Women will always have options, no matter the timeline we live in.
That´s why I don´t even put myself out there, cause effort is futile.
I see no point in even trying, I have no will to even try and genuinely feel indifferent towards all of it.
My interest levels are near 0.
People keep praising the past, as if it was a land of milk, honey and perfection. But that is far from the truth.
The real problem is human nature. If people in the 1800s had access to the same things we have access to today,
then those people and its society would be facing the same predicament, that we currently face today.
In other words, human nature itself is incapable of monogamy, loyalty and long lasting bonds.
When you observe todays environment around you, you notice that there are always multiple suitors in the picture, you are never the only one.
You will often see how most of society, even in the past, loved those ´multiple lovers´ drama movies. Being degenerate is in the nature of a human. Humans are not monogamous, but polyamorous, always eager to keep options open, always open to try a different flavor.
Most people crave emotional volatility, and find a monotoneous connetion boring. No matter the sweet words of the wife claiming how much she ´loves her husband´, she will eventually explore other oppertunities cause humans thrive on dopamine. Even if her husband, according to her, is ´exactly her type´.
And I find it cucked to ´put myself out there´ in such an environment, I am unwilling to put myself out there, knowing that this is the reality and what awaits us. It makes me want to stay single, and sometimes I do think that I am better off browsing through this forum, than ´going out there´. That´s cause I do not believe in the ´FOMO´ or ´Fear of missing out´ concept.
The only thing you are missing out on, seems to be betrayal, drama, cheating and whatnot.
The thread reeks of old water for most people on this forum,
but such threads will always remind other less informed individuals,
that this earth is one big joke and a comedy.