You got it backwards. Society loves incels and hates sex. It's individuals who hate incels and loves Chad. The halo effect only works in person -- not in the abstract. It's also why people over the internet can't sympathize with incels. They start thinking in abstract, general terms. They picture what they think is an average guy (actually an above average guy) and imagine it's only his personality holding him back. Whereas if they met any of you in person, they'd be so offput by your fugly appearance they would realize how screwed you truly are. So in general, society is fine with you -- probably hopes the best for you. It's the people you immediately interact with who hate you.