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Did you eat school lunch alone


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Everyone was laughing, talking, and eating their food, but it felt like I wasn’t even there. I had this overwhelming feeling of being left out. No one made an effort to talk to me. A few people glanced at me, but not in a friendly way. It was more like they were judging me, wondering why I was so quiet, or maybe they thought I didn’t belong. I tried to start a conversation with the person sitting next to me, but they barely responded. It was like I was invisible to them, like nothing I did mattered. The more I tried, the worse it felt. I spent the whole lunch period trying to hide my feelings, trying not to let anyone see how hurt I was. But deep down, I knew that no matter how hard I tried, I wasn’t going to fit in with them.
 
I ate outside usually in the spring or summer watching the insects (usually the ants) I'd sometimes give them pieces of my food and watch them consume it
 
Yeah, I always ate alone.
 
I sat alone but never ate in school
 
even the autistic kids didnt want anything to do with me :worryfeels:
 
I sat with autistic people
 
even the autistic kids didnt want anything to do with me :worryfeels:
im in special education rn and still havent got a single friend and its my second year of going
 
Fakecel if you didn't
 
Of course, who would've wanted to be near me?
 
it was impossible eating it alone
 
I never brought anything to eat but since puberty I would spend the breaks in a toilet stall or hiding somewhere else. School was a miserable hell where I was constantly forced to fail at socializing in humiliating and traumatizing ways until I stopped trying and just ran.
 
I never brought anything to eat but since puberty I would spend the breaks in a toilet stall or hiding somewhere else. School was a miserable hell where I was constantly forced to fail at socializing in humiliating and traumatizing ways until I stopped trying and just ran.
Brutal
 
most of the time, sometimes standing because all the tables were taken.
 
Yeah, I usually just walked around or waited in the bathrooms
 
Ate lunch in the bathroom stall
 
In elementary school I ate lunch with the nurse for a while
 
Everyone was laughing, talking, and eating their food, but it felt like I wasn’t even there. I had this overwhelming feeling of being left out. No one made an effort to talk to me. A few people glanced at me, but not in a friendly way. It was more like they were judging me, wondering why I was so quiet, or maybe they thought I didn’t belong. I tried to start a conversation with the person sitting next to me, but they barely responded. It was like I was invisible to them, like nothing I did mattered. The more I tried, the worse it felt. I spent the whole lunch period trying to hide my feelings, trying not to let anyone see how hurt I was. But deep down, I knew that no matter how hard I tried, I wasn’t going to fit in with them.
In my school there wasn't some thing like school lunch, there wasn't a room
Everyone was laughing, talking, and eating their food, but it felt like I wasn’t even there. I had this overwhelming feeling of being left out. No one made an effort to talk to me. A few people glanced at me, but not in a friendly way. It was more like they were judging me, wondering why I was so quiet, or maybe they thought I didn’t belong. I tried to start a conversation with the person sitting next to me, but they barely responded. It was like I was invisible to them, like nothing I did mattered. The more I tried, the worse it felt. I spent the whole lunch period trying to hide my feelings, trying not to let anyone see how hurt I was. But deep down, I knew that no matter how hard I tried, I wasn’t going to fit in with them.
There was no school cafeteria in my school, but he's, I used to be alone in the recess
 
Everyone was laughing, talking, and eating their food, but it felt like I wasn’t even there. I had this overwhelming feeling of being left out. No one made an effort to talk to me. A few people glanced at me, but not in a friendly way. It was more like they were judging me, wondering why I was so quiet, or maybe they thought I didn’t belong. I tried to start a conversation with the person sitting next to me, but they barely responded. It was like I was invisible to them, like nothing I did mattered. The more I tried, the worse it felt. I spent the whole lunch period trying to hide my feelings, trying not to let anyone see how hurt I was. But deep down, I knew that no matter how hard I tried, I wasn’t going to fit in with them.
Same. I'm happy I don't have to go through that shit anymore. Public displays of loneliness make me want to kms
 
Schoolchildren.is
 
Yeah, I usually just walked around or waited in the bathrooms
Same here. Never ate or went to the lunchroom cause it would be too embarassing sitting alone. I would wander the halls until the period was over typically
 
Only the first 2 years of secondary school
 
In elementary and middle school no but in highschool at first I ate alone then I would go to the library and play games on the computer so no one would see me.
 
Ya. It was difficult finding a seat to eat. So what I often did was this. We had a 1-hour lunch break. I would spend the first 30 minutes inside the classroom. Most of the students would be eating at this time. Then in the last 30 minutes I would eat lunch. This way, there would be a lot of seats available and I wouldn't have any trouble finding one.

I tried to join a group of friends for lunch. I considered them my friends. But they didn't really accept me. I was the only one pushing myself to be with them. Originally I thought they just didn't want to be congested on the table. But eventually, they added two more people to the group. So I found out that space was never really the issue but they just rejected me. The very people I considered my friends, even they didn't want me!
 
Sometimes, depends on who I had lunch with.
I had a few close friends in highschool that I would eat with if we had the same shift.
 
 
One time somebody stole my seat at lunch when I was dumping my tray and the teachers yelled at me like “find your seat. You know that circular disk you were sitting on” what a bullshit deal. And other times I set with this retarted dude who I found out molested his brother and this girl with autism who didn’t talk.
 

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