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mylifeistrash

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It's why it's fucking dumb to interact with women as a non-chad. You'll always be a dancing monkey who'll they treat like like a man servant who isn't good enough to be around them.

If you're ugly, friends or social circles will just use you as a jester to bully and make fun of to increase their own standing.

Overall, if you're not benefiting greatly from human interaction, you're dealing with a lot of stress and pain for nothing.

Unless you have a huge advantage (chad looks or some sort of power over them), you're better off alone.
 
Aside from the sub8 bullshit I agree with your overall statement
 
If you're ugly, you always have to put in more than you will get out. Or in other words: You have to give people a reason why they should deal with you. That's why social interactions are so strenous for us.
 
Women (when looking for potential sexual relations)
-completely ignore me

Men (when looking for friends)
-keep me close enough just to shit on me and use me as a punching bag and never give me any respect or try to help build me up at all, keeping me around as a play thing to fuck around with


It is sad because I've never actually experienced the benefits of what people say when they talk about having friends and a girlfriend and I'm in my early 30s now, so it's already over. Its not like I am 15 years old or something and can suddenly late-bloom by 20 or 25, being 30+ it's over for me.


This is why I structure my life around being 100% isolated. I'm at a point where the way I live life day to day where it is 100% based on me and me only. If I was to have a friend(s) or girlfriend now, it would require me to completely change how I live my life and deal with things.
 
just give up and LDAR theory bro
 
based post, OP
 
Normies get something out of it fast and then quickly reduce their dealing with people to the minimum once they got it, a favour, a mate, establishing good relations at work, whatever it is.

Incels try to "game the system" and get something out of socializing in and of itself, even though the prizes are unavailable to them, so they sit around dragging it out, being surprised that "wow, this kinda sucks", dragging things out and always being the last guy to leave the party and go home.
 
It's why it's fucking dumb to interact with women as a non-chad. You'll always be a dancing monkey who'll they treat like like a man servant who isn't good enough to be around them.

If you're ugly, friends or social circles will just use you as a jester to bully and make fun of to increase their own standing.

Overall, if you're not benefiting greatly from human interaction, you're dealing with a lot of stress and pain for nothing.

Unless you have a huge advantage (chad looks or some sort of power over them), you're better off alone.
Exactly my thoughts. This is the fucking truth man. Nobody gives a fuck about us in this unfair and nasty world of bad taste retards. Being alone is ironically the best fate of an ALWAYS NEGLECTED incel unless of course a cunt wants to ACTUALLY change that by getting with him(which is never going to happen).
 
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It's why it's fucking dumb to interact with women as a non-chad. You'll always be a dancing monkey who'll they treat like like a man servant who isn't good enough to be around them.

If you're ugly, friends or social circles will just use you as a jester to bully and make fun of to increase their own standing.

Overall, if you're not benefiting greatly from human interaction, you're dealing with a lot of stress and pain for nothing.

Unless you have a huge advantage (chad looks or some sort of power over them), you're better off alone.
You need friends, tbh.
Ideally, you'd have 1 or 2 very close friends that you hang out with regularly. Then, a handful of more distant friends that you talk to on the phone once a month, or so. And, finally a lot of acquaintances that you say hello to, or chat with occasionally.
 
This is why most incels are socially isolated. Contrary to popular belief, most do not have bad social skills, rather we are socially aware enough of the fact that there are hardly any benefits in typical human interaction.
 
Only time ppl treated me like a normal person is when I made the most funny jokes. No other interest, not in what I'm going to do on the weekend or what I think or feel. Not even when I helped them with schoolwork.
 
Women (when looking for potential sexual relations)
-completely ignore me

Men (when looking for friends)
-keep me close enough just to shit on me and use me as a punching bag and never give me any respect or try to help build me up at all, keeping me around as a play thing to fuck around with


It is sad because I've never actually experienced the benefits of what people say when they talk about having friends and a girlfriend and I'm in my early 30s now, so it's already over. Its not like I am 15 years old or something and can suddenly late-bloom by 20 or 25, being 30+ it's over for me.


This is why I structure my life around being 100% isolated. I'm at a point where the way I live life day to day where it is 100% based on me and me only. If I was to have a friend(s) or girlfriend now, it would require me to completely change how I live my life and deal with things.
I hate normshits who keep low status dudes around as punching bags and ego boosts. Don't do that to yourself
 
I've met women who are friendly with me. But every single time there is absolutely ZERO attraction from their POV. They have never considered me as someone they could date or fuck. When a decent/good looking guy is around they give him signs of interest, the vibe is completely different.

It's like we're in a simulation and somehow my character is glitched, everything that has to do with attraction is turned off for my character.

That's the soul crushing part: being able to interact with women but knowing damn well from experience that not a single woman will ever, EVER, want something to do with you romantically.
 
Getting a woman is pointless if you have to constantly entertain her for her to stay with you. What kind of life is that?
 
Its possible to find a cool group of people too but very very hard as an incel.
 

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