I'm just watching the eloquent vid from the post that @NeetSupremacist made today.
The guy in the vid talks about a crush he used to have on a girl who represented according to him all the most laudable aspects and values of feminity, or more generally, human behavior (socially conscious, open minded, interested in history, interested in different culture, French, ...) until the very end where he discovers her "true nature".
Would you say your crush (or oneitis) held highly attractive values ? Was it really the case ? Did you chose her because of that ? Or in the contrary, are you only attracted by wicked personnalities ? Why ?
Let's share my own story.
My crush was interested in subject that didn't interested me, and she wasn't that open minded to be honest. She was rather high IQ and prosaic, and had no real interest in cultural things or stuffs that really moved me. But still, I felt a bizarre attraction toward this girl, who wasn't even the kind of girl who openly dress in a way that means "I want to get in couple quick before leaving high school". I do have a fetish on certain kind of cloths though (like every dude tbh), but I realized afterward she never ever wore such cloths.
My attraction to her was based on frustration, wether it was psychological or sexual (on a symbolic level). And I think it has a lot to do with the very complicated relation I have with the woman that brought me to birth (I can't even say mother without feeling weird honestly). I might only be attracted to girls I will never be able to "love", the way normies do it.
Feel free to share your own story.
The guy in the vid talks about a crush he used to have on a girl who represented according to him all the most laudable aspects and values of feminity, or more generally, human behavior (socially conscious, open minded, interested in history, interested in different culture, French, ...) until the very end where he discovers her "true nature".
Would you say your crush (or oneitis) held highly attractive values ? Was it really the case ? Did you chose her because of that ? Or in the contrary, are you only attracted by wicked personnalities ? Why ?
Let's share my own story.
My crush was interested in subject that didn't interested me, and she wasn't that open minded to be honest. She was rather high IQ and prosaic, and had no real interest in cultural things or stuffs that really moved me. But still, I felt a bizarre attraction toward this girl, who wasn't even the kind of girl who openly dress in a way that means "I want to get in couple quick before leaving high school". I do have a fetish on certain kind of cloths though (like every dude tbh), but I realized afterward she never ever wore such cloths.
My attraction to her was based on frustration, wether it was psychological or sexual (on a symbolic level). And I think it has a lot to do with the very complicated relation I have with the woman that brought me to birth (I can't even say mother without feeling weird honestly). I might only be attracted to girls I will never be able to "love", the way normies do it.
Feel free to share your own story.
