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Serious Debunking the bluepill advice of "Theres someone for everyone, just wait and you will find it"

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Despite the fact that going to therapy doesn't help help in any way atleast the most harm it can do is lose thousands of dollars, few days of time and being seen as a clown. It's nothing to the decades you can squander by trusting the advice of
"theres someone for everyone, just wait until you find that person"

The saying is wrong, and it exists only because sexhavers say that. Truecels who didn't find their mate, rotted away silently and didn't have kids to pass that bluepill lie on.

It's sort like natural version of war, where one country wins war over another, commits war crimes, but all soldiers on the losing side get shot against the wall, so no one can tell the brutalities of what happened and winners write the history with them being the good guys

Second reason is about assumption that as time goes on you will experience more chances, as if you're metaphorically rerolling slot machine until you eventually win
It's wrong once again. No matter how healthy food you eat and how good exercise routine you implement your health will only deteriorate if you don't have sex (yes I know it's water and that everyone here can attest to this.)
(I have much more to say about this, but that would drift away from the topic of this post. I will write essay explaining this in depth soon)

Third reason is that, unlike women, you won't even be seen as human unless you are accepted by other opposite gender. This only gets worse as time goes on
Even if women are shy, autistic, quirky or with other communication problems, they can get sex regardless and relationship if they have redeemable qualities their potential husband wants. Virginity is a virtue and not being in relationships—an upside.

For men however, being kissless at about 13 and sexless at about 16 gets women to avoid you, exponentially worsening at with every year. Your practical skills, talents and kind heart doesn't matter, because by the time women find out your "other women don't want this" status, it's over. As much as IT try to paint an image of very empathetic community, they're not able to hide how much they despise 28 year KHHV telling him "there's probably a reason women avoid you" at best, but most realistically accusing him of being pedophile, maniac, and sex offender
 
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Quite evident; simply the state of modern hypergamy and foid privilege, allowing even the LTBs and subhuman-tier foids to get with their local MTN or desperate LTN, and increasing the disadvantage and subsequent discrimination and negative treatment towards sub 5 male, all the while whining about the "patriarchy" or some sort of nonexistent oppression... :feelsclown:

Might have been true in an age where foids usually weren't that hypergamous or were married away by means of arranged marriage, but now sub 5 males absolutely can't even get even sub 4 landwhales who can easily find a normie on online dating websites, a world where Beckies feel fully entitled to 6'2 Chad; it's just more delusional gaslighting, I don't even know if they truly believe what they say to neuter possible blackpill swallowers. :feelsclown:
 
There's more (young) men than women. Simple maths tells that there's not someone for everyone, and even if there were more women, they still want the 6 feet tall handsome six figure Chad anyway.
 
There is noone out there u have to have lil standards, if this is true why chads fuck around all whores and we get nothing left
Logical
Noone wants to breed with us
 
The saying should be "there's someone for every chad. just wait until he finds that foid and every other foid he wants."
 
The saying probably only applied to niggas in the 1800s when your whole dating pool was your town of 12 people lol
 
you typical foid would rather spend 20 years in queues with hundreds of other foids for the chance of getting a one-night-stand with a Chad

than owning a normie husband-slave pet cuck.

in fact, foids know they can spend 20 years fucking random Chads because there will always be a betabuxx at the end of the cock-carousel roastbeef-curtain tunnel.
 
Unreasonable reply, very decent OP actually.
Despite the fact that going to therapy doesn't help help in any way atleast the most harm it can do is lose thousands of dollars, few days of time and being seen as a clown. It's nothing to the decades you can squander by trusting the advice of
"theres someone for everyone, just wait until you find that person"

The saying is wrong, and it exists only because sexhavers say that. Truecels who didn't find their mate, rotted away silently and didn't have kids to pass that bluepill lie on.

It's sort like natural version of war, where one country wins war over another, commits war crimes, but all soldiers on the losing side get shot against the wall, so no one can tell the brutalities of what happened and winners write the history with them being the good guys
I especially like this part of your post, there is a huge issue with confirmation bias, people will simply discredit your experiences because they themselves have not made them and not discrediting those experiences tempers with their just world fallacy. History is written by the winners is the perfect analogy for this, all the more is respect of that those who are the victims of warcrimes usually cant attest to them anymore. As incels, we are the eternal losers, our experiences dont get passed on and only the victors side of the story, sexhaver side of the story, remains.
So yes "theres someone for everyone, just wait until you find that person" is true, it was true for our parents and will always remain true since that will be the reality of every generation that comes after.
 

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