It's always good to remember that psychological flaws are actually extremely common, people are neurotic messes who argue and get abusive over trivial things. Relationships are full of arguments like this shit. She moved out of her moms house so his neuroticism went in to overdrive and he became abusive. Something insane and completely trivial. She still wants to be friends too. But they're attractive enough that it doesn't matter. She couldn't see this deep seated misogyny and defeatism until now in retrospect, but the girls you approach are definitely doing a deep psychological analysis using 1 billion datapoints from your microexpressions and body language.
Just compare how this woman chased this guy to the advice ugly people get. We are lead to believe that we must overcome the existential separation of people to love ourselves entirely, we must overcome the concept of loneliness and be happy with nobody else, we must become monks who never share negative thoughts and let them slide away. That is what we must do to get a single woman to want to talk to us or enjoy being with us. It's all bullshit. Imagine if your problems were as simple as not getting worked up about your girlfriend improving her life and not getting resentful, these are the bullshit problems therapists actually deal with and fix.
If you're unattractive you are not enjoyable to be around, you are worthless and disgusting. If you're attractive everything will be forgiven because you're pleasant to look at. We have no place in the world of casual social interaction as ugly people.
