do people think you are arrogant irl?

[Deleted member 32255]

people have said i seem stuck up, because i'm very serious and don't show any emotions at all and i don't talk to anyone, even though at the same time i'm also known to be an awkward clumsy cuck. i suppose people assume this because of the short man syndrome thing. if i was normie they'd just think i'm a nerd, and if i was chad it would be commanding, pretty sure.

 

[Deleted member 32183]

I've been told I'm short fused and inconsiderate of others feelings before
I slightly raised my voice at some fag and he started bitching to me
I have to admit I'm pretty bitter and pretentious

 

[Meus]

Yes but only in high school because I had fucking class. Grown adults usually don't care if you are arrogant.

 

[proudjokER]

In high school, I was as a defense mechanism against bullies. I've mellowed out since then.

 

[Copexodius Maximus]

nope

 

[Loner94]

Nope

 

[Deleted member 818]

Keeeeek I’m far too meek to ever be considered arrogant.

 

[wei#3959]

low iq

 

[your personality]

people have said i seem stuck up, because i'm very serious and don't show any emotions at all and i don't talk to anyone, even though at the same time i'm also known to be an awkward clumsy cuck. i suppose people assume this because of the short man syndrome thing. if i was normie they'd just think i'm a nerd, and if i was chad it would be commanding, pretty sure.

Ugly or average looking guy being confident = seen as arrogant
Ugly or average looking guy being timid = seen as a self pitying loser
Ugly or average looking guy not being either extreme = seen as hiding something or thinks too highly of themselves to have fun and not always be uptight

 

[_realist_]

A brooding personality who talks minimally.

 

[Deleted member 33216]

They think I'm narcissistic, entitled, and spoiled lol. But I don't listen to their bs. I do whatever I want. Fuck humanity

 

[Lebensmüder]

Was called many things by my so called friends behind my back and sometimes to my face - like a coward, a lier, a creep, a loser, etc.

A friend (who also called me creep to my face and coward/lier while talking to another friend of his) told me that I am weak-willed, that I give up too early, that I run away from my problems, that I only seek excuses for my failures in mental/physical health problems and that I would just use them to get out the easy way without having to self-improve by talking people into having pity with me (as if there was any capability for improvement in a significant way to begin with judging from prerequisites like IQ, motoric skill, lung issues and mental health problems like autism/comorbidities).

Whenever I tell him how/why I fail he assumes something else (like "You didn't even try to begin with!"/"You never ask girls out!") - and other stuff. However as soon as I say that I am good at something, he tears it down and says that I overestimate my own capabilities and that my future visions have no basis in reality. When I want to do something he says that it will fail anyways like last time. He also calls me a pussy/spineless coward/defaitist among other stuff and says that my social skills would impair any career to begin with.

Other people (from my job/studies) don't take me seriously most of the time, for example I tell them what to do because I have experience with it and they ignore it and then they wonder why they fail - even when I say stuff that equals "Water is wet"/"1+1=2" they ignore it. I am also only seen as an annoyance, as we had to evaluate something I looked at it and my group just left me behind while I was working on it. When I say something people roll their eyes. An ex-partner in work called me dominant/pedantic/controlling/hectic/etc. - others were quite content and said that I was good at explaining stuff and that I was a very generous person, but also a person that gets easily exploited by others that then trashtalk about me behind my back. Am also accused of having a tendency to talk too much about certain off-topics.

They think I'm narcissistic, entitled, and spoiled lol. But I don't listen to their bs. I do whatever I want. Fuck humanity