Serious Did you have a useless father growing up?

[nouc]

What I mean is, you have a father, but he worked all day to the point where you see him rarely, either in the morning or night.

How this could have impacted me is very simple, no fatherly advice, no fatherly guidance, always was a joke to people because my dad never told me how evil people are, never got me in martial arts while I was getting bullied and hit in elementary school, never cared about me in anything other than the basic necessities a son needs (except the love),

Was never able to make a true friend, if I made anything it only lasted for that one school year, that's it. Never got me into any sports I was basically an outcast, and still is.

I think his lack of influence in my upbringing scarred my Autistic brain even more, and I keep forgetting about great of a issue this is

 

[Ghostface]

no father, and no father figures ever

 

[Grodd]

Yes my father is a fucking deadbeat

 

[nouc]

Yes my father is a fucking deadbeat

My mother is the deadbeat she never divorced the motherfucker

 

[AutistSupremacist]

no father, and no father figures ever

My only father figure was Alek Minassian

 

[nouc]

My only father figure was Alek Minassian

I never had any father figure, I'm practically a ticking timebomb, I don't understand how I made it this far

 

[druid]

What I mean is, you have a father, but he worked all day to the point where you see him rarely, either in the morning or night.

How this could have impacted me is very simple, no fatherly advice, no fatherly guidance, always was a joke to people because my dad never told me how evil people are, never got me in martial arts while I was getting bullied and hit in elementary school, never cared about me in anything other than the basic necessities a son needs (except the love),

Was never able to make a true friend, if I made anything it only lasted for that one school year, that's it. Never got me into any sports I was basically an outcast, and still is.

I think his lack of influence in my upbringing scarred my Autistic brain even more, and I keep forgetting about great of a issue this is

Yes my father didn't give a shit about me im that sense except some money sometimes but I don't care much this is the last of my problems dating is determined by looks not words

 

[AutistSupremacist]

I never had any father figure, I'm practically a ticking timebomb, I don't understand how I made it this far

I never really did make it. When I researched the consequences of absent parents, I realized that alot of my suffering stems from it. Lack of worth, fear of abandonment, no guidance or motivation etc. I tried telling this to a christcuck and he's like "Well, you have a father in heaven that loved you" yea, I wish that useless fuck in heaven cared. It's pretty much over as I am a young man now and nothing will repair me, I am broken and of little value.

 

[druid]

What I mean is, you have a father, but he worked all day to the point where you see him rarely, either in the morning or night.

How this could have impacted me is very simple, no fatherly advice, no fatherly guidance, always was a joke to people because my dad never told me how evil people are, never got me in martial arts while I was getting bullied and hit in elementary school, never cared about me in anything other than the basic necessities a son needs (except the love),

Was never able to make a true friend, if I made anything it only lasted for that one school year, that's it. Never got me into any sports I was basically an outcast, and still is.

I think his lack of influence in my upbringing scarred my Autistic brain even more, and I keep forgetting about great of a issue this is

Tbh I don't think this matters much I know people who's father had divorced since they were children and these people are still mentally sane and one of them is basically htn/chadlite and gets bitches, personality is BS and has nothing to do with it, I have brothers but since they somehow have better facial features than me and were born before they have success with women while I don't despite we having the same father etc... and my father is very cold this shit matters little to nothing

 

[Freixel]

How this could have impacted me is very simple, no fatherly advice, no fatherly guidance

Same here; my father is a good-for-nothing, and I was abused by society until I learned to defend myself on my own when I was older.

 

[Animecel2D]

He sat on the couch all day watching the telly, ordered me around like a slave, and beat me many times if I made even the smallest mistake

 

[nouc]

I never really did make it. When I researched the consequences of absent parents, I realized that alot of my suffering stems from it. Lack of worth, fear of abandonment, no guidance or motivation etc. I tried telling this to a christcuck and he's like "Well, you have a father in heaven that loved you" yea, I wish that useless fuck in heaven cared. It's pretty much over as I am a young man now and nothing will repair me, I am broken and of little value.

Yes, I see that too now, I never understood how to start a relationship with a foid, see, they say you need to be friends with her and listen to her then confess your feelings after a while, but I always wanted love from the start, I feared being abandoned from the start, and If I didn't get what I want (this case, always), I just swear at her and block her, usually sameschool foids but I see it stems from the fact that I had a "missing" father figure, add to that an emotionally immature mother, It's truly over

 

[nouc]

Tbh I don't think this matters much I know people who's father had divorced since they were children and these people are still mentally sane and one of them is basically htn/chadlite and gets bitches, personality is BS and has nothing to do with it, I have brothers but since they somehow have better facial features than me and were born before they have success with women while I don't despite we having the same father etc... and my father is very cold this shit matters little to nothing

Divorce > unstable parents

known fact really

 

[nouc]

He sat on the couch all day watching the telly, ordered me around like a slave, and beat me many times if I made even the smallest mistake

 

[Cryo]

Exactly like that

Work, watch soccer, eat, work, watch soccer, eat, work watch soccer, eat

 

[nouc]

Same here; my father is a good-for-nothing, and I was abused by society until I learned to defend myself on my own when I was older.

Same, I hope my father rots in hell, I hate him no matter how much my family tries to use "but he's your father!" card on me, dress me, give me money sometimes for the most basic of basic bs any father should be paying for his son (taxi for school you dickhead), he lately makes such a fuss about it, Nothing will change my childhood at all, it's all over. I never really had any hope for normalcy, my upbringing decided that, no physical abuse here, but most people really miss the mental abuse, here I am now unable to fit into society.

 

[druid]

Divorce > unstable parents

known fact really

Yes but in my case my parents aren't divorced and still Idgaf

 

[druid]

Same, I hope my father rots in hell, I hate him no matter how much my family tries to use "but he's your father!" card on me, dress me, give me money sometimes for the most basic of basic bs any father should be paying for his son (taxi for school you dickhead), he lately makes such a fuss about it, Nothing will change my childhood at all, it's all over.

Don't take this stuff for granted he could've just thrown you in an orphanotrophy if he wanted, he still did wrong by doing the bare minimum but it isn't granted

 

[nouc]

Yes but in my case my parents aren't divorced and still Idgaf

You have to see most cases, Divorced parents usually have more sane children

 

[Freixel]

Same, I hope my father rots in hell, I hate him no matter how much my family tries to use "but he's your father!" card on me, dress me, give me money sometimes for the most basic of basic bs any father should be paying for his son (taxi for school you dickhead), he lately makes such a fuss about it, Nothing will change my childhood at all, it's all over

My two siblings and I are at odds with our father; none of us can stand him. The truth is, he’s a man who never should have become a father—far too immature and completely unprepared for the role.

I spent my childhood with nannies and in solitude—deep loneliness. There are so many aspects of life where I fall short because I lacked a father's guidance. I’m just scraping by as best I can.

This is a common pattern among men who struggle to socialize and cope with society.

Two things could have happened to us: either we turned into niggerfied criminals, or we ended up as outcasts on a forum like this one.

Everyone I saw from my generation who had a good life had their parents guiding them.

 

[nouc]

Don't take this stuff for granted he could've just thrown you in an orphanotrophy if he wanted, he still did wrong by doing the bare minimum but it isn't granted

He stopped paying for my extra classes on my last year of highschool (most important)

Fuck him and I don't care what he did for me, if I didn't steal from him and beg my family for money I would have never afforded those classes, thus I would have failed high school and Nothing would have stopped me from killing the rotting bastard

Those classes weren't cheap, they were done by a center to help me with the very important National exams, he didn't pay shit, I will never forget that, he abandoned me financially when I needed it the most

I stole from the bastard's wallet when he was asleep, All while enduring his rotting smell of a house, I fucking hate him

 

[nouc]

My two siblings and I are at odds with our father; none of us can stand him. The truth is, he’s a man who never should have become a father—far too immature and completely unprepared for the role.

I spent my childhood with nannies and in solitude—deep loneliness. There are so many aspects of life where I fall short because I lacked a father's guidance. I’m just scraping by as best I can.

This is a common pattern among men who struggle to socialize and cope with society.

Two things could have happened to us: either we turned into niggerfied criminals, or we ended up as outcasts on a forum like this one.

Everyone I saw from my generation who had a good life had their parents guiding them.

suicidefuel

 

[druid]

He stopped paying for my extra classes on my last year of highschool (most important)

Fuck him and I don't care what he did for me, if I didn't steal from him and beg my family for money I would have never afforded those classes, thus I would have failed high school and Nothing would have stopped me from killing the rotting bastard

Those classes weren't cheap, they were done by a center to help me with the very important National exams, he didn't pay shit, I will never forget that, he abandoned me financially when I needed it the most

I stole from the bastard's wallet when he was asleep, All while enduring his rotting smell of a house, I fucking hate him

I understand it's bad bro but there are worse things don't get angry over it maybe forgetting about it will make you feel less stressed

My brother had a similair issue and he was very angry with my father

My father too makes me pay everything with what I make working on summer, even though highschool is easy here idk why they sorry you and make you pass the class

 

[Ghost]

Both my parents sucked. Lmao

 

[AutistSupremacist]

Yes, I see that too now, I never understood how to start a relationship with a foid, see, they say you need to be friends with her and listen to her then confess your feelings after a while, but I always wanted love from the start, I feared being abandoned from the start, and If I didn't get what I want (this case, always), I just swear at her and block her, usually sameschool foids but I see it stems from the fact that I had a "missing" father figure, add to that an emotionally immature mother, It's truly over

Your entire life over cause your bitch of a mother couldn't rationally select a proper father for you. Genuinely hate women so much. They deserve everything bad that happens to them istg

 

[spaceace79]

Mine tried his best, but still I got no guidance

 

[chalk son]

Wasn't in my life at all growing up so I don't even remember interacting with him. Likely completely sick in the head, violent. As a child, if you looked into his eyes there was nothing being communicated or ailed to be held but the most true void unimaginable, those eyes weren't human. All I remember is him bluntly slashing me on the chest using a long steel ruler and the fact that he liked to play golf. Fucker should have just killed me that day. He also rotated his women because they'd probably leave but not to worry, there was always a broad to replace the previous one. Those bitches all looked like fawns in fast danger. He did prefer that specific phenotype. Whenever I have unbelievably repulsive thoughts I owe it to that sick fuck. I consider myself a subhuman gentleman compared to him though.

 

[nouc]

Your entire life over cause your bitch of a mother couldn't rationally select a proper father for you. Genuinely hate women so much. They deserve everything bad that happens to them istg

yes

 

[Failed Pullout]

Wasn't around both parents are genetic trash.