Experiment Did you ever have a normal social life?

[incelerated]

I wasn't sure exactly how to put the question, what I'm asking is if at any point in your life you had a proper social life like normies.

As in you acted like normies and were not the odd one in the room/group. You had multiple real life friends that you would go out with. You went to parties and events. People talked to you and you talked to people. etc.

In essence I want to know if there was any period in your life where you were socially indistinguishable from a normie.

 

[incelerated]

I personally never had a normal social life. I always hated going out, and couldn't make connections with most people. People always called me why and quiet and could tell in an instant that I'm not a normie.

 

[BlackCel_from_ZA]

I wasn't sure exactly how to put the question, what I'm asking is if at any point in your life you had a proper social life like normies.

As in you acted like normies and were not the odd one in the room/group. You had multiple real life friends that you would go out with. You went to parties and events. People talked to you and you talked to people. etc.

In essence I want to know if there was any period in your life where you were socially indistinguishable from a normie.

My real friends are my gaming buddies, I wish to meet them IRL

 

[supersoldier]

somewhat fine social life with few buddies before the age of 14

 

[incelerated]

I'm asking because without a social life you never even have opportunities to begin with.

A social life is pre-blackpill.
You have to meet people in the first place to approach them and to get rejected by them.

And it looks to me a lot of people here are in this stage. A very literal "never began" stage.

 

[Spooky_Heejin]

Not at all. I haven't hung out with a "friend" in over 9 years.

 

[GeckoBus]

I wasn't sure exactly how to put the question, what I'm asking is if at any point in your life you had a proper social life like normies.

As in you acted like normies and were not the odd one in the room/group. You had multiple real life friends that you would go out with. You went to parties and events. People talked to you and you talked to people. etc.

In essence I want to know if there was any period in your life where you were socially indistinguishable from a normie.

no, not even as a toddler.
My entire life is like a one track path, there was no before|after where I went from normal to bad
it was always bad
I knew around 7th grade that I would not make it and be homeless or something
and it actually happened.

 

[incelerated]

no, not even as a toddler.
My entire life is like a one track path, there was no before|after where I went from normal to bad
it was always bad
I knew around 7th grade that I would not make it and be homeless or something
and it actually happened.

Sorry bro

 

[GeckoBus]

Sorry bro

no its fine
i expect nothing from life really, so all of it just comes and goes

 

[edgelordcel]

No

 

[edgelordcel]

Maybe in kintegarden

 

[cripplecel]

nevER in my fucking life

 

[Autistic Uggo]

Briefly as a kid, but it disappeared as soon as I hit puberty.

 

[SoycuckGodOfReddit]

back when guys all hated foids, yeah I got along with most guys and had a few close friends

although I feel like they were mostly a waste of time tbh, I didn't really develop that much personally during that time + I barely remember anything we did together because normal people are boring shits

 

[LeFrenchCel]

Kinda, until my two best friends betrayed me and the other people in the group started doing things without me.

 

[UglyDumbass]

I wasn't sure exactly how to put the question, what I'm asking is if at any point in your life you had a proper social life like normies.

As in you acted like normies and were not the odd one in the room/group. You had multiple real life friends that you would go out with. You went to parties and events. People talked to you and you talked to people. etc.

In essence I want to know if there was any period in your life where you were socially indistinguishable from a normie.

In elementary school yes

 

[Lurkercel0]

From 9-16. I only hang out and go to parties thrice a year at most.

 

[K1ng N0th1ng]

Yes, up to middle school.
Everything went to shit there.

 

[Dusk]

No I've never had real friends.
Conveniently enough I was always the butt of every joke of my 'friend group'.
And whenever I spent time with my 'friend group' I would come home covered in bruises.
Suffice to say I was their main source of entertainment, better to just isolate at that point.

 

[Pikacel]

I was always the autistic one in the group ngl. That didn’t help my confidence at all. Seriously it’s so demeaning when you’re the weird one of the group

 

[ElTruecel]

I was going to say yes until I reas the rest of your message about going to parties & events + fully fitting in with normies. So no ig but I don’t think it’s possible for someone with my disorders to even have that by definition anyways.

I would’ve said if u just said friend group, went out with friends & socialized enough to fit in when I was younger

 

[Drinkcel]

Nope

 

[ElTruecel]

I was always the autistic one in the group ngl. That didn’t help my confidence at all. Seriously it’s so demeaning when you’re the weird one of the group

I used to be more low inhib but I was such a giga sperg JFL. But that’s how I fit in with most people however u have to deal with more people getting mad at u for ur antics. A lot of NTs will rage at an autist for what they do but it rarely happens with other NTs who act in a similar manner due to I guess the slight differences with non NTs. Like normies can tell and u are literally unable to mask it fully

 

[Incline]

I wasn't sure exactly how to put the question, what I'm asking is if at any point in your life you had a proper social life like normies.

As in you acted like normies and were not the odd one in the room/group. You had multiple real life friends that you would go out with. You went to parties and events. People talked to you and you talked to people. etc.

In essence I want to know if there was any period in your life where you were socially indistinguishable from a normie.

no

maybe when i was 6

 

[veghler]

I wasn't sure exactly how to put the question, what I'm asking is if at any point in your life you had a proper social life like normies.

As in you acted like normies and were not the odd one in the room/group. You had multiple real life friends that you would go out with. You went to parties and events. People talked to you and you talked to people. etc.

In essence I want to know if there was any period in your life where you were socially indistinguishable from a normie.

Yeah from 9-14 after that 0 and before that barely any

 

[Julaybib]

i knew i could never have one