Womens primary method of survival is relying on men, or at least this was the strategy in the past, because women needed males to do essentially almost everything for them. Because of this, women do spend time with men even outside of public eye, but this has everything to do with the fact that she tries to keep him emotionally attached to her, so he keeps providing for her. She herself has no emotional attachment to him, its all performative.
Even in the case that a woman seemingly has an emotional attachment to the man, its actually the status, the validation and the money that she is attached. Not the man himself. Women are entirely incapable of loving or caring about men on a deeper level.
Its all a survival mechanism. And extremely performative at that.