Soy dating subreddits are hilariously retarded

[deleted fren]

Whenever someone posts a link to a dating subreddit, it's both hilarious and depressing how blatantly unaware they are of how reality works. The men on those subreddits complain about being ghosted or their exes breaking up with them. In their eyes that's just how dating works. They enter a relationship every blue moon, barely have sex, she eventually leaves them, they go into a long stretch of being completely ignored on dating apps, and if they're "lucky" they get used again.

Meanwhile, the women on those subreddits are complaining about most men being unattractive, leaving exes because they weren't attractive enough, and crushes they have on extremely attractive men.

At some point you have to have some dignity and throw in the towel. These idiots are so fucking unaware it's hilarious. "Attractiveness is subjective" is their biggest cope. They tell themselves that eventually a woman will treat them how they treat attractive men.

Truly a sad pathetic existence!

 

[Epedaphic]

I don't get how the men on those websites can keep going through all the effort and rejection and not look for some kind of explanation of why things are the way they are. They just blindly accept that "I need to try harder" and keep going, and keep complaining about not getting results, as if thinking "if only i discover that ONE thing that my dating profile is missing, I'll get more matches! I'll ask reddit!"

I was like that years ago, I thought the problem was me, that i didn't have enough "fun pictures" or I needed to write more in my profile to show more about my personality. No, I did all of that, the issue was things like my skin color, my height, my face. But, to say that women are racist, heightist, or lookist, is simply not acceptable in modern dialogue, because not letting them get away with these things doesn't keep the machine going.

 

[The Scarlet Prince]

I don't get how the men on those websites can keep going through all the effort and rejection and not look for some kind of explanation of why things are the way they are. They just blindly accept that "I need to try harder" and keep going, and keep complaining about not getting results, as if thinking "if only i discover that ONE thing that my dating profile is missing, I'll get more matches! I'll ask reddit!"

I was like that years ago, I thought the problem was me, that i didn't have enough "fun pictures" or I needed to write more in my profile to show more about my personality. No, I did all of that, the issue was things like my skin color, my height, my face. But, to say that women are racist, heightist, or lookist, is simply not acceptable in modern dialogue, because not letting them get away with these things doesn't keep the machine going.

Seems rather tiring...

 

[Disgust]

I don't get how the men on those websites can keep going through all the effort and rejection and not look for some kind of explanation of why things are the way they are. They just blindly accept that "I need to try harder" and keep going, and keep complaining about not getting results, as if thinking "if only i discover that ONE thing that my dating profile is missing, I'll get more matches! I'll ask reddit!"

I was like that years ago, I thought the problem was me, that i didn't have enough "fun pictures" or I needed to write more in my profile to show more about my personality. No, I did all of that, the issue was things like my skin color, my height, my face. But, to say that women are racist, heightist, or lookist, is simply not acceptable in modern dialogue, because not letting them get away with these things doesn't keep the machine going.

normie males are low sentience creatures and cannout question beyond their programming.

 

[Epedaphic]

Seems rather tiring...

I wouldn't recommend online dating to anyone, or at least just try it once, and accept that your results in the first few weeks or the first month is just how it's gonna be for you on there, don't keep changing things and going back.

Online dating works for the top 20% guys, if you're not in that category, there's an extremely low chance it will work for you, so low that it's not worth the massive time, effort, and emotional drain that you would need to put in for just that chance.

Also, if you are not in that category, you are subsidizing the app for literally everyone else - the top 20% guys and all the women on there. Through keeping you swiping on that app, keeping you hoping, keeping you tired and drained - or, in modern terms, through keeping you engaged - they are advertising enough to you to keep the app alive for the benefit of those other populations.