I slowly prepared my threapist that I wanted to talk about some taboo and difficult topics, and I mean over months I slowly talked about it, explained that I felt like a non-believer in one of the theocracy of old and so on.
Then i prepared an entire folder with studies, data, graphs, etc. I booked a double session and started very far from the core topic. I think I started with pitbuls -> more violent than any other dog breed because they were bred for fighting -> why do you think that is? maybe because of genes, right?
then the same thing with "why are men always and everywhere more violent more represented amongst violent criminals compared to women?". maybe also genes?
So you accept that maybe genes have an influence on how violent people are? ok, here are some black crime stats.
And then I had some stats prepared to counter all the typical excuses, like blacks from rich families are more violent than poor whites, same with education and anthing else.
So I blackpilled him on race realism first, not sure if he accepts it all but he doesn't argue with me and generally respects me and my opinion, as far as I can tell, and he at least admitted that he thought my ideas to be very plausible.
Incel / dating stats were way easier compared to that.
Admitting that I was a KHHV was the most difficult part about that tbh, and he said "Ah, I already could kind of guess that" afterwards.
With the woman it went similarly, though I had way more stats in my folder by then and also had ordered them such that they formed a kind of story arc. every sheet of paper has data that leads you to ask a question that the next sheet answers, though you then get a new question and so on.
Autism came in handy for this.