He's a disingenuous clown who is perfectly happy telling you that you need to build yourself up to become worthy of getting a woman, meanwhile he slayed as a teenager. The same guy telling you to work hard, and who could easily attract women in youth, well he evidently couldn't find someone who'd be worth marrying in his home country. My problem with him in this regard is his refusal to be honest about behavior, actions, and words being utterly irrelevant, and his failure to recognize female sexual selection as the dysgenic destroyer of civilization that it is. My response here isn't motivated by self-interest either, as I don't think there is a single good argument in favor of me ever reproducing, and I totally believe that I shouldn't.
I'll leave you with this question. Do you believe that the right to reproduce should be granted to people who actually build something of value for the society around them, and people who build a solid foundation for their offspring, or people whose physical appearance isn't a correlate to disease and a poor response to testosterone? Of course this is the same guy who wants us to return to living in mud huts, so maybe he genuinely believes in the candidacy of the latter.