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Question for incels who managed to go on dates without ascending. How long did it usually take before the foid decided to go on a date with you? How many conversations online did it take? How many days? Weeks? Since you registrered or started talking with them online.
 
my only date was a blind date through a music site after chatting for a few months. I wasn't the tall goth bf she fantasized about.
 
Haven't had any dates
 
my only date was a blind date through a music site after chatting for a few months. I wasn't the tall goth bf she fantasized about.
How did it go?

Was extremely disgusted with you or did she just try to play nice?
 
my only date was a blind date through a music site after chatting for a few months. I wasn't the tall goth bf she fantasized about.
A few months, wow. That's a long time. I'm impressed you actually had the patient to keep chatting with her for that long in order to meet her.
 
Lilwonkycliffy53
 
How did it go?

Was extremely disgusted with you or did she just try to play nice?
It was ok, there was actually a second date but I never saw her since. I wanted a 3rd date at least 5 times but was always shot down. But that was 16 years ago and she's still single, waiting for chad. I asked if she ever actually considered me as a potential bf, and she said "very briefly", don't know if that window was in the 1st or 2nd date, I should've asked.
 
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Depends, but something like 2 weeks on average iirc.
 
So many people wtf, how do you niggas do it.
 
datehavers.is
 
I don't even understand what the fuck a date even is
 
I don't even understand what the fuck a date even is
Basically a foid agrees to meet you irl, actually shows up and doesn't leave.
 
What do you even do on a date
Depends. Examples of what I've already done:
  • Restaurant (common first date)
  • Walk
  • Tango lesson
  • Climbing
  • Going to my/her place
 
Though it must be shit if you constantly get reminded that they don't actually want anything with you, and might just be using you for free food or something.
You're not thinking about it at the time, but afterwards yes. :feelsbadman:
 
I don't even understand what the fuck a date even is
Dates and dating is a retarded foid worshipping ritual invented by retarded romantiscism era germanic simps to replace the noble concept of forced marriages. They are the primary reason, why people believe in bullshit like matching personalitites, etc
 
Well I went to only one foid's apartment, but she wasn't attractive. And only one foid came to mine, but she didn't want to have sex before marriage.
 
Dates and dating is a retarded foid worshipping ritual invented by retarded romantiscism era germanic simps to replace the noble concept of forced marriages. They are the primary reason, why people believe in bullshit like matching personalitites, etc
ofc, westoid cucks ruining soyciety
 
Depends. Examples of what I've already done:
  • Restaurant (common first date)
  • Walk
  • Tango lesson
  • Climbing
  • Going to my/her place
Climbing sounds fun as hell. Also I've heard climbers are really strong, so it's a good exercise too.
 
Climbing sounds fun as hell. Also I've heard climbers are really strong, so it's a good exercise too.
It was her first time, so I taught her the basics.
 
Depends, but something like 2 weeks on average iirc.
wow. You truly are motivating me, i'm impressed. Did you chat with each other every day or once a week or how often before the date?

Dates and dating is a retarded foid worshipping ritual invented by retarded romantiscism era germanic simps to replace the noble concept of forced marriages. They are the primary reason, why people believe in bullshit like matching personalitites, etc
Wow. Dating is so modern. Has only existed for roughly 130 years, i didn't know that. Just like most things that are bad has only existed for 100 years.

Dating1

Dating2

Dating3
 
Did you chat with each other every day or once a week or how often before the date?
Everyday. Never managed to get a date when she let more than 24 hours before replying.
 
Everyday. Never managed to get a date when she let more than 24 hours before replying.
So if a foid ghosted you for more than 24hrs it was basically over? Just move on to the next one. Good to know.
 
So if a foid ghosted you for more than 24hrs it was basically over? Just move on to the next one. Good to know.
Yep. Some other red flags:
  • Short replies
  • Not answering your questions
  • Answering your questions but not asking you back
  • Asking you back but just mirroring what you asked her
  • Not asking you relationship-oriented questions
 
Yep. Some other red flags:
  • Short replies
  • Not answering your questions
  • Answering your questions but not asking you back
  • Asking you back but just mirroring what you asked her
  • Not asking you relationship-oriented questions
It was 15 years ago since i was on a dating site and i remember that i always got ghosted after 5 messages or so. Also a red flag? Probably the biggest red flag right? Should i even bother anymore when that happens? Just move on to the next one? There's no chance in hell the foid is gonna continue after ghosting. She probably has 20 other guys she chats with simultaneously.
 
There's no chance in hell the foid is gonna continue after ghosting. She probably has 20 other guys she chats with simultaneously.
You answered your own question.
If she doesn't seem interested, she's likely not.
 
Hold on, I'm gonna make a poll
 
wait years for a date with anyone not fat and then get ghosted
 
So many people wtf, how do you niggas do it.
right? Even among us subhumans there’s a hierarchy where some cels are good enough to receive crumbs of attention for provision, and others get absolutely nothing at all.
 
Never have, and possibly never will
 
It was ok, there was actually a second date but I never saw her since. I wanted a 3rd date at least 5 times but was always shot down. But that was 16 years ago and she's still single, waiting for chad. I asked if she ever actually considered me as a potential bf, and she said "very briefly", don't know if that window was in the 1st or 2nd date, I should've asked.
16 years ago?????? wtf? SHE is the one who should feel lucky to get you. How old is she now? Can she even still get pregnant?
 
Never been on a date tho
 
16 years ago?????? wtf? SHE is the one who should feel lucky to get you. How old is she now? Can she even still get pregnant?
She's 31 now, definitely hit the wall. Classic cat lady spinster. I actually told her she would end up alone with her attitude when she rejected me xD
 
Question for incels who managed to go on dates without ascending. How long did it usually take before the foid decided to go on a date with you? How many conversations online did it take? How many days? Weeks? Since you registrered or started talking with them online.
I am 45 and lifetime dateless
 

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