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Discussion Did you use to overrate your looks?

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I used to think I was a 5/10 in facial attractiveness. However, because of my height, I truly believed I was a 7/10 in overall physical attractiveness. I used to be pretty confident talking to women, but as the years passed and I had multiple interactions with them without receiving any choosing signals, I started to question whether I was attractive at all.

It wasn’t until I discovered looksmaxxing and blackpill content that I realized all the flaws in my face and that I’m a 4/10 at best. I also learned how important it is to JBW, the disadvantages of being ethnic, and through my own experiences, that the idea of being tall automatically giving you easy sex is a cope.
 
When people react negatively to you, just for existing as yourself, then you know where you stand. I never overrated myself, because of that.
 
sometimes i look in the mirror and wonder if im a real boy

then i tell myself if i have to ask that im probably just a normie
 
I used to think I was a 5/10 in facial attractiveness. However, because of my height, I truly believed I was a 7/10 in overall physical attractiveness. I used to be pretty confident talking to women, but as the years passed and I had multiple interactions with them without receiving any choosing signals, I started to question whether I was attractive at all.

It wasn’t until I discovered looksmaxxing and blackpill content that I realized all the flaws in my face and that I’m a 4/10 at best. I also learned how important it is to JBW, the disadvantages of being ethnic, and through my own experiences, that the idea of being tall automatically giving you easy sex is a cope.
Yes I remember in 8th grade I tried to gaslight myself into thinking I’m a chad
 
Yeah cause I was moronic enough to think how I looked in the mirror was how most people saw me, when the reality is what I look like in my phone camera is closer :kys:
 
yeah, and then the truth hit slowly, and like a fucking train at the same time
 
My problem is my lack of dimorphism, I can't grow facial hair and my frame is horrible.
 
Grandma says i'm handsome :feelscomfy:
 
Everyone remind me that I´m a disgusting manlet since primary school
 
It's a cope to preserve your sanity. Taking a close look in the mirror helps shatter the delusion instantly.
 
I def thought i was a 7/10 for a long time but i was lied to. Im in actuality the bottom one or two percentile at best
 
I used to think I was a 5/10 in facial attractiveness. However, because of my height, I truly believed I was a 7/10 in overall physical attractiveness. I used to be pretty confident talking to women, but as the years passed and I had multiple interactions with them without receiving any choosing signals, I started to question whether I was attractive at all.

It wasn’t until I discovered looksmaxxing and blackpill content that I realized all the flaws in my face and that I’m a 4/10 at best. I also learned how important it is to JBW, the disadvantages of being ethnic, and through my own experiences, that the idea of being tall automatically giving you easy sex is a cope.
I used to delude myself Into thinking I was Chad, so I could cope and get out of bed and to school and acted giga narcy but was in reality a truecel
 
Nope. I had no redeeming factors like being tall or ethnic so I had perfectly and accurately rated my looks since a young age.
 
Briefly, years ago, I deluded myself into thinking that despite my recessed features I had harmony and looked decent in an unconventional way :feelskek:

Thank god I woke up and realized what a dud I am
 
gaslight by my parents

family

the way i was treated by others said otherwise
 
Yeah like most bluepillers I did

I probably thought i was a 7 :lul:
 
I always knew i was ugly
 
It's a cope to preserve your sanity. Taking a close look in the mirror helps shatter the delusion instantly.
Just stare in the mirror every morning for 2-3 minutes to prevent relapse into cope/bluepill
Prevents the mind wandering into "what if" delusions
 
When people react negatively to you, just for existing as yourself, then you know where you stand. I never overrated myself, because of that.
 
I was always insecure about my looks
 
I did. Before studying lookism I overlooked many smaller flaws I have.
 
Depends which ethnic.

Being a spic == +2 points
Being a nigger == +20 points

Being rice/chink == -2 points

Being curry/pajeet == -20 points

Im a currycel myself and the worst kind (Eastern State/Bengali), so think of it like a chinky jeet


being ethnic is not a redeeming quality.
 
Depends which ethnic.

Being a spic == +2 points
Being a nigger == +20 points

Being rice/chink == -2 points

Being curry/pajeet == -20 points

Im a currycel myself and the worst kind (Eastern State/Bengali), so think of it like a chinky jeet
I don't think nigga counts as ethnic. And yeah that is one brutal combo. Chink with jeet.
 
i always known i wasnt shit
 
always knew I was a loser nobody bro this is something u just understand from the start
 
When I was like 12 a girl called me "pig nose" and an adult woman supervising the playground told me "you're not so good looking yourself." So I knew women didn't find me attractive no matter how many times my mom told me I'm "handsome."
 
No I wasnt delusional
 
Yes and I probably still do, I've blamed it solely on my uber-manletism all my life
 
i thought i had average looks
 
I thought i was slightly below average looking

turns out im severely below average
 
Yes I thought I was average looking to maybe even slightly above average at my most narcy.
 
Yeah cause I was moronic enough to think how I looked in the mirror was how most people saw me, when the reality is what I look like in my phone camera is closer :kys:
Same. I'm super subhuman on pics. It hurts
 

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