowadays. I wish I could at least feel something again when I do come across scenes of that nature. I have already thrown in the towel, though.

 

[Smallus Dickus]

They bother me, so I pick movies/tv series that don't have it. Love scenes are often unecessary, so when I want to watch a movie I watch something without women: Waterloo, Zulu - and other military movies. Love those. But I usually watch tv series, and in older ones sex scenes were really rare. Like that's one of the reasons why I like Babylon 5 more than new Battlestar Galactica.

 

[Deleted member 8353]

I used to, but I'm pretty stoic (read: apathetic) to any mature content nowadays. I wish I could at least feel something again when I do come across scenes of that nature. I have already thrown in the towel, though.

Is there a specific way to get them to stop bothering me? I don't want to care tbh, but I can't seem to help it. Fapping regularly only fixes half the problem, as it does nothing for the feelings of inadequacy and alienation.

Yeah I don't like porn.

Good point, I don't like porn either.

 

[FukFeminism]

Really bothers me.

 

[Napoleon de Jizzbal]

Painfull, if those are about young pretty girls. If just sex, then just annoying

 

[Deleted member 18912]

They bother me tbh.

Honestly sex scenes ruin all sorts of shows and movies for me, and I don't know how to make it stop. It's not stuff like kissing or even romance necessarily that bothers me anymore, as after months of effort I've implanted memories in my head which I made a habit of referencing several times daily. But they can't deal with this problem as I have no idea what sex is like, at least with anything else I can make a reasonably believable guess.

Whenever I see shit like this I'm being mogged, it feels as if it's just another manner of society telling me how pathetic I am. I know that's the wrong way to think, as I know that it absolutely sabotages my enjoyment of a lot of media, but I can't help it. I mean how am I supposed to feel? This content being so incredibly common is basically telling me that I'm not a part of society, that I'm not a man, and that other people clearly don't see me as credible or even fully human.

Everyone that tells us that "sex doesn't matter" is so incredibly full of shit, it's unreal. How is it that "sex doesn't matter" when it's constantly featured in all forms of media, shoved in our faces? How is it that "sex doesn't matter" if upon admitting that you're an adult male virgin, people visibly treat you differently, don't take you seriously, and sometimes openly mock you? How is it that "sex doesn't matter" when my body is constantly telling me otherwise? I'd really like to know.

If I could just get these last feelings of inadequacy and envy to go away, then I'd feel a lot better, but I can't see any realistic way for me to do that.

Yes.
It triggers my jealousy.

 

[HighTGymcel]

Yes because they remind me of something I’m never gonna have

 

[Deleted member 17599]

I don't watch much of that type of media, but yes, I hate that.

 

[Joelossus]

They only bother me when the participants in those scenes are in their teens tbh. Sex scenes involving adults don't make me feel anything at all.

 

[tulasdanslos]

They only bother me when the participants in those scenes are in their teens tbh. Sex scenes involving adults don't make me feel anything at all.

This, I saw a movie yesterday with a sex scene but since it was a granny (read: woman in his thirties) and a grown man I was apathetic. I didn't even get hard at granny tits.

 

[IamLost]

Yes because they remind me of something I’m never gonna have

 

[keithbauhaus]

Is there a specific way to get them to stop bothering me? I don't want to care tbh, but I can't seem to help it. Fapping regularly only fixes half the problem, as it does nothing for the feelings of inadequacy and alienation.

I know this really isn't useful information, but I became more and more apathetic to these scenes after having too many bad experiences with women. Not intimacy, of course (still a virgin and probably will be for the rest of my life), but women around my age would always ghost me/give me a hard time if I expected too much out of them (read: expecting as much out of them as what I'd expect out of my guy friends).

I tried to lower my expectations, but it was hard to not take that shit personally. Having nothing but bad experiences has decreased my lust for sex immensely, and anything that isn't tangible does not have any negative effect on me at this point.

In other words, just keep hanging in there man. Maybe you'll have better luck than I did in my hayday.

 

[KingOfRome]

I tend to glaze over it.

As a writercel, I sometimes have the topic of sex come up in my stories even when I go out of my way to keep anything romantic or sexual in the background. My way of dealing with it is to keep it implied. Sex scenes are hard to write convincingly even for romantically experienced normies, let alone a chronically isolated incel who's only ever done pay for play.

 

[Deleted member 5712]

For the most part sex scenes don't bother me when it comes to any adult movies. The only time I just get so worked up over a scene is if it involves kids or teens and "coming of age" type movies where I just REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE back into myself because I never experienced any of that shit that all kids are supposed to experience. It really hurts when the inevitable party invitation scene shows up and then a kissing game happens. I've never made out in my life and seeing all the normies think these scenes are "heart-warming" or "wholesome" to see two kids going at it with their mouths just disgusts me. And you ask sluts about their first kiss and it is always before they were teenagers. Usually single digits. Girls are 7yo with "boyfriends" and making out in their rooms while I"m here just jerking off by myself wishing I could kiss someone.

 

[seija]

I only like sex scenes in porn & hentai and thats it. Any sex scene outside of those two things that I've mentioned or people naked will bother me immensely.

 

[Murdoch89]

I turn it away when I see any sex scenes or sex toy adverts like love honey or even dating apps during the day

 

[Schizoidcel]

Don't watch recent TV shows or movies, it's all cucked feminist propaganda anyway