Did your parents played a role in your inceldom?

[RuudVanNistelrooy]

Along with installing unrealistic view of girls into me (don't you ever hit a girl even if she hits you first BS), they never let me to hang out with other kids at night. They didn't force me to take care of my health more because they thought that women care about the personality first and foremost. My mother was tense and dad pretty much would be incel if society hasn't provided him with two girlfriends.

After all these years i suspect that bad and helicopter parenting might play a more prominent role than we thought. I watch other guys who were not chads from stable families getting girlfriends and jobs.

 

[Reinhard Heydrich]

Inceldom is caused by the appearance.

 

[wantedwanter]

nope because i do not want to fuck my parents.

 

[Moroccancel]

My father fucked my genetics. My mother actually was a HT Becky, but my father was a disgusting LTN, small penis, shitskin and short as my mother.

Over.

 

[Med Amine]

besides genetics and some accidents in childhood that made me uglier, i don't really have abusive parents
they surely wanted me to study hard and not want a gf until i am in a good job but they never showed their hate to me so i don't think they really were the biggest reason

 

[dungeondragon]

They procreated - both apparently have aspergers.

 

[copefrancis]

Hysteric mother and hands off father. Maybe I'd have turned out differently if they pushed me to go outside and socialise more instead of playing PlayStation 2 all day. I can't really blame them though.

 

[Mecoja]

They gave me shitty sick genes together with ugliness, and my dad was sadistic control freak and my mom emotionally abusive manipulator. They never taught me anything and everything was forbidden, we didnt had the most basic stuff that kids need.

 

[LeFrenchCel]

Not the only reason but they played a role yeah

 

[Magicmirror]

My father fucked my genetics. My mother actually was a HT Becky, but my father was a disgusting LTN, small penis, shitskin and short as my mother.

Over.

Both are responsible for making the decision to fuck each other

 

[Koomersarj]

The biggest role. Gave me shit genetics and also ruined my mental development & health with typical curry parent shit

 

[buried_alive]

Absolutely. They were controlling, angry (sometimes violent), suffocating and my father was bluepilled and hands-off. They also had bad eating habits, so I grew up extremely shy and chubby/fat.

Bad parents, especially bad fathers, are major creators of incels. People don't take seriously the amount of work and things that need to go right to raise a boy into a successful man.

 

[Repulsive123]

Inceldom is caused by the appearance.

 

[RuudVanNistelrooy]

Absolutely. They were controlling, angry (sometimes violent), suffocating and my father was bluepilled and hands-off. They also had bad eating habits, so I grew up extremely shy and chubby/fat.

I was a fat child but after i slimmed up my dad accused me of being gay for not being able to get a girl.

 

[uranium235]

By bringing me into existence while being poor
They had no plan for me
If i wasn't average iq they would've thrown me into some garbage

 

[buried_alive]

I was a fat child but after i slimmed up my dad accused me of being gay for not being able to get a girl.

Wtf. Also a great way to lower you son's self esteem.

 

[depressedblackcel]

Definitely, their helicopter tactics destroyed me but that’s not the only reason why, just 1 of the many reasons

 

[Riinku]

My mother pretty much fucked up how my life would turn out. She has given birth to me through a C-section at 37, was a fat slob at that time due to her stress-eating habits, and I wasn't breastfed, only fed with formula milk.
Thus, she brought multiple factors that have caused my inceldom, I had slower speech development than average (wasn't able to speak words coherently until 3-4), had mouth-breathing, seasonal and food allergies, often sneeze, had bad eye contact, emotionally sensitive, would talk to myself frequently, etc.

To add insult to injury, she was overprotective af, and constantly nagging and making petty arguments about anything like any other helicopter parent out in the wild. I was short-fused and I'd end up snapping whenever I had an argument from her and brought me to getting slapped in the face many times which caused me to become highly rebellious to her, then wonder why I wouldn't listen to her. And due to this, I ended up developing destructive behavior such as slamming/throwing things, banging my head to a wall, etc.
Not only my shit genes stopped me from experiencing "life", she has also tormented my mind.

 

[EndJstifiesTheMean]

Yes, fuck shit parents

 

[zunzun8888]

Yes. I have blamed myself enough. It is ok to shift the blame to others.

 

[RuudVanNistelrooy]

My mother pretty much fucked up how my life would turn out. She has given birth to me through a C-section at 37, was a fat slob at that time due to her stress-eating habits, and I wasn't breastfed, only fed with formula milk.
Thus, she brought multiple factors that have caused my inceldom, I had slower speech development than average (wasn't able to speak words coherently until 3-4), had mouth-breathing, seasonal and food allergies, often sneeze, had bad eye contact, emotionally sensitive, would talk to myself frequently, etc.

To add insult to injury, she was overprotective af, and constantly nagging and making petty arguments about anything like any other helicopter parent out in the wild. I was short-fused and I'd end up snapping whenever I had an argument from her and brought me to getting slapped in the face many times which caused me to become highly rebellious to her, then wonder why I wouldn't listen to her. And due to this, I ended up developing destructive behavior such as slamming/throwing things, banging my head to a wall, etc.
Not only my shit genes stopped me from experiencing "life", she has also tormented my mind.

Abrasive and tense mothers are the worst especially for the male child.

 

[gulagcel]

my father just left me with mother and wasnt present in my life in any way shape or form. My mother was childish and insanely mentally unstable, on top of that we had no money to the point where i often had nothing to eat, had to skip school, live with abusive relatives who would make sure to make my life living hell every second im near them, saw my mother beaten up and humiliated countless times, couldnt afford anything other kids had, coulndt get medical help. i could probably be taller and have better frame, maybe constant stress and untreated health wouldnt make my hair go mgtow, maybe would not have such bad acne at my teens age, maybe if i could sleep at night instead of listening to drunk fights/sex every fucking night i wouldnt be so fucked up mentally and could have studied and so on... i feel like i never even had a chance in life. not i single shot. Im pretty sure it was over before i was even born.

TLDR: YES

 

[InMemoriam]

They gave me shitty sick genes together with ugliness, and my dad was sadistic control freak and my mom emotionally abusive manipulator. They never taught me anything and everything was forbidden, we didnt had the most basic stuff that kids need.

pretty much this, fuck em