ahh
in that case
when you go to the store to buy groceries, you sometimes have the feeling that you can afford a little bit of something for yourself, something extra.
And you go and start to look around. You just interested what's on the shelfs.
Getting an extra treat for yourself wasn't in your plans so you don't know what exactly you are looking for

But you are searching for something that grabs your attention.
It doesn't matter if it's a huge bag of chips, or just one candy bar, if it grabs your attention you will take it.
It may not be tasty but the store is in your pocket... you can just go back tomorrow and try something else.
That's their mindset.
Women never have plans, they don't look for anything my child
also are you trying Tinder?