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Discussion Do I even want a gf?

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What if we want the idea of love rather than a gf itself.
 
Well, I do but the concept is very fantasy-like to me. It's more likely I'll win millions in the lottery than me getting a gf.

Furthermore, even if I do, I'm a rather weird and very boring person. I also wouldn't know how to kiss or have sex, or be funny.

I do want a gf, it's a strong desire, but one I try to push away as often as I can, so as not to completely lose my sanity.
 
if you have to ask probably not tbh
 
What if we want the idea of love rather than a gf itself.
What do you mean the idea of love without a gf? Because a very good relationship with someone can be considered love. But to form true intimacy- sex is invaluable.
 
i want a gf, i want love and i want sex with a gf
 
I think I idealise what it would be like in my head a lot. I know well that I have below average SMV and even if I managed to luck out somehow I could never be truly desired or truly treated well, there would have to be some catch to it. Best case scenario for me is nearceldom.
 
No, tbh. I want a foid that is hot enough, virgin, unvaxxed and white so I can breed jer and fuck her for fun every now and then.

A birthing machine and sex slave, basically.

Idgaf about any if that lovey dovey shit.
 
What if we want the idea of love rather than a gf itself.
New sets of problem would emerge. While it goes good, it would be great but once it starts falling apart, i think most of us would rope on the idea of going back to be alone
 
I never wanted a gf. I always wanted a wife.
 
You're better off alone than being cucked
 
I don’t know what I want anymore
 
I want better genetics so I can get pussy
 
I like the idea of a gf and sex, but those are mere fantasies. A real woman would never fulfill my desires as their nature is predominantly evil.

I'd never get lucky, but lets say I did. A relationship only brings problems and retardation into your life. I honestly don't even want a gf anymore, I'm too emotionless these days to care.
 
What if we want the idea of love rather than a gf itself.
i've been asking myself how i could even manage a relationship, like i massively prefer to be independent, so i wonder if having a lifelong companion would defeat the point of why i even want a gf. maybe it'd be a thing i'd get used to- i dunno
 
If you like to 'do things' a girlfriend would be very enriching. That's what socializing is about, making your life better in many different ways
 
Relatable. I want to be loved, but at the same time, I don't want to have to maintain a relationship, stay in regular contact, go out and do things with her, etc.
 
Dunno, I've gotten used to be alone, but that is also a reason why I'd love to experience a relationship and having someone to be with most of the time.
 
If I became Chad tomorrow nothing about my life will change. I will still be cynical and depressed. An irreparable hole has been created in my soul due to the way I’ve been treated my entire life for my looks. Nothing can fix how badly society has fucked with my head.
 
What if we want the idea of love rather than a gf itself.
Don't buy into lies. Yes, deep down we all want a woman to love us, we just can't have it, so we cope. This is something women say when they don't find a man attractive: "You don't really like me, you just like the idea of having me." Were the man attractive, she would not say that. There would be no need to know some mystical, inaccessible "real her". It implies that a romantic relationship could be built only by knowing minute, mundane things about the other person. Like, you don't love me, if you don't know how I like my coffee; if you do know, oh, that's real love. Absurd.
 

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