Venting Do Everything Possible For My Family, Yet They Still Treat Me Like Shit

[StoryOfMyLaugh]

Work my ass off slaving for pennies just for most of it to go to my Mother through her guilt trips, my kindness, and her acting like it’s a given to take basically everything, then come home and willingly clean and help as much as possible, just for my Mom to come home and still find something to fucking complain about—I seriously ran out of excuses for such irrational behavior toward me.

I’m already at an immediate disadvantage because of her decisions on to have children from 19 to her mid 20s and pick a practical deadbeat before his premature death, but I brush it all off and still help as much as possible, whether financially or otherwise… And yet i’m always doing some shit wrong or not doing some other shit.

My sisters sit around and don’t do shit 99% of the time and also find reasons to dislike me, my brother is 5 years older than me still existing in this cramped house and also somewhat spites me; but I try my best to put my best foot forward everyday, yet i’m always the scapegoat.

Then they wonder why I have so many developed mental problems on top of involuntary disadvantages. The second I outburst or show any signs of distress is immediate shun and shock.

I already blocked my brother’s Phone Number, and I cannot wait for the day I leave and furthermore leave them all by themselves and see how they fair out in their own voluntary dysfunction. I still don’t hate them, I can’t have hate in my heart for any human, but everything that they have coming to them is deserved when I nope the fuck out with as much savings as I can pin together.

 

[Spiteful Mutant]

Sounds like a lot to deal with, but I'd try sitting them down and talking to them about your grievances. Have had similar experience with my folks, and have told them off before over their bitching about me supposedly not doing enough around the house. They don't seem very reasonable so they're probably just gonna keep taking advantage of you, though. Either way, they'll be in for a rude awakening once you've ditched them. Keep saving up.

 

[StoryOfMyLaugh]

I'd try sitting them down and talking to them about your grievances.

I’ve tried that, many times. The objectively true shit I confront them about and proposing a rational solution just leads to it quite literally going through one ear and out the other. It sucks, have to deal with this until I scrap as much together to move out.

 

[Spiteful Mutant]

I’ve tried that, many times. The objectively true shit I confront them about and proposing a rational solution just leads to it quite literally going through one ear and out the other. It sucks, have to deal with this until I scrap as much together to move out.

Well that's no good, do they already know you're leaving if they don't get off your back? An ultimatum wouldn't do much, would it?

 

[Mr. Subhuman]

Leave that retarded family then. Some people are just retards.

 

[nico]

Sounds like a lot to deal with, but I'd try sitting them down and talking to them about your grievances. Have had similar experience with my folks, and have told them off before over their bitching about me supposedly not doing enough around the house. They don't seem very reasonable so they're probably just gonna keep taking advantage of you, though. Either way, they'll be in for a rude awakening once you've ditched them. Keep saving up.

OP seems ethnic so having a talk is just useless.