Id say it is a basic need and not getting it yoir entire life really fucking sucks
Yes, only one thing annoys me sometimes:
The permanent saying that a cope is something negative.
Women withhold sex from us - most people regardless of gender withhold even friendship from us.
So much is there in this world that we cannot do, so why should we then deliberately try to make our own lives worse by restricting ourselves and saying that we shouldn't do X?
Why is coping frowned upon? Every withdrawal from the permanent reality as an undesired male (unless it's simping) is after all balsam for the soul.
Normalfags already try to shame men into doing what they want , be it NoFap, dieting, going to the "gym", dopamin fasting or whatever. So why should we as the alternative to everything of that do it? They shame you in regular so(y)ciety for everything that it is unrelated to fefails/so(y)ciety and only centered around your own pleasure, so why do people do it here? Simply, because they still have the normalfag mentality, but this time not with pathological impro(o)vement but with deterioration.
So:
Why are people here sometimes shamed for enjoying stuff apart from sex? Like a good video game or movie, a walk in the forest or the mountains or simply their own flat or their own car or their pet/plant or a good fap/whore visit. Shit like "overcompensating" is chad, woman and normalfag speak, but here people do sometimes the same and call it "cope" instead of "overcompensating". If something brings one of us joy we shouldn't judge him for it.
The same with self-love. Why should I hate or be indifferent towards myself if so(y)ciety does it already? No reason for me.
Not saying anything against rotmaxxers tbh, NEETs are valuable and I would NEET too if I had the possibility to do so, because I neither want or desire anymore any validation in this so(y)ciety, in fact I actually hate it. Furthermore, shaming a man for liking something even if it's doing nothing is chad, woman and normalfag speak, everything a man does is justified in the moment he wants do it.