Did you think it would just happen

[Midwestcel]

When you were a kid and looked at the adults and saw everyone paired up, you just thought it would happen. Like it was this normal part of life that would just occur without any effort. You thought that when you became a teenager, you would just have a girlfriend, go on dates etc. Then when that time came, the things you thought would just happen never happened. Brutal.

 

[Cognitive]

I never understood the process of courting a woman

To this day I still don't, It's crazy to think that I've even seen romance firsthand

 

[just_world_ogre]

When I was around 5 year old I remember I asked my dad, who had taken my mum to an expensive restaurant, "why do you court her if you have already conquered her?"
I was a pretty based child.

 

[ThoughtfulCel]

I remember thinking all I needed to do was be kind and nice to women and they'd love me for not being a douche. Boy was I wrong.

 

[Joelossus]

Yeah i did until i hit puberty and first saw that things might won't be as easy as i initially thought.

 

[Deleted member 16624]

idk tbh

 

[Midwestcel]

I remember thinking all I needed to do was be kind and nice to women and they'd love me for not being a douche. Boy was I wrong.

Yeah i did until i hit puberty and first saw that things might won't be as easy as i initially thought.

Yeah before puberty it looks really easy to get a girl

 

[Words2_live_bye]

When you were a kid and looked at the adults and saw everyone paired up, you just thought it would happen. Like it was this normal part of life that would just occur without any effort. You thought that when you became a teenager, you would just have a girlfriend, go on dates etc. Then when that time came, the things you thought would just happen never happened. Brutal.

Legit how i thought as a kid
now i'm a 19 year old KHHV

 

[Monk of Failure]

I never thought of girlfriend but I did thought of fucking lots of girls. Shit, it never happened nor will happen.

 

[Midwestcel]

Legit how i thought as a kid
now i'm a 19 year old KHHV

May sound blue pilled but you still have time on your side. At least you're not 39 years old in the same boat.

 

[Akkadian]

Inshallah i die soon, I cant handle it anymore

 

[Deleted member 15737]

The truth is, for most guys it does “just happen”. You have a big social circle, start talking to a girl within that circle and then eventually you take her on a date and if it goes well you are dating.

If you are incel though, you probably have no social circle or a tiny one with only a handful of low tier male friends. Online dating is useless unless you are attractive and cold approaching barely works for attractive guys, so you and I have no chance.

If you failed to get into a social circle in highschool or college, then you are fucked.

 

[Words2_live_bye]

May sound blue pilled but you still have time on your side. At least you're not 39 years old in the same boat.

yes and no. I'm a 5'6 manlet with recessed chin and 4 inch dick, plus i'm fat.
and that's no even counting my mentaly problems lol
i'm beyond over

 

[Barnacle]

Yes, I used to think that it "just happens" and to be honest it does for most normal people, just not for me.

 

[Deleted member 22237]

Yeah before puberty it looks really easy to get a girl

 

[Deleted member 14218]

I remember thinking all I needed to do was be kind and nice to women and they'd love me for not being a douche. Boy was I wrong.

cope chad can be nice and still get pussy, all you had to do is be chad lol

 

[AlexanderTheGreat11]

yes

 

[Deleted member 18214]

I remember thinking all I needed to do was be kind and nice to women and they'd love me for not being a douche. Boy was I wrong.